Quick question for black guys.

dafame said:
The replies here are a great example of how ignorant people can be when they feel that their position is being challeged. This person was simply asking some simply questions that may have been just a little too relivant to be approached by children.
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Children? I thought this post got way more attention then it actually deserved. Just my opinion I guess.
 
EspyInHeels said:
LOL! You made me look. I actually have a large birthmark on my left ankle, which is why I don't post pics showing my left foot, but I thought maybe I screwed up.
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I know it's completely irrelevant to the thread, but Espy.... that IS your left foot? Unless the picture is flipped? :smt017:rolleyes:
 
AnMDBCartoon said:
Note to the originator of this thread
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That women has gone back to whatever "cave" of loneliness and intellectual dishonesty she surfaced from. She'll eventualy resurface pretending to be something she's not with a few more questions.

If he was truly "biracial" I'm sure he could ask his White mother those disgusting questions he posed to the women on here and being a man of course, I'm sure he could find fellow Black men in his life to help him if he were really being serious....and if this person is from a BW/WM union then they should take their questions to wherever those folks reside.

This is a Black woman, however, who is probably as ugly on the outside as she certainly is on the in.
 
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xoxo said:
That women has gone back to whatever "cave" of loneliness and intellectual dishonesty she surfaced from. She'll resurface pretending to be something she's not with a few more questions.

If he was truly "biracial" I'm sure he could ask his White mother those disgusting questions he posed to the women on here and being a man of course, I'm sure he could find fellow Black men in his life to help him if he were really being serious....and if this person is from a BW/WM union then they should take their questions to wherever those folks reside.

This is a Black woman, however, who is as probably as ugly on the outside as she certainly is on the in.
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I'm inclined to *agree*, m8..


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XO, U blast:smt068. I haven't seen anyone post in like this in a minute, I would give you a hundred reps for all your post in this thread if I could.
 
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dafame said:
The replies here are a great example of how ignorant people can be when they feel that their position is being challeged. This person was simply asking some simply questions that may have been just a little too relivant to be approached by children.
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I can only speak for myself, but I have no problem with someone disagreeing with me. Don't want to date WW? Don't. Don't want to date another man? Don't. Don't want to date a transsexual? Don't. Don't want to date someone with freckles? Don't. You are absolutely 100% free to think what I do is trashy/stupid/Satanic. However, I'll have a civil discussion with anyone, but hold no delusions: This WW and no one else owes you an answer, bud.
 
UnChosen 1 said:
Blondie, Noone will accuse you of having a low self esteem, lol.
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Actually i think I am quite modest, especially about my looks. I was simply making refernce to the post #6 the first page. I'd like to think that I am well grounded, and not take myself too seriously about such things. There are WAY more prettier girls than me, especially some on this site. =)

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Adolescent09 said:
Howdy folks, I'm a black male who pretty much loves all races of women so I'm not sure if this question is pertinent to the members of this forum but I was simply curious...

I understand that many black men prefer to be with white women and that is perfectly cool but I was just thinking.... My sociology professor recently told me that there are more black women in college than black men (at my specific school there are almost twice as many bw as bm) and they tend to have much higher GPA's, are much more likely to finish their education, to be more independent, wealthy and educated, yet they find it very difficult to find/attract black men. I've run into a lot of black men who complain that there aren't enough successful/sophisticated black women around but if you look at virtually ANY college campus, university campus, or p.h.D program in the country you would realize that that is basically hog shit. They are literally crawling out of bookstores, libraries and campuses, so my two questions are as follows:

(1) Do black men sometimes try to cover up their aversion for women of their own race because they are embarrassed/shy to admit they prefer white women or other light-skinned women?

(2) Are black men willing to settle down with a gorgeous bw who is educated and well-off without having to deal with the societal hastle of coping with and IR relationship. Or are they more willing to settle down with a gorgeous ww who is educated and well-off, while having to deal with a litany of racial insults and abuse from white male counterparts?

I'm posting this because I'm interested in what people have to say, and because I need to come up with creative answers for my final exam :p
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I'm new to the site but have been lurking around here for awhile and it seems like I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women. I find it strange how some of the guys on here straight up bash black women for being ignorant, uneducated, loud, not liking smart black men, etc but like you mentioned there are more educated BW than BM, they attend college more, get better grades, committ less crimes etc. I mean alot BW do fit into those stereotypes but if you look at BM as a whole we aren't much better than them either. So something must not be adding up. I think alot of BM do find excuses why they don't like BW rather than why they do like WW. Its like BM are saying "I rather be with a BW but the way you act has forced me to date WW." I don't understand how you can bash BW when your mother, aunts, cousin, etc are black. I see it as a form of self hating.

I think the way you posed the 2nd question is a setup. To me if both the WW and BW are equal why would I want to have to deal with the social pressures of a interracial relationship if I can get the same smart and gorgeous BW without the social hassels of getting with a WW. The way you worded that question a person would be a dummy not to choose the BW, because you imply that an interracial relationship is a negative.

I think there are many reason why BM get with WW. I think some BM are just geniunely attracted to WW. Some of it may also be the experiences they have had with BW. But I also think that many BM are attracted to WW because we live in a white dominated world where everything white is right. From birth we(men of all races) are bombarded with the image that WW are superior to all other women and the further you are away from that image the less attractive you are. This is why black men are much more open to dating WW than WM are to dating BW because for the most part BW are not looked at as desireable in the media. I think its a combination of these three reasons why BM get with WW.
 
reggie2k8 said:
I'm new to the site but have been lurking around here for awhile and it seems like I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women. I find it strange how some of the guys on here straight up bash black women for being ignorant, uneducated, loud, not liking smart black men, etc but like you mentioned there are more educated BW than BM, they attend college more, get better grades, committ less crimes etc. I mean alot BW do fit into those stereotypes but if you look at BM as a whole we aren't much better than them either. So something must not be adding up. I think alot of BM do find excuses why they don't like BW rather than why they do like WW. Its like BM are saying "I rather be with a BW but the way you act has forced me to date WW." I don't understand how you can bash BW when your mother, aunts, cousin, etc are black. I see it as a form of self hating.

I think the way you posed the 2nd question is a setup. To me if both the WW and BW are equal why would I want to have to deal with the social pressures of a interracial relationship if I can get the same smart and gorgeous BW without the social hassels of getting with a WW. The way you worded that question a person would be a dummy not to choose the BW, because you imply that an interracial relationship is a negative.

I think there are many reason why BM get with WW. I think some BM are just geniunely attracted to WW. Some of it may also be the experiences they have had with BW. But I also think that many BM are attracted to WW because we live in a white dominated world where everything white is right. From birth we(men of all races) are bombarded with the image that WW are superior to all other women and the further you are away from that image the less attractive you are. This is why black men are much more open to dating WW than WM are to dating BW because for the most part BW are not looked at as desireable in the media. I think its a combination of these three reasons why BM get with WW.
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Do I have xray goggles on or can everyone else see through this bullshit!!!
 
In my family we have already 4 races /ethnic groups represented all the time. There is the logical brain and then the unconscious|emotional attraction brain, don't you find?

April
 
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This is not a Harvard debate on the sociological aspects of interracial relationships, nor is anyone asking for a peer review when we post, nor is this the “free and fair” conversation/dialogue with Black women, White men and biracial college students....

We are not the beacons of open mindedness, logic, or fairness and none of us have ever professed to be. You trolls fail when you try to hold us and our relationships to higher moral standards than you would the mono-racial couples. You trolls fail when you try to make us out as hypocrites who are supposedly open minded to one thing, yet close-minded to hearing your bullshit.

This is a message board like any other. We say whatever the hell we want to about anything, brilliant or ignorant (all within the guidelines of this forum), and we will all respond to you as individuals (as we've done in this topic). More than likely, it's you trolls who will say or do something to get your asses banned. This site is for White women who like Black men and vice-versa. We don't have to explain WHY?

To White male trolls: Leave our women alone!!!!!

To Black male trolls: I don't care that you like all women!!!! Don't come here complaining about us hating on Black women when Black men are doing it ten times as much and worse on Black discussion boards!!!!! Take that shit to the "Black love" boards!!!!

To Black women: We know you are Black women when you pretend not to be. We know that you pretend to be because you want to keep up the illusion that you don't care. Everyone knows that you do!!!!! Save the “Interracial relationships are cool, but” speech.....Black men don't need your approval, nor does there need to be a discussion with you because we are with, or prefer White women.
 
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andrae09 said:
Do I have xray goggles on or can everyone else see through this bullshit!!!
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He's just confused, notice the juxtaposition of.....

reggie2k8 said:
I am one of the few black dudes on here that messes with white girls but still love black women
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He better start dating Asian women cause that above line is not going to win points with either White or Black women.... and certainly Black women don't want to hear about you loving them yet you are messing with White women.....:smt043

Black men going out of there way to down play White women, yet fuck with them: prime example of the aversion/coverup :lol:
 
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