Where did your facination start?

Why does everyone think that all black guys are into "large women"? I notice loads of women say that black men appreciate their rolls of fat and shit, seems like a weird generalisation. I think the majority of all men prefer someone in shape.

 

i dont think that any of us mean that all black men love big girls...i think that black men are less judging and appreciate a good woman no matter what size she is...not for sex or relationships necessarily...but still show love and respect even if its as a friend...i, for one, realize that big girls dont always get the love because of how we look...by men of all colors...everyone has a preference and i respect that...
but bottom line...black men love, respect and appreciate women of all sizes ...which does not show thru in men of other races

 

As a black man I appreciate the mystique a woman brings to a relationship. Black men of my father's generation held women to such a high alter for their strength in what was then the darkest of times. Today I think it is even more imperative for black men to see women not so much as a sexual object, but, as partners who will or could help them in these most challenging of times. It is not what is on the outside that makes the women, it is her inner quality that makes her that "good woman" that millions of men are looking for. But, black men have an obligation too, to be the best they can be for the women in their lives. It should never be a one way street.

 

My fascination began when I was ten years old when a white girl held my hand when I cried for my dog hit by a car.

 

Even though all my girlfriends growing up were white, I can't say I was particularly fascinated by this at the time. The sliding scale of beauty mattered more I guess.

Growing up I remember being really, really into mixed girls. Not very long ago I was still going crazy for Mya, Beyonce, Christina Milian etc. My last serious relationship was with a very pretty Guatamalan girl. She was grimey though.

I guess any current fascination I might have with white women is more about the ideal mate than anything. I always come back to a certain type of look and behavior white girls have in spades. I kinda feel bad about my preference though lol... 'cause it seems to always come with that shitty "I don't want anything that's even off-white" attitude. It seems to go from preference to VERY sound decision. I'm not necessarily ashamed of this, but a level-headed white woman has a way of inducing that 'shame on you' moment if you go too far with it. I'm right there with them in that respect, provided nothing prevents us from maximizing our pleasures in the bedroom.

As superficial as it might be, I just think white women are sexier. I would say they're better hosts, homemakers, managers etc., but all of that varies by upbringing- drastically in terms of race or culture as a factor. I just know a pretty, classy, somewhat-modest white woman is more my type. Believe me, I've tried to rationalize my attraction in many ways... it doesn't really work. It just makes you more fascinated.

 

Let see I was an army brat so I been alll over the world, when we got back to the US I met Amy she was a pretty blond and had a hot body. The sisters really did no like me because they said I was too corny and acted white LOL.

Amy and I hit it off the first time we meet and the next thing I knew we were dating. Man those were some good days LOL

 

I know some of us are into slim, dark haired, scotish shorties,
that I've been miss talking to

 

Don't know why, but I found that damn funny.