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I'm so glad we resolved everything through our attorneys. No domestic relations orders, no custody battles. He offered an amount for child support that was more than acceptable and there was no fussing over visitation because his career kept him miles away (unfortunately for my son). I feel sorry for dads who are denied access to their kids esp when they're paying child support and trying to be a true father to their kids.
 
What is it that gots you guys runnin into such a bunch of dumb a** **** . Is that a virusgoing around or some? *shakes head*
 
Gemini74 said:
What is it that gots you guys runnin into such a bunch of dumb a** **** . Is that a virusgoing around or some? *shakes head*
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You want love, you try to find love, you think you've found love. and it isn't it. Not a complicated notion at all. Women think there's only f'd up men in the world. "where are all the good men?". You know where? Somewhere bent over, getting screwed by some nut job chick with no vaseline. That's where. Lol.
 
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orejon4 said:
I see I'm not alone on the forum. Hang in there, man. And best of luck in court. My ex tried to make me agree to everything she demanded without going to court, but I soon realized that was because she knew she would not receive any of those demands. I no longer feel guilty about using court to handle all of my dealings with her. When you are dealing with people like that, it's the best alternative; it keeps you from tangling with them personally.

Best of luck.
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My favorite word during the court thang was "no" and my favorite phrase "contempt of court"
 
orejon4 said:
I see I'm not alone on the forum. Hang in there, man. And best of luck in court. My ex tried to make me agree to everything she demanded without going to court, but I soon realized that was because she knew she would not receive any of those demands. I no longer feel guilty about using court to handle all of my dealings with her. When you are dealing with people like that, it's the best alternative; it keeps you from tangling with them personally.

Best of luck.
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Gemini74 said:
What is it that gots you guys runnin into such a bunch of dumb a** **** . Is that a virusgoing around or some? *shakes head*
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Tried to talk about this kind of stuff in another thread but people wasnt down with it
 
JamahlSharif said:
You want love, you try to find love, you think you've found love. and it isn't it. Not a complicated notion at all. Woman think there's only f'd up men in the world. "where are all the good men?". You know where? Somewhere bent over, getting screwed by some nut job chick with no vaseline. That's where. Lol.
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I hear you. I ve seen that bull happen to a bunch of my friends over the past 22 years and all im left with to say , it makes me sad. but just as sad is, that most of them wouldnt notice a good woman even if she was standing right in front of them. Once the low heads rising the upper one stops thinking.
I ve raised 2 kids without receiving a single cent from their fathers. But that didnt stop me from letting my kids see them. It s not right to screw each other over-in no direction, but its just cheap and larking of character to play a revenge game using the children involved.
I still believe in the good men out there. Keep believing there s good women out there, too, pls. Although... *chuckle* i m sure you kinda sexy bending over...
 
JamahlSharif said:
As some of you know, I have 2 children. My oldest to a ww, my youngest to a bw. I have joint legal custody of both, with visitation...and their mothers' maintaining primary legal custody. Well the youngest one's mom has violated the existing custody/visitation order several times...making decisions without consulting me, and has blocked my number before forcing me to miss visits. She's blocked me out of my daughters first 2 birthdays and Halloweens...things that I can never get back. This prompted me to file both a violation petition, and a petition to modify for 50/50 physical custody; which the police served her with this week. She has 2 other children for which she receives no support, and relies heavily on the $1,100 a month she gets from me to make ends meet. She will no longer get this after the order is modified, and will basically have to move in with her parents. She now portrays me as the bad guy. I tried ad nauseum to avoid court to no avail. But she wouldn't relent, yet has an attitude. Go figure....
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Ok. Since u got visitations then dont worry about how people perceive u. She can tell people this and that...fuck em. Trust me its gard to do that because thats your name shes fucking up.

Its best to have a decent relationship with moms cause of the childs sake.

Heres how to do it.

1. Whatever happens dont let her drag u into an arguement....

2. Once a week or so...just call her and ask her how shes doing....

3. Always...always speak positive about moms to the child and when u pick them up tell the child to give mom a hug first

This is to start...then build from there
 
Gemini74 said:
I hear you. I ve seen that bull happen to a bunch of my friends over the past 22 years and all im left with to say , it makes me sad. but just as sad is, that most of them wouldnt notice a good woman even if she was standing right in front of them. Once the low heads rising the upper one stops thinking.
I ve raised 2 kids without receiving a single cent from their fathers. But that didnt stop me from letting my kids see them. It s not right to screw each other over-in no direction, but its just cheap and larking of character to play a revenge game using the children involved.
I still believe in the good men out there. Keep believing there s good women out there, too, pls. Although... *chuckle* i m sure you kinda sexy bending over...
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Oh. Jay doesn't bend over. Just taking her back to court. Have all of our conversations recorded or screenshots of the text messages. The incident reports I filed for the missed visits, plus Peter Batala Esq. She's done for. But thanks for the compliment. And i haven't given up on finding a good woman. Not by a long shot :-)
 
goodlove said:
Ok. Since u got visitations then dont worry about how people perceive u. She can tell people this and that...fuck em. Trust me its gard to do that because thats your name shes fucking up.

Its best to have a decent relationship with moms cause of the childs sake.

Heres how to do it.

1. Whatever happens dont let her drag u into an arguement....

2. Once a week or so...just call her and ask her how shes doing....

3. Always...always speak positive about moms to the child and when u pick them up tell the child to give mom a hug first

This is to start...then build from there
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I'd never make a disparaging remark to our child about her. She's actually decent to deal with as long as you're doing as she pleases, and never disagree with her. That's when she goes apeshit
 
Happy thanksgiving to everyone, aw family law messing over men for the last 40 yrs,, I don't even get mad anymore lol, and Jamal people ask me how do you know your ex is crazy? Yours sounds just like mine, what is a person who can't reason with?
 
JamahlSharif said:
I'd never make a disparaging remark to our child about her. She's actually decent to deal with as long as you're doing as she pleases, and never disagree with her. That's when she goes apeshit
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Yeah...i feel u on that. When your child gets older it will get better.

Its great you got em young
 
JamahlSharif said:
Agreed. I've already taken her to court. She doesn't comply with the existing order
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Just keep hammering away. The law is always the best route.

JamahlSharif said:
You want love, you try to find love, you think you've found love. and it isn't it. Not a complicated notion at all. Women think there's only f'd up men in the world. "where are all the good men?". You know where? Somewhere bent over, getting screwed by some nut job chick with no vaseline. That's where. Lol.
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Lol

JamahlSharif said:
We broke up a month before she found out she was pregnant. So approximately. 3 years. For this very reason. Her psychosis and emotional instability.
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It's worse than being beaten with a bat daily. Had me feeling crazy dealing with it. Wasn't exactly helpful while dealing with grad school, law school and work.

goodlove said:
Tried to talk about this kind of stuff in another thread but people wasnt down with it
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We can always Skype about it. Lol

goodlove said:
My favorite word during the court thang was "no" and my favorite phrase "contempt of court"
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When she sends me anything beyond what my son needs, wants, etc. I reply "I will forward this to my attorney for review. Thank you."
 
goodlove said:
Weeding out people is important
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I try to tell my sister this. She allows the negative people to stay in her life then wonders why drama is lurking around every turn. I don't have the patience. If someone doesn't have the decency to respect me and mine, buh bye lol. My dad says I can be quick to cut people off sometimes but...I disagree lol.
 
wtarshi said:
Argh. I hate dating!

Have a date tonight and my stomach is all tied up in knots
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Now just relax woman. ...Dancing is fun. ....Ask the DJ to play some oldschool funk and your bones will begin to move themselves. .... No one can stand still to oldschool funk. .....
 
Tarshi, you are a gem and any guy that can't appreciate your beaming personality and fantastic sense of witty humor isn't worth a second date. And he's slow as hell... Have a great time and have fun just being yourself!
 
Bookworm616 said:
Good luck! I hope the guy turns out to be great!
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Archman said:
Now just relax woman. ...Dancing is fun. ....Ask the DJ to play some oldschool funk and your bones will begin to move themselves. .... No one can stand still to oldschool funk. .....
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Tamstrong said:
Yeah, dating is a pain, but you'll be fine with your charming & sexy self. ;)

Have fun & may the guy turn out to be awesome!
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Cherok33 said:
Tarshi, you are a gem and any guy that can't appreciate your beaming personality and fantastic sense of witty humor isn't worth a second date. And he's slow as hell... Have a great time and have fun just being yourself!
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Thanks everyone!! I'm just so shy when I meet a man that I tend to overcompensate by being louder and making a fool of myself. It's dreadful lol
 
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