Man Hits Woman - Was he Right ? Or Wrong ?

[Beasty]

Didn't watch the video, but personally I would do everything possible to avoid hitting a woman simply because the last time I punched someone in the face I wasn't nearly as strong as I am now. Don't really know how much damage I would do. With that said I do have my limits.

The caveat is that if two or more women are attacking me then tuff luck for them. I'm hitting back and with full force because I know one of them could blind side me with a weapon.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

"Yeah she did put her hands on him first, but he is clearly stronger and CLEARLY can pack more power, I would of chose a different tactic."

That right there should have given her indication NOT to put her hand on him, let alone his face, that's pushing it too far. If a 5'8" 130 pound male put his hand on the face of a man 6'2" and 100 pounds heavier, and that 6 footer punched his lights out, would we be even having this conversation miss?

"she hit him first I don't believe in going around hitting women"

I believe in egalitarianism, something I think many 'feminist' have an allergy towards, I don't believe anyone male/female should initiative violence. It's a shame that in almost every culture that defending oneself against a women is not acceptable UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE yet beating children in the name of 'obedience' is still a universal concept despite the fact that a child's brain is not fully developed yet a grown women is more than capable of understanding that assaulting someone could in theory get you hurt.

Pretty much. Knowing the backstory behind this she sustained some pretty serious injuries after he hit her because she hit the table on the way down and that's unfortunate. Thankfully she survived and she's okay. And in the future now that he knows his own strength Mixon will probably just choose to restrain or walk away in the future. But she put her hands on him first so she's just as wrong as he is, if not more so. She may not have been arrested but despite that, or the fact that she's a woman, or the fact that she's maybe half his size, she had absolutely no right to put her hands on him. At all. Full stop.

She probably felt like she could swing on him without retaliation because she's probably done it before plenty of times and gotten that same result. Abusers keep abusing because they know that they can get away with it. Hopefully they both learned some important lessons from this: he learns that nine times out of ten it's better to just walk away from an encounter and she learns that being a woman doesn't give her a license to put her hands on anybody without expecting them to retaliate.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

This. I agree with him hitting her back but with the way society is and him being black, the shit fucked him over. I wouldn't hit her back but won't fault another person for doing it.

That's my approach to it. I would have called the police and filed a report against her because what she did was misdemeanor battery. If she can't handle problems without resorting to violence then a few days in jail, a year or so on probation, and some anger management classes might be exactly what she needs to start acting like an adult.

 

[goodlove8]

That's my approach to it. I would have called the police and filed a report against her because what she did was misdemeanor battery. If she can't handle problems without resorting to violence then a few days in jail, a year or so on probation, and some anger management classes might be exactly what she needs to start acting like an adult.

Right there.

If he is who I think he is then he got in trouble

 

[K]

That's my approach to it. I would have called the police and filed a report against her because what she did was misdemeanor battery. If she can't handle problems without resorting to violence then a few days in jail, a year or so on probation, and some anger management classes might be exactly what she needs to start acting like an adult.

A lot of men aren't going to do this. But they need to.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

Right there.

If he is who I think he is then he got in trouble

Yep, he did. He was suspended from the football team for a year after it happened and he has since been reinstated.

A lot of men aren't going to do this. But they need to.

Exactly. I see way too many people, both male and female, try to take matters like this into their own hands. It never ends up well for anyone.

 

[RaiderLL]

The first time she shoved (hit) him he should have immediately left the area and never allowed her anywhere near his life. This young man has a scholarship, future and a reputation to protect. Even if he was assaulted first, men who are physically larger and stronger are not going to get the benefit of the doubt from a legal perspective, especially when it is a Black man and a White woman involved in the altercation. I hope every man here is teaching their sons and other young men in their lives these crucial legal realities.

I'm not a man but I'm certainly teaching my son this (as is his dad). Judging by the size of his father, my son will likely be a big guy and he better always keep that in mind if/when altercations arise. His race and his size will be two things going against him should he be involved in any sort of violence and he needs to always remain cognizant of that.

 

[RaiderLL]

".Nope nope nope, he was absolutely not justified in knocking her out"

But she escalated, the situation by hitting him, no?

She did. She's a sorry excuse for a woman but that doesn't give him the right to knock her out. He's larger and stronger. Even without specific training in restraining attackers, I'm sure he could've subdued her without going the route he chose.

 

[goodlove8]

She did. She's a sorry excuse for a woman but that doesn't give him the right to knock her out. He's larger and stronger. Even without specific training in restraining attackers, I'm sure he could've subdued her without going the route he chose.

You do dumb things dumb things will happen.

Equality is a rough thing to get into.

In all seriousness its a good thing that video came out because otherwise he would've been jammed

Dude gotta control themselves especially bm

 

[RaiderLL]

You do dumb things dumb things will happen.

Equality is a rough thing to get into.

In all seriousness its a good thing that video came out because otherwise he would've been jammed

Dude gotta control themselves especially bm

I love when people try to bring in equality. The fight for equality has nothing to do with knocking a woman out. No amount of gender equality will suddenly make women physically comparable to men. Violence is not a way to solve anything and there's never an excuse for beating on someone smaller than you, man or woman.

 

[FromUKNHereToPlay]

she sustained some pretty serious injuries after he hit her because she hit the table on the way down

GOOD

and that's unfortunate.

No it's not.

Thankfully she survived and she's okay.

Be quiet. Your acting like she got bitten by an inland taipan and she had no anti-venom nearby

And in the future now that he knows his own strength Mixon will probably just choose to restrain or walk away in the future.

More fool him should he heed your advice. Because this will make him MORE attractive to women. Women love to be thrown around, choked, spanked, and overall completely dominated in the bedroom. I can inundate you with examples but let’s save that for another time.

But she put her hands on him first so she's just as wrong as he is, if not more so. She may not have been arrested but despite that, or the fact that she's a woman, or the fact that she's maybe half his size, she had absolutely no right to put her hands on him. At all. Full stop.

"Don't start shit, won't be shit."

In Jujitsu, we have soft hand techniques such as joint locks, which are extremely painful and very effective. These can be used as an effective way to stop a physically abusive woman's attack, with no/little residual damage. Since it is a defensive technique and no overt physical moves (like punches) are made, law enforcement would have a very difficult time proving any type of violence occurred. No man should ever allow another person, male or female, to hit him with out retribution

She probably felt like she could swing on him without retaliation because she's probably done it before plenty of times and gotten that same result. Abusers keep abusing because they know that they can get away with it. Hopefully they both learned some important lessons from this: he learns that nine times out of ten it's better to just walk away from an encounter and she learns that being a woman doesn't give her a license to put her hands on anybody without expecting them to retaliate.

It's getting to the point where if you simply disagree with a female she can call the police. And yes a man has zero rights and can do NOTHING, I repeat NOTHING to even defend himself should a hormonal driven animal goes ballistic and attack him; she will not be held accountable for her actions. I am quite certain that the skag featured in that video clip eventually was given help by white knights and the system; whereas if that were a man he would have been tossed in jail.

 

[goodlove8]

I love when people try to bring in equality. The fight for equality has nothing to do with knocking a woman out. No amount of gender equality will suddenly make women physically comparable to men. Violence is not a way to solve anything and there's never an excuse for beating on someone smaller than you, man or woman.

Hypocrite. You lack principles and logic

 

[goodlove8]

The first time she shoved (hit) him he should have immediately left the area and never allowed her anywhere near his life. This young man has a scholarship, future and a reputation to protect. Even if he was assaulted first, men who are physically larger and stronger are not going to get the benefit of the doubt from a legal perspective, especially when it is a Black man and a White woman involved in the altercation. I hope every man here is teaching their sons and other young men in their lives these crucial legal realities.

No doubt. You have to have a camera every where you go. Especially when you deal with a woman. They can scream rape or whatever .

 

[Tadul]

hii

 

[Peach State Scholar]

GOOD


No it's not.


Be quiet. Your acting like she got bitten by an inland taipan and she had no anti-venom nearby


More fool him should he heed your advice. Because this will make him MORE attractive to women. Women love to be thrown around, choked, spanked, and overall completely dominated in the bedroom. I can inundate you with examples but let’s save that for another time.


"Don't start shit, won't be shit."

In Jujitsu, we have soft hand techniques such as joint locks, which are extremely painful and very effective. These can be used as an effective way to stop a physically abusive woman's attack, with no/little residual damage. Since it is a defensive technique and no overt physical moves (like punches) are made, law enforcement would have a very difficult time proving any type of violence occurred. No man should ever allow another person, male or female, to hit him with out retribution




It's getting to the point where if you simply disagree with a female she can call the police. And yes a man has zero rights and can do NOTHING, I repeat NOTHING to even defend himself should a hormonal driven animal goes ballistic and attack him; she will not be held accountable for her actions. I am quite certain that the skag featured in that video clip eventually was given help by white knights and the system; whereas if that were a man he would have been tossed in jail.

 

[goodlove8]

Yo since , i bow down to you on that one

 

[goodlove8]

It's funny that her friends didn't try to intervene before she got clocked.

It's obvious to me that she's done this before.

I can guess she does this in private. Yeah she's an abuser

 

[Peach State Scholar]

It's funny that her friends didn't try to intervene before she got clocked.

It's obvious to me that she's done this before.

I can guess she does this in private. Yeah she's an abuser

She's been arrested at least twice before so you're probably right. Her friends probably know exactly what kind of person she is.

 

[DudeNY12]

As for the topic of the thread...Nope nope nope, he was absolutely not justified in knocking her out. I've had this argument here time and time again but he could've restrained her without punching her like he did. Strength must be taken into consideration. If she's got ugly words, fight her back with WORDS. If she puts her hands on you, restrain her. I will NEVER understand beating someone smaller than you when other forms of physical restraint could've been used on them.

This! I certainly agree that he wasn't justified in hitting her, but I also fully understand that this result can easily happen. I was taught to never hit a woman and to somehow find it within myself to walk away. For me personally... I'll instantly walk away because I'm fearful that I may instinctively hit back in such a situation. Again, I agree in that I would not let words from her cause me to go after her physically. In the few times that I've found myself in situations like this... I intentionally walked away before it escalated any further. Thankfully, none of them came after me to continue.

 

[DudeNY12]

The first time she shoved (hit) him he should have immediately left the area and never allowed her anywhere near his life. This young man has a scholarship, future and a reputation to protect. Even if he was assaulted first, men who are physically larger and stronger are not going to get the benefit of the doubt from a legal perspective, especially when it is a Black man and a White woman involved in the altercation. I hope every man here is teaching their sons and other young men in their lives these crucial legal realities.

Yup! This, all day. I don't have any children, but if I had sons... I definitely would've been instructing them to walk away, not let words affect them and defend yourself (only) as an absolute last resort. I once told my nephew the same thing in which he thought it was unfair... I just had to keep driving home the point that he's likely to be much stronger and can easily hurt a woman. I told his younger sister the other end in that no one has any right to ever lay hands on her, but she also needs to do her part. Some men don't get this lesson and/or agree with it, and I don't want her getting hurt if she ever runs into one of those guys.