Where did your facination start?

from pre-k to 3rd grade i was practically the only black kid in an all white rich preppy catholic private school but the kids there called me racist names and beat me up. but at that age alot of the brain is like a sponge and you soak up alot of your surroundings and it shapes your personality for the rest of your life...

but there was this one girl named Jasmine. She was blonde and at her birthday party she was my first kiss. that kiss changed everything.

then from 4th grade to 7th grade i went to a really really BAD all BLACK public school. like the ones you see in those morgan freeman movies with metal detectors and gangs and then that one teacher comes in to "change things" lol. i made it through ok and had fun and made plenty of friends and my first crushes were at around this age so the first girls I liked were black (with the exception of my first kiss back at the old school).

then i left that school since it was too dangerous and went to an all boys military academy for the rest of 7th grade and 8th grade. I made a bunch of friends there (white guys) and I followed them to a high school they all wanted to go to. They said it had the hottest (white) girls. So i went there and not only did I know them, but I joined the football team (which made you instantly popular at this high school) as well. And guess who was the first girl I meet there. JASMINE. the same girl who was my first kiss. Her and 2 other girls from my first school were freshmen there as well and DAMN did home girl grow up. Her body was SICK!

Anyways we dated for a while and after that it was a wrap. The school was FULL of fine white girls and I just couldnt look at black girls the same anymore. Even back when I was at that all black school, I'd watch Boy Meets World on TV and fantasize about Topanga or watch Beverly Hills 90210 and wish I could bang chicks like that, but i thought I'd never be in a school or situation with hotties like that. Then I did and I was in HEAVEN. Ever since then white girls have been my life....

 

My Fascination...

....started when I was 7. I would watch reruns of Punky Breswster and I thought that Soleil Moon Frye was(and still is the sh*t). In the later seasons I just thought that the way she wore her hair in those ribbons was just sexy.

Then I had a thing for Alyssa Milano on Who's the Boss. Then when I was 10, I had the hots for Drew Barrymore(who was in Poison Ivy at the time).

I thought that Jodie Sweetin (Stephanie Tanner from Full House) was cute and I thought that it was cool since our birthdays are in the same month(I'm about a week older than her).

Remember that sitcom Step By Step? I thought all three Daughters were hot...

Now keep in mind, I grew up in Detroit, a predominately black city. Though I do like Black women (that's what I would go for because that's all I had at the time) I would always get rejected because I was somehat of a dork growing up.

It wasn't until I was 14 when I would have an opportunity (that I missed of course). That summer, I was working at my local Y at the summer camp. I met a gril named Tina--who was white. I often hung out with her and her black friend Jenny. It wasnt until I started high school that Jenny told me that Tina liked me. I thought that was great but I didn't pursue it. I as scared away because I wasn't used to girls liking me.

The next summer I met a girl named Ginger at a summer program. We didn't talk much because we were in different groups. The last week in which we all stayed on campus, I did talk to her. I was nervous but she did think that I was cute. Again I was scared away because I wasn't used to that.

Those are two failures that continue to haunt me to this day. I live in Phoenix, so there are plenty of White Hot Tamales. However, I will chaulk those up as learning experiences.

I never dated because I was alwyas trying to focus on school, work, getting a career, getting my life in order, etc... but I realize that I need to start enjoying life. There's so much to offer and if I don't look out the window at times, there's so much that I'll miss.

 

i think most of us can agree it began at a young age and has only grown stronger ever since. for me it started as a curiosity thing and then after kissing them and doing things with them, i never wanted anything else. just being around them, their voices, the way they act, laugh, walk, talk, its all so sexy and intoxicating to me.

...white girls are the sh*t...

 

Mine is a bit dirty. And, may I state again, I am so glad this thing is anonymous! I have always been attracted to black men but years ago, my ex husband brough home an adult movie that a friend he worked with left at their workplace. We watched it for a bit (we had never done this) and it got a threesome scene with 2 gorgeous women and this very big black man. Sounds like some typical erotic story, I know. But I was tremendously turned on by what I saw and heard.

 

You ain't lying! The fact that ww and bm continue to seek each other out in higher numbers despite so much backlash for so many years proves how strong the attraction is. Ever since I was intimate with a ww the first time, I've wanted nothing else since. I've always had white girls as friends growing up and when I saw the gorgeous results of puberty turning white girls into white WOMEN the sexual atttraction just escalated. Once the genie is out of the bottle, ain't no putting it back! I'm just always thnakful for that Caucasion goddess Annette who as a senior in my Spanish class while I was a freshman showed me what a brotha could have!

 

I also became attracted to black men starting at an early age, even as a young teenager. I think it was after seeing a movie with a seduction love scene between a black man and white woman. Even now I have never dated a black man, but the black men I have met and known in the past always seemed a lot easier to get along with and friendlier than white men, particularly through high school when dating is such a challenge. I am also very thankful this forum is anonymous! That is because like a previous female poster I have become weak in the knees when seeing a sexy black man. My favorite memory was seeing a really handsome black man walking toward me as I was seated at an Applebees Restaurant. I was the only white person in the restaurant. He walked toward my table, looked at me and smiled and said "hello" without saying a word. He also brushed his hand along the table as he walked by. I said "hello" back and smiled at him and gazed in his eyes. I hadn't been attracted to any man like that since high school. Unfortunately immediately after that a young black girl sitting at a table with her friend stared at me with a dirty look. This reinforced all of the fear and hostility I have always associated with black women and their attitudes toward bm/ww meeting and the attraction of bm/ww. Just from the connection I have felt from the black men I have known platonically in the past, I know that becoming intimate with a black male lover would be much more satisfying than any previous relationship I have ever had. Thank you for starting this discussion. It's nice to be in a forum where there isn't a lot of hateful racist remarks when we are sharing our frank opinions and desires for being attracted to men we find incredibly sexy.

 

I also think there is a rebellious/"forbidden fruit" factor. I know many black guys who date them because they know it makes people jealous and i know tons of white chicks who started liking black guys as a way to show mommy and daddy that they can do whatever they want. although not all IR start out with the best or most pure intentions, its always fun to see IR hook ups blossom into something.

...like my friend bobby at my acting school, he started hooking up with this white girl named candace and he thought it was just gonna be a friends wit benefits thing but now he admitted to me he gets tingles everytime he's with her and he cant believe "he could catch feelings for a white girl", now they are a couple. its so sweet.

 

It also started when I met my sister college roomate from Sweden.

she was short ,well built,and had the most beautiful eyes the kind of eyes you can't look at because you'll get trapped. plus she thought I was very handsome. too bad she was 4 years older than me :lol:

 

I went to a primarily white high school - but my junior year I was at a party with kids from another high school. There was a fine and built black guy at the party who (luckily for me) was very into me. Although we only went out a few times, he was my first very serious physical experience (actual sex did not heppen - I was a goodie goodie!)

After that I dated or was physical with white men and hispanic men - but it JUST wasn't the same. There was so much more attraction, energy and chemistry when I was with a bm. So, I couldn't help but to go back to black! And I am VERY happy with that decision :wink:

 

At age 6 was when I was fascinated, I had a little crush on a classmate. I really started to have a serious crush on girls and women of a different race from my own at age 11. I saw Heather Locklear on TV the first time, that did it for me. I had a massive crush on her.

 

i started having attraction for white women when i was around 15.A black girl made a joke about how dark my skin was .then something just changed inside of me and i lost interest in black girls.It was a very painful joke

 

For me it goes all the way back to Kindergarten, I'd flirt with this white girl poking her and teasing her and she loved it! Haha. Fast foward to Elementary school, I was in 4th grade and my class was mostly black including the teacher, maybe 2 or 3 white people out of 25 and I sat next to this quiet white girl, I could tell she felt a little out of place in this class. So I felt like it was my duty to make her feel more comfortable in class and we just really hit it off. We started hanging out after school, I'd walk her home, her family was really nice and accepting of me hanging out with their daughter. I felt like they trusted me.

At the same time I started to feel like the black kids at school didn't like me because I was always talking to this white girl. I got in a few fights with other black guys for no real reason, got jumped by this gang of black guys in the 4th grade on my way home for telling my best friend in school (a black guy) about how if anyone talked bad about the white girl I was seeing I would defend her, yeah that worked out great. Ever since then I've just felt far more inclined to white girls. My circle of friends has always been a melting pot of races.

I dunno what it is, maybe I feel like it's more of a challenge to win over a white girl, or if it has something to do with the fact that my family is totally mixed. My mom is Asian and she's married both races, stepfather is white who I've lived with my whole life, my sister is white (she's into black guys), brother is black (he's into black girls), my real father is black (he seems to be into white and asian girls), but he left us before I can remember. As a military family we're constantly around mixed populations so I guess I was pretty much free to develop my own preferences.

There's just something about these sweet, quiet, innocent white girls that I just love! it's strange because it's usually the white girls who haven't really experienced that kinda intimacy with a black male before that I am most attracted to, not the white girls at the clubs just looking for a black piece of meat. I guess I just enjoy the challenge and feeling of winning someone over like that.

 

As long as I can remember I've been attracted to Black men. I only dated white men because of social convention. As soon as I dared take the step I went out with a Black man, and that was it. Now, I wouldn't want it any other way.

 

I had always been attracted ww. And being I also grew up in Detroit, I kinda dismissed it being that I rarely ran across any. But when I turned 18, I started going to this church at the time in which the congregation was racially mixed, black, white, Latin and Asian, which in it's self was a surprise to me as I thought that white people didn't come within the city limits unless there was a Tigers or a Red Wings game, but that's another story. Every so often during the summer, the church youth group would invite teams from all over the country to come here to Detroit, and minister to the people here. Well this one year there was this team that came from Syracuse, New York. And with them came this smokin' hot white girl with wavy brown hair and the most beautiful blue eyes and an ass that would make buffie the body jealous. Well she was only there for a week...and that was one of the best weeks of my life. She made me feel special and wanted to spend every available minute that she could with me...but not in a smothering kind of way. When she went back to Syracuse, we still talked for a good 6 months but I began to see white women in a different light, and I've been attracted ever since.

 

As stated by myself earlier. However, I do remember when I was 11, I was at a summer camp at my elementary school, whicch was Catholic. There was VBS(Vacation Bible School), in which we had for a few hours. Now, the group I was in had a couple of cute white girls: Maureen and I think the other was Jessica? Because this was a predominately Black neighborhood, a found them attractive because they were not the norm. On the last day, I met a girl named Corrie--who I thought was gorgeous. I also met a few cool white boys as well. One named John who did go to the school had an older sister named Lisa(who was cute) but I just considered her a friend.

Though I have been attracted to WW since I was 7, I only openly said I like WW to a few people. Now I say it with pride. I too am a Dark-Skinned brotha who likes WW.


And What Are You Gonna Do About That? 8)

 

I grew up in a small town in Ohio, there were only a few black families and none with males anywhere near my age. According to the 2000 census the town is 0.18% black. The Movie Save the Last Dance came out when I was a junior in HS. I actually saw it in a different city about an hour away. I had seen black guys on TV before that I thought were attractive but seeing Julia Stiles and Sean Patrick Thomas together really turned me on.

A year and a half later when I got to college, I became friends with a few black males that lived in my dorm. Eventually that lead to other things, and now I hope to marry the BM that I am with now.

 

In the interests of honesty I should add that I found a bit of writing I did for school when I was 11, which says that I want to marry a black singer and muscian. God knows who I had in mind at the time! :lol: (Will Smith?)

 

i grew up in the "hood" there i had a hell of a time.
i never played sports, i was constantly called wimpy, or faggot.
i dug books and riding my bike. Girls didnt like me there. I wasnt hard enough, and looking back, I realized that i was just oblivious to the reality

then i moved out of the hood, when to school in the 'burbs.
day one, two girls pass a note to me, the note said something along the lines of "we have a crush, pick one..." this was in the 6th grade. and after that I also dated the prettiest girl at school T. Carter. I still remember her name, and how she looks(damn.)


So I think the first girl I've ever kissed was white. I have no qualms about other races, but considering my circles and what I'm into, Its honestly easier, Ive been socialized to operate a certain way. Actually, I think I can flirt better with (culturally) white women than non.