The Dark King
Well-Known Member
You make a great point here.
I teach from time to time a "reality-based" street self defense system although I have my roots in "traditional" martial arts. As a former bounty hunter and night club bouncer I found the traditional stuff doesn't work in real life situations 90% of the time. And unfortunately I’ve been in barroom brawls fueled by idiots and their insecure egos.
Most traditional systems focus primarily on the physical, respect, mind spirit aspects but not the emotional, behavioral and psychological aspects of conflict and confrontation management. Most techniques work great in a dojo or dojang but are never truly pressure-tested and are conducted in nice, comfortable environments with nice room martial arts uniforms.
For instance, any strikes such as punches and kicks require 3 elements – grounding, distance and torque. If you are a striker, this is where the ground and grappling fighters will want to institute a single or double leg take down and why initially the Gracies were sweeping the floor literally with the strikers.
MMA/Jujitsu/Grappling has rules and while it can be brutal, it too really doesn’t mimic self defense although it is often portrayed as if it is. And if people understand the limitations both traditional and MMA style then that is cool but far too often they don’t and they don’t take into account that self defense is not a martial sport. There is an excellent article on the topic:
http://www.wimsblog.com/2012/09/ren...-self-defense-a-case-study-of-what-not-to-do/
Additionally most women, simply based on the 2nd Law of Motion (I refuse to call it “Newtons” Law of Motion) which indicates F=ma cannot generate the same amount of force as a man can – generally speaking. But, again the physical aspect of self defense is very small compared to the emotional, behavioral and psychological aspects. If you can control yourself oft time you can control the situation and get out safely without ever having to resort to any physicality. Here is a nice example of that:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWfetF1jCO4
Wise men indeed.
That's why styes like kajukenbo and krav maga are great for self defense because they were born from the streets.
