Bw in South Africa
From my personal experience bw are the worst, one of my housemates who is dating a wm has gone out of her way to try and destroy my life. Apart from being a hypocrite, she goes out of her way to try and inconvenience me as much she can. She steals my food, locks the sliding door from the inside etc. First she tried to convince me that I was racist because I wasn't attracted to her. Then she tried to convince the ww who are my friends that I was racist. When that didn't work she tried lying about me and trying to make me feel guilty with the usual arguements bw make. One night when she thought I was too drunk to remember she accused me of trying to rape her and wanted to use it to gain power over me. Her story changed 3 times then it became "I may have overreacted because I was raped before."
I wish this was an isolated incident, but it wasn't, whenever a bw sees me with a ww, they will give me looks and sometimes even interupt our conversation. The ww don't wanna be called racist so they allow it whereas I have no time for that. 2 bw arrived at my house with one of them suggesting that I should date her friend instead of ww I was seeing.
4 bw have tried to use witchcraft on me over the past year. Regardless of whether it's real or not, just the idea of someone trying to do such a thing puts me off. Bw go out at night specifically to cockblock bm and ww I and my friends have noticed it and have developed a system to prevent it, it's gotten that bad.
I'm sick of them because they make these guilt and shaming arguments to force bm into dating them. Your mom is black, you've lost your roots etc. In general they treat bm poorly at least where I live and expect us to put up with it. They will talk about how attractive some wm is then in the same breath condemn bm for doing the same. I've also noticed a trend of bw trying to get knocked up by my friends who date both black and white. Deliberately getting pregnant to baby trap them. It's not racism it's bw, it's unpleasant to be around them but they don't want to change. Some listen to my advice and other who cannot accept the truth or responsibility try to destroy me.
I think it's pathetic that bw behave like this. Are you/they really content with someone being with them so as to avoid being called a racist. Is it really okay to destroy someone's happiness just because your life sucks? How sad is that.
Being completely honest I noticed that I wasn't attracted to bw when I was 10 and I know that I'm not alone on this, more and more bm are starting to be more vocal about it. Some don't even understand it. A friend of mine who only dates bw says that racism has made him not attracted to bw but he still dates them. He told me that it takes a while for him to find bw attractive that he has to consciously try. For me it's the same as a gay man. You wouldn't judge a gay man for not liking you, he is just not attracted to you and I am the same.
Bw are just jealous of ww end of story. Never dated a bw and never will. This is not hate speech, if you can see it, it's advice and my opinion.
From my personal experience bw are the worst, one of my housemates who is dating a wm has gone out of her way to try and destroy my life. Apart from being a hypocrite, she goes out of her way to try and inconvenience me as much she can. She steals my food, locks the sliding door from the inside etc. First she tried to convince me that I was racist because I wasn't attracted to her. Then she tried to convince the ww who are my friends that I was racist. When that didn't work she tried lying about me and trying to make me feel guilty with the usual arguements bw make. One night when she thought I was too drunk to remember she accused me of trying to rape her and wanted to use it to gain power over me. Her story changed 3 times then it became "I may have overreacted because I was raped before."
I wish this was an isolated incident, but it wasn't, whenever a bw sees me with a ww, they will give me looks and sometimes even interupt our conversation. The ww don't wanna be called racist so they allow it whereas I have no time for that. 2 bw arrived at my house with one of them suggesting that I should date her friend instead of ww I was seeing.
4 bw have tried to use witchcraft on me over the past year. Regardless of whether it's real or not, just the idea of someone trying to do such a thing puts me off. Bw go out at night specifically to cockblock bm and ww I and my friends have noticed it and have developed a system to prevent it, it's gotten that bad.
I'm sick of them because they make these guilt and shaming arguments to force bm into dating them. Your mom is black, you've lost your roots etc. In general they treat bm poorly at least where I live and expect us to put up with it. They will talk about how attractive some wm is then in the same breath condemn bm for doing the same. I've also noticed a trend of bw trying to get knocked up by my friends who date both black and white. Deliberately getting pregnant to baby trap them. It's not racism it's bw, it's unpleasant to be around them but they don't want to change. Some listen to my advice and other who cannot accept the truth or responsibility try to destroy me.
I think it's pathetic that bw behave like this. Are you/they really content with someone being with them so as to avoid being called a racist. Is it really okay to destroy someone's happiness just because your life sucks? How sad is that.
Being completely honest I noticed that I wasn't attracted to bw when I was 10 and I know that I'm not alone on this, more and more bm are starting to be more vocal about it. Some don't even understand it. A friend of mine who only dates bw says that racism has made him not attracted to bw but he still dates them. He told me that it takes a while for him to find bw attractive that he has to consciously try. For me it's the same as a gay man. You wouldn't judge a gay man for not liking you, he is just not attracted to you and I am the same.
Bw are just jealous of ww end of story. Never dated a bw and never will. This is not hate speech, if you can see it, it's advice and my opinion.
