You're incredibly overweight, you have a defeated disposition, and you seem to lack certain social cues. Remedy for that is eating at least four cups of veggies and three cups of fruit along with an hour of walking twenty five push ups and sit ups daily for three months. Learn a new skill do things that make you feel more confident so you come across that way
Very good advice. Plus, if the picture you are using for dating pages is the same you are using here, that needs some improvement as well. You never get a second chance to make a first impression, so a smile or at least a more friendly/open expression is mandatory.
its really not about weight, my man is overweight and it didn't put me off at all because he was warm, friendly and I wanted to get to know him. Ok for some people it will be an issue, but not to everyone.
You have a bigger issue than being alone. Sloth is not good. Your motivation at this point should be your own life and quality of it.
You are looking for help for what? Sloth?? It does not work like that. Even if it did considering the ramifications of Sloth you need not to wait for such help. Sloth is also whats contributing to your "defeated disposition" you stand to allow yourself to diminish spiritually as well as physically, and mentally.
No, This is a you thing. Women will come and go. Women are superficial like men probably more so. You have to work on you. I don't like to nag or belittle but getting in shape will certainly help your odds of not simply getting women but living longer. I feel that there are so many dynamics to getting a woman that are simply annoying but you got to do certain things to get what you want. It is like that with everything. That being said my advice is from an American perspective. I have no idea how it is in Austria.
I do understand that you would like to have someone who cares about/for you and supports you, BUT as long as you don't want it for yourself, you most likely won't be able to change anything in your life. I can only speak for myself, but I think most women are looking for an equal partner, not a person who is depending on them for motivation. There is something very sexy about a man who has goals and is determined to reach them. Those men usually attract women as a positive "side effect".
Expecting another person to motivate you to make necessary changes for yourself is ridiculous. You change you for you and your motivation is you. Don't expect a cheer squad...be your own
Then honestly, go on a weight watchers forum or a forum for weight loss, where there are like minded souls who can encourage you and you can develop a relationship with a woman who is after the same thing
sorry, that is wrong. what you do about your life. the decisions you take are all upon yourself. you decide, what you want to look like. you might not reach that point in a day, a month or year, but you will decide if you want to change and when. you decide, what your life should look like. if you cant motivate yourself, find some ppl with the same problem, but dont expect your woman to do so. if she will fine, but it s not something you expect from being in a relationship with her. how you spend your free time, going out etc. is up to you. it might be more fun with others, but where you want to meet those others if you are just staying for yourself? on the net? didnt seem to work til now.
Damn get off the man's got dayum nuts. Every person in here tossing the they 2 cents bitched and moaned about online dating but y'all never went this hard at each other Look man, they know exactly what you mean but playing stupid.
Perfect? Dude start with trying to achieve being average. Love yourself. Seriously stop wasting time looking for others to love you and just love yourself first. Nothing else can or will workout until you do
