I must admit you make a good point in that for men it's rarely about looks primarily. Its about taking care of business as a man, a provider, hard worker, setting yourself up in life.
Yeah looks don't hurt but for men that is rarely one of the criteria you hear women mention as desirable in a man. If he is a respectful, responsible, go getter man then that seems more noteworthy to women. As long as the man isn't some fat, smelly, beer gut, alchoholic, wife beater, deadbeat loser.
We see average looking men with gorgeous women all the time, why because often he might be successful.
Besides no woman I imagine wants a man that takes up more time in the mirror than her.
Of course ladies would be more in tuned to answering that question when it comes to men.
oh but remember according to some its ONLY for the money when its that situation :roll: its funny how upset people get when they cant apply their stereotypes to a certain couple