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Unique4ever said:
Question:
if you text a person if he/she is home yet and the person tells you "I am home but not in the mood for talking right now, sorry"....

you

A give that person some "Me time" that is obviously needed

B keep texting and even start calling because you demand to know whats going on.
If that person gets mad about that, you start accusing that person of "avoiding you" and making up excuses

Which one you think shows more respect for the other person? ;)
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Naja...if that person is someone close to you...I assume it's normal (my close people do that all the time..they don't give up till they know, what happened). A relatively foreign person has to be quiet after your first "warning"
 
I don't know why, but I'm always surprised at the sheer amount of lack of common sense comments that get posted by people who come through here in some sort of, I'm guessing, attempt at looking smart or tough & always in control?? :confused: :smt102
 
Nyx said:
turn to be a bad day :x
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Hope tomorrow's a better day!
 
Alinoa said:
I have formally decided I want a wife:


WHY I WANT A WIFE

by Judy Syfers, published in in The First Ms. Reader


I belong to that classification of people known as wives. I am A Wife. And, not altogether incidentally, I am a mother.

Not too long ago a male friend of mine appeared on the scene fresh from a recent divorce. He had one child, who is, of course, with his ex-wife. He is obviously looking for another wife. As I thought about him while I was ironing one evening, it suddenly occurred to me that I, too, would like to have a wife. Why do I want a wife?

I would like to go back to school so that I can become economically independent, support myself, and, if need be, support those dependent upon me. I want a wife who will work and send me to school. And while I am going to school I want a wife to keep track of the children's doctor and dentist appointments. And to keep track of mine, too. I want a wife to make sure my children eat properly and are kept clean. I want a wife who will wash the children's clothes and keep them mended. I want a wife who is a good nurturant attendant to my children, who arranges for their schooling, makes sure that they have an adequate social life with their peers, takes them to the park, the zoo, etc. I want a wife who takes care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arranges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, I cannot miss classes at school. My wife must arrange to lose time at work and not lose the job. It may mean a small cut in my wife's income from time to time, but I guess I can tolerate that. Needless to say, my wife will arrange and pay for the care of the children while my wife is working.

I want a wife who will take care of *my* physical needs. I want a wife who will keep my house clean. A wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper place so I can find what I need the minute I need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife who is a *good* cook. I want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shopping, prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I want a wife who will care for me when I am sick and sympathize with my pain and loss of time from school. I want a wife to go along when our family takes a vacation so that someone can continue to care for me and my children when I need a rest and change of scene.

I want a wife who will not bother me with rambling complaints about a wife's duties. But I want a wife who will listen to me when I feel the need to explain a rather difficult point I have come across in my course of studies. And I want a wife who will type my papers for me when I have written them.

I want a wife who will take care of the details of my social life. When my wife and I are invited out by my friends, I want a wife who will take care of the babysitting arrangements. When I meet people at school that I like and want to entertain, I want a wife who will have the house clean, will prepare a special meal, serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when I talk about the things that interest me and my friends. I want a wife who will have arranged that the children are fed and ready for bed before my guests arrive so that the children do not bother us. I want a wife who takes care of the needs of my guests so that they feel comfortable, who makes sure that they have an ashtray, that they are passed the hors d'oeurves, that they are offered a second helping of the food, that their wine glasses are replenished when necessary, that their coffee is served to them as they like it.

And I want a wife who knows that sometimes I need a night out by myself.

I want a wife who is sensitive to my sexual needs, a wife who makes love passionately and eagerly when I feel like it, a wife who makes sure that I am satisfied. And, of course, I want a wife who will not demand sexual attention when I am not in the mood for it. I want a wife who assumes the complete responsibility for birth control, because I do not want more children. I want a wife who will remain sexually faithful to me so that I do not have to clutter up my intellectual life with jealousies. And I want a wife who understands that *my* sexual needs may entail more than strict adherence to monogamy. I must, after all, be able to relate to people as fully as possible.

If, by chance, I find another person more suitable as a wife than the wife I already have, I want the liberty to replace my present wife with another one. Naturally, I will expect a fresh, new life; my wife will take the children and be solely responsible for them so that I am left free.

When I am through with school and have a job, I want my wife to quit working and remain at home so that my wife can more fully and completely take care of a wife's duties.

My God, who *wouldn't* want a wife?
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Some straight up self deluded bullshit right there. Men of the current generation take on a lot more; in fact, i find an equal complement of men and women who are lazy as shit and use the above "speil" as their out from balancing the many demands living in a modern society has (working and raising kids for example). It can be done, and done well- it's called capacity.
 
subtlenote said:
Some straight up self deluded bullshit right there. Men of the current generation take on a lot more; in fact, i find an equal complement of men and women who are lazy as shit and use the above "speil" as their out from balancing the many demands living in a modern society has (working and raising kids for example). It can be done, and done well- it's called capacity.
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I was tired that night from working all the damn time and didn't want to do dishes.

Besides, I've lived alone for almost five years and there is no way in hell I would even tolerate living with another human being, much less any man. And I don't do relationships.

I gave up on that bullshit about the same time I decided I would never share my living space with anything other than a furry four legged creature.
 
About an hour and a half ago, my mother called me up and asked if I could come over to her place, because of some pain that's driving her crazy. I arrived there in 20 minutes, and she was ON THE FLOOR, with vomit on the carpet. O.o I got her up from the floor, and I sat her down on the couch, trying to calm her down, and I noticed some diharrea stains from her pants...

I had to call 911.

So I did. I called 911, and last time I heard, she's in the hospital now in the Emergency, and I haven't heard any news yet.
 
LibraPrincess said:
About an hour and a half ago, my mother called me up and asked if I could come over to her place, because of some pain that's driving her crazy. I arrived there in 20 minutes, and she was ON THE FLOOR, with vomit on the carpet. O.o I got her up from the floor, and I sat her down on the couch, trying to calm her down, and I noticed some diharrea stains from her pants...

I had to call 911.

So I did. I called 911, and last time I heard, she's in the hospital now in the Emergency, and I haven't heard any news yet.
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Oh no, LP, that is not good! I hope she is ok. Why didn't you ride with her? Can you go to the hospital? LP are YOU ok?
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Praying for your mom that it's not serious and that she will be fine.
 
Bliss said:
Oh no, LP, that is not good! I hope she is ok. Why didn't you ride with her? Can you go to the hospital? LP are YOU ok?
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Praying for your mom that it's not serious and that she will be fine.
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I didn't ride with her because my step-father was already going along, and I didn't want to see or hear all the drama, otherwise I would end up with an Anxiety attack. I'm alright, Bliss...I have my cell phone with me at all times in case the hospital calls...speaking of which, I better make a few calls, myself.
 
LibraPrincess said:
I didn't ride with her because my step-father was already going along, and I didn't want to see or hear all the drama, otherwise I would end up with an Anxiety attack. I'm alright, Bliss...I have my cell phone with me at all times in case the hospital calls...speaking of which, I better make a few calls, myself.
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:smt056 Praying and wishing her good, luv. :smt049
 
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