Quick question for black guys.

xoxo said:
He's just confused, notice the juxtaposition of.....



He better start dating Asian women cause that above line is not going to win points with either White or Black women.... and certainly Black women don't want to hear about you loving them yet you are messing with White women.....:smt043

Black men going out of there way to down play White women, yet fuck with them: prime example of the aversion/coverup :lol:
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reggie2k8 said:
I'm new to the site but have been lurking around here for awhile and it seems like I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women. I find it strange how some of the guys on here straight up bash black women for being ignorant, uneducated, loud, not liking smart black men, etc but like you mentioned there are more educated BW than BM, they attend college more, get better grades, committ less crimes etc. I mean alot BW do fit into those stereotypes but if you look at BM as a whole we aren't much better than them either. So something must not be adding up. I think alot of BM do find excuses why they don't like BW rather than why they do like WW. Its like BM are saying "I rather be with a BW but the way you act has forced me to date WW." I don't understand how you can bash BW when your mother, aunts, cousin, etc are black. I see it as a form of self hating.

I think the way you posed the 2nd question is a setup. To me if both the WW and BW are equal why would I want to have to deal with the social pressures of a interracial relationship if I can get the same smart and gorgeous BW without the social hassels of getting with a WW. The way you worded that question a person would be a dummy not to choose the BW, because you imply that an interracial relationship is a negative.

I think there are many reason why BM get with WW. I think some BM are just geniunely attracted to WW. Some of it may also be the experiences they have had with BW. But I also think that many BM are attracted to WW because we live in a white dominated world where everything white is right. From birth we(men of all races) are bombarded with the image that WW are superior to all other women and the further you are away from that image the less attractive you are. This is why black men are much more open to dating WW than WM are to dating BW because for the most part BW are not looked at as desireable in the media. I think its a combination of these three reasons why BM get with WW.
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Go somehwere else and douche your butthole...sissy.
 
xoxo said:
He's just confused, notice the juxtaposition of.....



He better start dating Asian women cause that above line is not going to win points with either White or Black women.... and certainly Black women don't want to hear about you loving them yet you are messing with White women.....:smt043

Black men going out of there way to down play White women, yet fuck with them: prime example of the aversion/coverup :lol:
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"XOXO" not really into Asian women. Some are attractive but I don't think I have ever seen a Asian chick with a nice body. Why won't I win points with black or white women? If I'm talking to a white girl and she can't understand or doesn't like the fact that I like black girls I won't talk to her. Seeing as though I am black and 9/10 a person is attracted to the group of women in their race. For black women I would think its very stupid to not want to talk to me because I have dealt with them in the past. I would think they are ignorant and unintelligent. XOXO I don't know what type of black girls you come across but I rarely meet or see the fire breathing, out for blood, destructive, black women you come across. My current gf is white and know black girl has ever come up to me and said anything to me. We do get looks from people sometimes but its when we are in all white settings.
 
reggie2k8 said:
Why won't I win points with black or white women?
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No response on how in one sentence you say you mess with White Girls but still love Black women? Does this make it clear: Mess White Girl, Love Black women. In fact you have not referred to "White women" as women at any point other than WW, yet you have posted Black women more than once.

reggie2k8 said:
If I'm talking to a white girl and she can't understand or doesn't like the fact that I like black girls I won't talk to her.
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I was not talking about some what if, it won't ever happen scenario, I was referring to how your one sentence would not be interpreted kindly by Black or White women. If you don't think so, defend that, don't come up with some B.S scenario as if I was inferring anything of that imaginary kind.

reggie2k8 said:
I don't know what type of black girls you come across but I rarely meet or see the fire breathing, out for blood, destructive, black women you come across.
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Yeah, at what one point did I say came across those kind of Black women?

reggie2k8 said:
My current gf is white and know black girl has ever come up to me and said anything to me. We do get looks from people sometimes but its when we are in all white settings.
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No one asked you about how people respond to you! Again, your juxtapositions are interesting though. Why mention how Black girls don't approach you in what would be a hostile manner, yet mention how you and your White girl are sometimes looked at by White people (If that's what a White setting is supposed to mean) in a less hostile manner. Has a White man ever come up to you? Do you get stares in "Black settings"? You don't need to answer that. I just want you to be aware of what you are typing, and how it might be interpreted.

reggie2k8 said:
For black women I would think its very stupid to not want to talk to me because I have dealt with them in the past. I would think they are ignorant and unintelligent.
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And if you hadn't dealt with them in the past? Then what? I don't think prior dealings with Black women (the general majority who don't know you personally) have any bearing on how they view you and your White girl.
I'm not going to go through the trouble of arguing this point with you, because it's subjective and I'm not sure if you're a sincere poster yet...ie... I don't want to waste time.

If you would indulge me, ReggieBush2k8, go to Black voices and tell them that a poster on this site said that Black women in general would not be to fond of your statement: I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women. :p that's a joke btw!!
 
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xoxo said:
This is not a Harvard debate on the sociological aspects of interracial relationships, nor is anyone asking for a peer review when we post, nor is this the “free and fair” conversation/dialogue with Black women, White men and biracial college students....

We are not the beacons of open mindedness, logic, or fairness and none of us have ever professed to be. You trolls fail when you try to hold us and our relationships to higher moral standards than you would the mono-racial couples. You trolls fail when you try to make us out as hypocrites who are supposedly open minded to one thing, yet close-minded to hearing your bullshit.

This is a message board like any other. We say whatever the hell we want to about anything, brilliant or ignorant (all within the guidelines of this forum), and we will all respond to you as individuals (as we've done in this topic). More than likely, it's you trolls who will say or do something to get your asses banned. This site is for White women who like Black men and vice-versa. We don't have to explain WHY?

To White male trolls: Leave our women alone!!!!!

To Black male trolls: I don't care that you like all women!!!! Don't come here complaining about us hating on Black women when Black men are doing it ten times as much and worse on Black discussion boards!!!!! Take that shit to the "Black love" boards!!!!

To Black women: We know you are Black women when you pretend not to be. We know that you pretend to be because you want to keep up the illusion that you don't care. Everyone knows that you do!!!!! Save the “Interracial relationships are cool, but” speech.....Black men don't need your approval, nor does there need to be a discussion with you because we are with, or prefer White women.
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You broke somebody's ankles with this post.:smt045
 
xoxo said:
No response on how in one sentence you say you mess with White Girls but still love Black women? Does this make it clear: Mess White Girl, Love Black women. In fact you have not referred to "White women" as women at any point other than WW, yet you have posted Black women more than once.



I was not talking about some what if, it won't ever happen scenario, I was referring to how your one sentence would not be interpreted kindly by Black or White women. If you don't think so, defend that, don't come up with some B.S scenario as if I was inferring anything of that imaginary kind.



Yeah, at what one point did I say came across those kind of Black women?



No one asked you about how people respond to you! Again, your juxtapositions are interesting though. Why mention how Black girls don't approach you in what would be a hostile manner, yet mention how you and your White girl are sometimes looked at by White people (If that's what a White setting is supposed to mean) in a less hostile manner. Has a White man ever come up to you? Do you get stares in "Black settings"? You don't need to answer that. I just want you to be aware of what you are typing, and how it might be interpreted.



And if you hadn't dealt with them in the past? Then what? I don't think prior dealings with Black women (the general majority who don't know you personally) have any bearing on how they view you and your White girl.
I'm not going to go through the trouble of arguing this point with you, because it's subjective and I'm not sure if you're a sincere poster yet...ie... I don't want to waste time.

If you would indulge me, ReggieBush2k8, go to Black voices and tell them that a poster on this site said that Black women in general would not be to fond of your statement: I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women. :p that's a joke btw!!
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I think there is some miss communication going on but I think I understand what you were trying to say now when you were referring to this "black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women". If I'm hearing you right I think you are saying that white women wouldn't like me saying that I just mess around with them. Correct? Poor choice of words, my bad. What I thought you were saying is that White women wouldn't like that even though I might be in a relationship with a white women they would be mad that I still like and find black women attractive.

When you said that black women wouldn't like what I said with that sentence I thought you were saying that black women would like the fact that I have had relationships with white women in the past. I have been lurking around the website for awhile and I see many posts basically saying that black women throw temper tantrums and starting making all these snide comments every time they see a black dude with a white girl. So that is why I went on say the only time I get any type of flack from people for having a white girl is when I'm in an all white setting.

Can you see where I'm coming from now?
 
reggie2k8 said:
Can you see where I'm coming from now?
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reggie2k8 said:
So that is why I went on say the only time I get any type of flack from people for having a white girl is when I'm in an all white setting.
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Has a White man ever come up to you? Do you get stares in "Black settings"?

reggie2k8 said:
I have been lurking around the website for awhile and I see many posts basically saying that black women throw temper tantrums and starting making all these snide comments every time they see a black dude with a white girl. So that is why I went on say the only time I get any type of flack from people for having a white girl is when I'm in an all white setting.
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reggie2k8 said:
I'm new to the site but have been lurking around here for awhile and it seems like I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women......

I find it strange how some of the guys on here straight up bash black women for being ignorant, uneducated, loud, not liking smart black men, etc but like you (adolecent09) mentioned there are more educated BW than BM, they attend college more, get better grades, committ less crimes etc.
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and the opening poster said:

Black men have made some pretty severe accusations about black women, and yet do not have to back up their insinuations with logic
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Do you see why you are being called a troll or a BM sissy? This is the second time you're contradicting the supposed comments and beliefs of the Black male posters here with regards to Black women. Different people can see different things when they look at the same object, and apparently you are primarily seeing what Black men are saying about Black women on this site.

I doubt you know anyone here well enough to presume how we feel about Black women or why we are with the WW.
 
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xoxo said:
To White male trolls: Leave our women alone!!!!!

To Black male trolls: I don't care that you like all women!!!! Don't come here complaining about us hating on Black women when Black men are doing it ten times as much and worse on Black discussion boards!!!!! Take that shit to the "Black love" boards!!!!

To Black women: We know you are Black women when you pretend not to be. We know that you pretend to be because you want to keep up the illusion that you don't care. Everyone knows that you do!!!!! Save the “Interracial relationships are cool, but” speech.....Black men don't need your approval, nor does there need to be a discussion with you because we are with, or prefer White women.
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We need this ^ to be a part of the registering process.
 
Inner Beauty said:
Does your White girlfriend know you're just "messing" with her?
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I already established that it was a poor choice of words. I use the words "mess" around to indicate that I talk to or have a relationship with a girl. I don't know if this is a cultural, regional, or generational thing but alot of people I know use that term. But I think you are just being facetious because I said some "controversial" statements for this website.
 
reggie2k8 said:
I already established that it was a poor choice of words. I use the words "mess" around to indicate that I talk to or have a relationship with a girl. I don't know if this is a cultural, regional, or generational thing but alot of people I know use that term. But I think you are just being facetious because I said some "controversial" asinine statements for this website.
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reggie2k8 said:
I already established that it was a poor choice of words. I use the words "mess" around to indicate that I talk to or have a relationship with a girl. I don't know if this is a cultural, regional, or generational thing but alot of people I know use that term. But I think you are just being facetious because I said some "controversial" statements for this website.
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I'm not being facetious. You said you love Black women, you have yet to say you love White women too!

I'm just saying....
 
Loki said:
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What did I say that was extremely and utterly foolish. I read what I posted again to see if I was unfair or bias but I thought I was being objective. But if its something specific that you didn't like please call me out. I'm just basing my post on my experiences and knowledge that I have gathered through research and observation.
 
Looks like most of you are willing to just throw jabs than have a civil discucssion with whoever this is. Ya'll need to relax, and try actually talking, on the real people
 
MTower said:
Looks like most of you are willing to just throw jabs than have a civil discucssion with whoever this is. Ya'll need to relax, and try actually talking, on the real people
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Do you go into someones house and disrespect their home? You wouldn't want that done to/in your home, so why would we want it done here?

Remember, this is WHITE women BLACK men.
 
Inner Beauty said:
Do you go into someones house and disrespect their home? You wouldn't want that done to/in your home, so why would we want it done here?

Remember, this is WHITE women BLACK men.
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No disrespect, but
I read his/her post and didn't find it disrespectful. I read the thread and saw everyone imediatly go into an agressive defense mode, which is fine. I would just like to see someone intellegently answer their questions w/o the "we know who are, go somewhere with that" bullshit replies. Xoxo really gives me that high school "this is my territory" lunch room feel.
 
MTower said:
No disrespect, but
I read his/her post and didn't find it disrespectful. I read the thread and saw everyone imediatly go into an agressive defense mode, which is fine. I would just like to see someone intellegently answer their questions w/o the "we know who are, go somewhere with that" bullshit replies. Xoxo really gives me that high school "this is my territory" lunch room feel.
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Do you really date WW? I mean honestly and seriously. Do you walk hand in hand with a White girl in public?

Have you read any of XO's posts? He's one of the most intelligent and insightful posters on here. He takes each post and analyzes it carefully and explains himself point by point. This is not a territorial site, it's about defending ourselves against assholes and bitches who oppose our union.
 
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