If you are thinking all that ^ when looking at a woman's tits then there is a problem with over analysis. She is upper thirties in age and not on spring break. Most times alcohol removes inhibitions and you do things you want to do sober but don't have the courage.
I am suggesting that women know what works on them, and what doesn't...and that this is exactly the kind of thing which women discuss with one another, so listening to their experiences might give some insight, since they're the people you're trying to pick up. I was a systems engineer - all logic, baby, if that's what you're trying to imply.
No I was going to say if it came down to getting help on a network would you talk to a person who's had to hire system engineers or actual system engineers. You actually believe most women know what they want. Maybe over 40 but in the age group of people I date everyone is still trying to figure themselves out.
Yeah, I actually believe most women are almost like...well, shit, almost like PEOPLE! The women your age do know what they want, but they get so much shit from society about being open about it that they feel compelled to be coy. Maybe if we could dump the bs double standards about sex, you'd find the whole process with women in the age you like a bit easier to deal with. And if I were hiring, I'd talk to the engineers. THEY know what's up. You're trying to hire an engineer using the people in HR, and they haven't a clue what being an engineer is all about.
Thanks for making my point in the last paragraph. If so many young people knew what they wanted most wouldnt be so miserable especially women. And btw I do have female friends who are in full agreement with what I say regarding dating. Not all or even most from what I've seen have the same feminist approach in life that you do. Maybe because you're generation paved the wat for them not to be like you. And if you think women would change the dating system the way it is you are greatly mistaken my friend. The entire process favors them. They do no leg work and are rarely financially responsible for their entertainment. Sounds like a sweet deal to me. And far as being sexually free wake up my friend this ain't the 80s. Girls give head by the second date these days.
You better! LoL Thanks Ra, I wish I could take a Xanax. I don't think I will be sleeping tonight. :shock: I guess it's not supposed to be a big deal, but I've never had any kind of surgery before or ever been "put under" which kind of freaks me out by itself because I've heard things about anesthesia awareness, plus other stuff about people never waking up from it. :smt105 Stupid gallbladder! :smt011 Wanna know what's weird? When my mom was 26 (like me) she had her gallbladder removed in the month of October (like me). Weird, huh?
Yes. And if you have a daughter and when she turns 26 and has to have her gall bladder removed in October then it will become triple weird. :smt119
Honey, I grew up in the 70's, pre HIV, pre herpes...things were a lot more causal back then than in the 80s. I seem to remember you commenting earlier that you had a 3 week rule. Does that apply to blow jobs or just intercourse? You indicated you wouldnt consider a woman who slept with you "too early" to be respectable. I'd change the dating system in a heartbeat too, but that wasn't what I was getting at - I'm talking about the "guys are studs, girls are sluts" double standard. It's a perception thing, not an activity thing. And one which, by your statement, you apparently buy into. I didn't make your point for you, I made the opposite one. You want an engineer? Talk to engineers, not the HR people. You want a woman? Talk to women about it.
