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[4north1side2]

Question???

20 year old Georgia peach I matched with on Tinder is sending strong DTF signals but she's a self proclaimed virgin at EVERYTHING.

Her: What would you like to do?

Me: Teach you how to suck and ride dick appropriately lol.

Other than that, an outdoors activity like basketball, jogging, or sight seeing would be peachy.

Her:

You can't just say that so casually!

Me:

hahaha Would you rather me mask my intentions under the guise of "let's hang out" or "come over and watch a movie" like little boys do?

Her:

No not all but now I can't focus on anything else.

Me: Would you like to see an picture of my handsome cock?

Her:

Yes...

Me:

Her:

That's so cruel! You cant just tease me like that!

Me:

*Sends penis pics*

Her:

What's my next move breh's and brehettes, take her V card or not?

 

[Bookworm616]

I am sitting here contemplating following through with this date tonight.

Between my last post and now we probably have had one too many conversations...... and I fear he has given me TOO MUCH INFORMATION and asked the dreaded question of, "do you want a photo of my cock?" He said he thinks I may not continue seeing him if he doesn't impress me with what he thinks is his best asset.... say what now...... I replied with "That doesn't impress me that you would consider that."

WHY people WHY........ DO I not go?

That sucks. If he thinks his best asset is his dick, then he's got some issues with his self-esteem, for starters, and likely isn't looking for anything other than a one night stand or FWB type of situation.

This is strictly my opinion, of course.

Did you end up going?

People are stupid. Give him a second chance and go, just be 'aware'. Nobody here knows the entirety of the conversations that you've had with him. Maybe you've already covered all of the intellectual bases and he just wanted to FF to the next step in the getting to know you process?

Or, maybe he truly feels that his best asset, in which case... congratulations on finding a human dildo.

I can understand your sentiment. Yes, maybe the guy's brain stopped functioning correctly for a minute, but really, at that age, that says a lot about the guy and his intentions, IMO.

I've stopped making excuses for other peoples' behavior toward me. To me, if a guy I haven't met says he thinks his best "asset" is his dick and can he just send me a picture of it, that screams red flag to me and that screams that he doesn't respect me enough to want to actually date me, but that he'll have no problems sleeping with me.

If that's not what CB wants, then I think she should run screaming from the guy. He clearly doesn't respect her or himself enough and it seems he's not looking for anything serious.

 

[Morning Star]

INCUMMING SEXUAL OVERDRIVE. PREPARE FOR DART.

20 year old Georgia peach I matched with on Tinder is sending strong DTF signals but she's a self proclaimed virgin at EVERYTHING.

Her: What would you like to do?

Me: Teach you how to suck and ride dick appropriately lol.

Other than that, an outdoors activity like basketball, jogging, or sight seeing would be peachy.

Her:

You can't just say that so casually!

Me:

hahaha Would you rather me mask my intentions under the guise of "let's hang out" or "come over and watch a movie" like little boys do?

Her:

No not all but now I can't focus on anything else.

Me: Would you like to see an picture of my handsome cock?

Her:

Yes...

Me:

Her:

That's so cruel! You cant just tease me like that!

Me:

*Sends penis pics*

Her:

What's my next move breh's and brehettes, take her V card or not?

 

[The Dark King]

That sucks. If he thinks his best asset is his dick, then he's got some issues with his self-esteem, for starters, and likely isn't looking for anything other than a one night stand or FWB type of situation.

This is strictly my opinion, of course.

Did you end up going?



I can understand your sentiment. Yes, maybe the guy's brain stopped functioning correctly for a minute, but really, at that age, that says a lot about the guy and his intentions, IMO.

I've stopped making excuses for other peoples' behavior toward me. To me, if a guy I haven't met says he thinks his best "asset" is his dick and can he just send me a picture of it, that screams red flag to me and that screams that he doesn't respect me enough to want to actually date me, but that he'll have no problems sleeping with me.

If that's not what CB wants, then I think she should run screaming from the guy. He clearly doesn't respect her or himself enough and it seems he's not looking for anything serious.

To be fair how can he know if he doesn't ask? And trust me it has nothing to do with respect. I told my last gf I was rubbing my dick on our first phone conversation because I thought she was so hot and we dated for two years I loved her.

 

[orejon4]

INCUMMING SEXUAL OVERDRIVE. PREPARE FOR DART.

Disturbing. Almost made me duck at my monitor, lol.

 

[Gemini74]

To be fair how can he know if he doesn't ask? And trust me it has nothing to do with respect. I told my last gf I was rubbing my dick on our first phone conversation because I thought she was so hot and we dated for two years I loved her.

ha... i m not always your opinion, but here you go...
it s kind of weird if a man does send you some intimate pics at an early stage yes, i think if women does it it aint different.
but to assume that he/she is only after sex is a too quick step to me, too.

 

[The Dark King]

ha... i m not always your opinion, but here you go...
it s kind of weird if a man does send you some intimate pics at an early stage yes, i think if women does it it aint different.
but to assume that he/she is only after sex is a too quick step to me, too.

Yeah I find from talking to other dudes and my own experience that men do shit like this because it's worked before. If she really wants to bliw his mind just retort by saying "well let me see all your other assets first so I can decide for myself"

 

[orejon4]

Maybe he should take shots of his penis, total cash-on-hand, any precious metals lying around the house, stock certificates, biceps, abdominal muscles, standardized testing scores, residence and vehicle?

 

[satyr]

Morgan Freeman should change his name to Avuncular Negro.

 

[Morning Star]

:smt108

:smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043

Morgan Freeman should change his name to Avuncular Negro.

 

[curleyblonde]

Just rife with possibilities for misinterpretation.

Seriously though, that is a bit quick, no?

For me that is too quick, let me get to know you as a person first. I want the man then I will want his dick.

What does courting mean to you?
My girl pulled the same line. You over 30 broads crack me up lol

You over 30's men who want to rub yourself and send photos of your dicks crack me up. Don't expect me to take you seriously if you tell me that and ask me that.

Bleh...such a turn off. To me it sends the message that he really just wants sex. Plus it's disrespectful IMO...as if this lil ol ww is just into the strong, sexy bm for his dick. Dick pics (or just the offer of) says a lot about someone who's trying to date you.

For me, the men who don't get sexual in our early conversations always seem to get farther in their attempts to date me. Maybe I overthink this topic or maybe I've just been surprised by one too many dick pics lol, but it always rubs me the wrong way. Makes me feel like they view me as just something to fuck.

Now I want to know if you went!!

I foolishy went as he said to me when I called to cancel that he was already there, had arranged something special, so I felt bad and went.

People are stupid. Give him a second chance and go, just be 'aware'. Nobody here knows the entirety of the conversations that you've had with him. Maybe you've already covered all of the intellectual bases and he just wanted to FF to the next step in the getting to know you process?

Or, maybe he truly feels that his best asset, in which case... congratulations on finding a human dildo.

I can assure you I had no such conversation or text to give him the idea that I would want to take it there. It was ALL him. I don't want him for his dick.

I wouldn't keep the date if it was me, CB. It's NEVER impressive when a guy does that crap regardless of his age, but at 39 the fool should've known better. I agree with Raider, that is such a turn off & indicates that he's just about the sex. It's skanky & disrespectful IMO.



Agreed

I should not have gone. On my arrival home (after the date) he texted me a picture of his erect dick. We did not have a sexual conversation, I did not say I wanted to see it. I actually told him that it was not a turn on for me until I get to know him more, if I want him mentally and emotionally then maybe that might turn me on.

Dang CB... I agree w others in that the guy is a bit "one track minded" if you will..or at least would seem so. Big turn off for me, personally. Not even one date...sort of sets expectations in my humble opinion. Unspoken motive.

I'm sorry to say, I would probably not go...

Lesson to self, do not feel bad for a man and go against your gut instinct. I went, wish I did not.

That sucks. If he thinks his best asset is his dick, then he's got some issues with his self-esteem, for starters, and likely isn't looking for anything other than a one night stand or FWB type of situation.

This is strictly my opinion, of course.

Did you end up going?



I can understand your sentiment. Yes, maybe the guy's brain stopped functioning correctly for a minute, but really, at that age, that says a lot about the guy and his intentions, IMO.

I've stopped making excuses for other peoples' behavior toward me. To me, if a guy I haven't met says he thinks his best "asset" is his dick and can he just send me a picture of it, that screams red flag to me and that screams that he doesn't respect me enough to want to actually date me, but that he'll have no problems sleeping with me.

If that's not what CB wants, then I think she should run screaming from the guy. He clearly doesn't respect her or himself enough and it seems he's not looking for anything serious.

Thanks for your thoughts Bookie. He made it very clear he doesn't respect me that is for sure. He ignored my request to not send me a pic and not ask, gave him the chance to make up for it like he mentioned, but alas, like I said above on arrival home he texted me a photo of his dick. Makes my latest ex look like an angel. lol

 

[curleyblonde]

Oh, and I have 13 missed calls from him today, and text after text to pick up the phone, forgive him etc etc. He even sent me a photo of himself with a sad face.

Unfortunately I met him at my work and he knows how to find me. Lets hope he gets over himself.

 

[Cherok33]

Oh, and I have 13 missed calls from him today, and text after text to pick up the phone, forgive him etc etc. He even sent me a photo of himself with a sad face.

Unfortunately I met him at my work and he knows how to find me. Lets hope he gets over himself.

ugh.

I'm sorry you'll probably get a few more calls/texts and maybe even a visit in person at work since thats where you met him. I can see it now...he'll have a bouquet of flowers, asking to make it up to you.

He is probably a genuinely interested, nice guy...but not very smart about first impressions and the precedence they set. A woman like yourself may be too much for him to handle...who knows...he may be used to simple minded girls who are more about the physical aspects vs the intellectual, deeper side of a relationship.

Sorry tho. Always go w your gut!

 

[wtarshi]

I'm having a smug moment, so thought it was only right that I share my said smugness.
Breakfast this morning: bread made yesterday, parsley from my garden and egg from one of my girls. Bringing country to the city

 

[FG]

Delish!

 

[Tamstrong]

For me that is too quick, let me get to know you as a person first. I want the man then I will want his dick.

You over 30's men who want to rub yourself and send photos of your dicks crack me up. Don't expect me to take you seriously if you tell me that and ask me that.

I foolishy went as he said to me when I called to cancel that he was already there, had arranged something special, so I felt bad and went.

I can assure you I had no such conversation or text to give him the idea that I would want to take it there. It was ALL him. I don't want him for his dick.

I should not have gone. On my arrival home (after the date) he texted me a picture of his erect dick. We did not have a sexual conversation, I did not say I wanted to see it. I actually told him that it was not a turn on for me until I get to know him more, if I want him mentally and emotionally then maybe that might turn me on.

Lesson to self, do not feel bad for a man and go against your gut instinct. I went, wish I did not.


Thanks for your thoughts Bookie. He made it very clear he doesn't respect me that is for sure. He ignored my request to not send me a pic and not ask, gave him the chance to make up for it like he mentioned, but alas, like I said above on arrival home he texted me a photo of his dick. Makes my latest ex look like an angel. lol

Oh, and I have 13 missed calls from him today, and text after text to pick up the phone, forgive him etc etc. He even sent me a photo of himself with a sad face.

Unfortunately I met him at my work and he knows how to find me. Lets hope he gets over himself.

I'm sorry, Curley. Hopefully he'll figure out you're serious and leave you alone. *hugs*

 

[JBunny]

Oh, and I have 13 missed calls from him today, and text after text to pick up the phone, forgive him etc etc. He even sent me a photo of himself with a sad face.

Unfortunately I met him at my work and he knows how to find me. Lets hope he gets over himself.

After one date? Dude sounds seriously unstable!

 

[curleyblonde]

ugh.

I'm sorry you'll probably get a few more calls/texts and maybe even a visit in person at work since thats where you met him. I can see it now...he'll have a bouquet of flowers, asking to make it up to you.

He is probably a genuinely interested, nice guy...but not very smart about first impressions and the precedence they set. A woman like yourself may be too much for him to handle...who knows...he may be used to simple minded girls who are more about the physical aspects vs the intellectual, deeper side of a relationship.

Sorry tho. Always go w your gut!

He already mentioned he will pop in with a coffee to say sorry. I asked him not to, as that would be inappropriate and awkward.

I'm sorry, Curley. Hopefully he'll figure out you're serious and leave you alone. *hugs*

Hope so.

After one date? Dude sounds seriously unstable!

I just think he hasn't been rejected before or been made to work for it.

 

[FG]

He already mentioned he will pop in with a coffee to say sorry. I asked him not to, as that would be inappropriate and awkward.

Hope so.

I just think he hasn't been rejected before or been made to work for it.

Honestly, you are probably not the first, not the last one he did it to. Run!

 

[APPIAH]

This guy must be very good looking for a woman to ask if she should go on a date with him AFTER he has shown her a dick pic at the grand old age of 39. Most women i know would cut men off in micro seconds if they pull that shit and are average to fugly looking and wont even contemplate going on a date with him let alone ask if she should