Man Hits Woman - Was he Right ? Or Wrong ?

RaiderLL said:
Contrary to your belief, I'm not that woman. If I was that type though and I did hit him, he could easily restrain me with one hand...he'd never hit me back. No matter how angry I got him, he just wouldn't do it. He would never hurt a woman unless his life was in imminent danger. His ex tested every limit he had, including putting her hands on him out of anger, he never touched her except to restrain her until the cops came lol. Ex tells the same version...she acted psycho but he never touched her. That's how we're raising our boys, every measure to avoid hurting someone should be taken.
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You are an abuser.
 
Ra said:
So...none of these savage ass females coming up nowadays understand the concept & consequences of violence when they fight each other? They only understand it when they decide to be extra savage and run up on dudes? Really????
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Smh
 
goodlove8 said:
You are an abuser.
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GL can you read?? You genuinely lack the ability to comprehend what someone's saying if it's not in perfect alignment with your beliefs, don't you? How sad. You want so badly to see me as an abuser, even though every one of my posts contradicts that ignorant belief, that you're unable to even grasp the point of my last post. You seem bitter that the men in my life are able to react to physical confrontation with a maturity level beyond your comprehension. I'm blessed with true gentleman in my life who don't fall in line with your excitable attitude towards beating women (whooping ass, cracking dome, whatever stupid phrase you want to use). You are the man Whoopi was talking about... the type of man that women raise their daughters not to settle for.
 
Get over yourself. You guys crack all the time and now you are mad.

Btw you involved your man. I never brought up my daughter .... You did.



RaiderLL said:
GL can you read?? You genuinely lack the ability to comprehend what someone's saying if it's not in perfect alignment with your beliefs, don't you? How sad. You want so badly to see me as an abuser, even though every one of my posts contradicts that ignorant belief, that you're unable to even grasp the point of my last post. You seem bitter that the men in my life are able to react to physical confrontation with a maturity level beyond your comprehension. I'm blessed with true gentleman in my life who don't fall in line with your excitable attitude towards beating women (whooping ass, cracking dome, whatever stupid phrase you want to use). You are the man Whoopi was talking about... the type of man that women raise their daughters not to settle for.
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goodlove8 said:
Im fucking with her. Y'all throw insults all the time get over yourself
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No one's buying that suddenly after arguing for 15+ pages you are joking. You try to turn it as soon as you cross the line and get called on it.
 
RaiderLL said:
If we lived in a perfect world, you'd have a very good point. But we don't. We live in a world where you're going to be tested and I think it's very immature and short sighted to have the mentality that some of you have. I thank God that the man in my life is smart enough to have always considered his size and strength when altercations arose. He wasn't a saint but he also wasnt dumb enough to think he could ever unleash on someone for something petty and not pay significantly for it. Defending yourself is a given. Wailing on someone smaller when you could have reacted more maturely is an entirely different beast.
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Who said anything about wailing. If you hit me why should I just suck it up. Why should you be allowed to encroach on my safety. What gives you the right. Just because you're smaller?
 
Ra said:
So...none of these savage ass females coming up nowadays understand the concept & consequences of violence when they fight each other? They only understand it when they decide to be extra savage and run up on dudes? Really????
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No because they truly believe a guy won't hit them back because they aren't supposed to. Funny enough damn near none of them are that bold when the person that much bigger is another female. They suddenly understand boundaries and consequences. I wonder why
 
RaiderLL said:
Contrary to your belief, I'm not that woman. If I was that type though and I did hit him, he could easily restrain me with one hand...he'd never hit me back. No matter how angry I got him, he just wouldn't do it. He would never hurt a woman unless his life was in imminent danger. His ex tested every limit he had, including putting her hands on him out of anger, he never touched her except to restrain her until the cops came lol. Ex tells the same version...she acted psycho but he never touched her. That's how we're raising our boys, every measure to avoid hurting someone should be taken.
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So basically you want to go through life being treated like a small child who can't control themselves then in the same breath be called an equal? Word? Ok lol
 
The Dark King said:
No because they truly believe a guy won't hit them back because they aren't supposed to. Funny enough damn near none of them are that bold when the person that much bigger is another female. They suddenly understand boundaries and consequences. I wonder why
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Doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things anyway. Male or female, if you have no regard for others, you're going to be a savage in how you conduct yourself. Period.
 
The Dark King said:
Who said anything about wailing. If you hit me why should I just suck it up. Why should you be allowed to encroach on my safety. What gives you the right. Just because you're smaller?
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This whole thread GL has talked about that woman deserving a full on ass kicking for a slap. Justifiable defense is going to take into consideration the actual threat you were under. If, as in this case, some chick slaps u and in return you knock her out... who do you think is going to jail? Id guess more often than not, you. We don't live in a fair world, you have to be smart enough to look out for your own well being. Defend yourself, reasonably. That's all I'm saying.
 
RaiderLL said:
This whole thread GL has talked about that woman deserving a full on ass kicking for a slap. Justifiable defense is going to take into consideration the actual threat you were under. If, as in this case, some chick slaps u and in return you knock her out... who do you think is going to jail? Id guess more often than not, you. We don't live in a fair world, you have to be smart enough to look out for your own well being. Defend yourself, reasonably. That's all I'm saying.
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Ok
 
RaiderLL said:
Where did I ever even incinuate that girls don't need to keep their hands to themselves. I swear this conversation is like that Groundhog's Day movie. It's been said literally over and over (by me and others) that everyone should keep their hands to themselves. That's not the disagreed upon point here. The point is that we live in a world that isn't perfect and there will be people who test you at times and our kids need to know how to react appropriately. Defend yourself to the extend necessary and NO FURTHER. If a small person slaps you, you have no justification to go off and beat them when you had size and strength advantages. Good lord I can't believe that is even a debatable point. In the majority of cases, men naturally have greater size and strength than women so unless theres a valid safety concern, I'll never understand hitting a woman...just like I'll never understand or condone hitting anyone smaller. There are other options when you have size and strength advantages. Period.
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This right here.
All day long.
 


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MightyLighty said:
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You posted this to try to further your argument but it only reinforces the point being made to you -- respond appropriately. He slapped her back and she recoiled. Of course he could have cold-cocked her, but he didn't because he knew the damage he could cause to her. As would be if he pulled out his gun and shot her.
 
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