Man Hits Woman - Was he Right ? Or Wrong ?

In the eyes of society, I completely agree with you. I was simply stating that my personal feelings about these videos are not gender based. That's all.

 

The sad part is, I bet some would. I'm a ww raising biracial kids (2 of them boys) and even Im clear enough on the racial injustice in this country to raise my boys smarter than that. Heaven help these boys being raised otherwise.

 

Oh, ok. That makes complete sense. Thank you for clarifying.

 

I and my son's mother raise our sons if someone hits you, hit them back no matter the gender. My mother tells them this and so does my girlfriend.

Abusive women is a huge problem and its people like you who don't see it as a problem which condones these women behavior.

 

Sorry raider but you was absolute . I said it before and I'll say it again.

Keep your hands to yourself

If a woman puts her hands on a dude then she opens herself to an ass whipping.

Should I explain to you the thought process of a fight...well at least for me?

 

Exactly. Men get abused all kinds of way. Example jayz in the elevator. That's domestic violence.

 

Well said, the two videos are very different. Hope you and yours had a great Holdiay Raider!

 

They are your kids and you have the right to raise them anyway you see fit, I just hope you are aware of the potential legal ramifications that can come along with teaching them such a mindset.

 

Everyone is aware of the legal ramifications against a man but you're also saying to women that its legal to kick a mans ass

 

Damn. I guess we live in completely different worlds. I find it strange that you'd have to tell your son to "hit them back no matter what the gender". Also find it absurd that you'd say physically abusive women are a "huge problem".

I guess all I can say is unless violent women are a "huge problem" in your life, there are bigger fights to fight and more productive ways to respond to a shove and love tap from a female half your size than a round house punch. And if violent women are indeed a "huge problem" in your life, I'm not the one to comment because that's way beyond my sphere of experience.

I've been around a bit, and I'm just not seeing this "huge problem". Maybe I got it all wrong. :^/

 

You don't read or watch the news much do you?

 

NO that is not what im saying AT ALL, if a woman attacks you, but you are in no immediate danger, like the first video, the BEST thing to do is to leave immediately, file a police report, collect evidence and prosecute. As I said in an earlier post, if the football player had done that, he would not have lost a year of his scholarship, his future draft position and $ would not have been affected, *he* could have sued *her* in civil court with the potential for monetary gain, instead of the other way around like it is now, he would NOT have a criminal record, *she* would. MUCH smarter way to make sure that "she doesn't get away with it", and suffers consequences for her way out of line behavior. There are in fact remedies WITHIN the law that men can take against women in such situations, IF they use their brains instead of their brawn.

 

You're "aware of the legal ramifications" but are OK with sacrificing your child's freedom and future by promoting that any woman deserves "an ass whooping" if she touches him? Can you seriously not see the gigantic disconnect there?

Loki has said my exact feelings on this tropic so much more eloquently than I ever could, so I'll just leave you to read and reflect on his posts.

 

Thank you so much Loki, it was lovely <3

 

guess I'm watching the wrong kinda news. lol. Are women beating men's asses all over the news these days?

Look -- it's just not happening like that guys. Women are not attacking men all over the news. I barely watch local news where they might carry stupid shit like that, but I will state right here & now that it is not happening.

It is not a "huge problem". Maybe it hurts you guys whenever it does happen. But no -- stop making shit up in feline-style effort to "win the argument". It is not a huge problem, and you know it. :^)

 

They've got to be going just for arguments sake at this point. I can't imagine ANY parent risking their child's future and safety by endorsing unjustified violence. It makes absolutely no sense. Ego once again wins out over common sense here. Smh

 

Don't even try it. You know good and well we were talking more than that situation. I was and have been saying that if a woman put her hands on you defend yourself.

You surely don't get it. If someone put hands on you they are trying to inflect pain. Period.

When you fight...you fight to live for another day.

 

Ego? Really? Smh

 

What...the...hell...are...you...talking about?!?!?!?!?!?!? We have been talking about the first video for many pages now. I have CLEARLY stated that not every situation is the same, and that in some cases retaliatory violence could be very well justifiable and legal. When you make blanket statements like you did above "if a woman put(s) her hands on you defend yourself", you are making a blanket statement that could bring about life altering legal consequences. Im at a loss with what to make of you GL, truly.

 

But you aren't saying to defend yourself, you're talking about ass whoopings. Loki and I spoke of legal defense, you spoke of anyone laying a finger on you deserving an all out ass whooping. Huge difference.