do black women not like ww/bm together?

TigerMonarchy said:
Just posted on this in another forum but yeah, this happens to me all the time. ALL the time. I chat up women of ANY race that isn't black and black women will give me shit. Real quiet but real real.

It's real and it's real fucked up and I'm getting tired of it, personally. The comments they make, for me personally, make me lose focus on what I'm doing because I get so fucking emotional over the audacity of it all.

I get the competitive nature of it and how so few eligible black men there are for black women but I just wish black women would be honest about the lack of niceties of it all. Be mean and racist and exclusionary in the bedroom ALL YOU WANT...but have the courage to be honest and vocal about it. Don't snivel and shot call. I'd respect more black women more if they did that because at least I would know where they come from directly.
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If these BW aren't in your immediate family or paying you, you should give not a two fucks what they have to say about who you're dating. :cool: Some sisters kill me with this shit!
 
qwils86 said:
If these BW aren't in your immediate family or paying you, you should give not a two fucks what they have to say about who you're dating. :cool: Some sisters kill me with this shit!
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Since I was a teenager, I have heard that trash from black women about white women stealing us from black women. Honestly, the black women who say/believe this need to start exercising some agency. If they are having trouble finding men, then maybe something is wrong with their personalities. They need to work on themselves instead of starting a whole lot of unnecessary turmoil.




 
thefieryphoenix said:
Since I was a teenager, I have heard that trash from black women about white women stealing us from black women. Honestly, the black women who say/believe this need to start exercising some agency. If they are having trouble finding men, then maybe something is wrong with their personalities. They need to work on themselves instead of starting a whole lot of unnecessary turmoil.
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The thing I have heard(and I have heard this a lot) on television is that black women are the strength and conscience of the black community. Their rationale is that because they are strong and will not suffer fools and foolishness. This would seem like they come across as rude and loud. They feel that they deserve an attractive and successful black man because they are made for them and no one else. But, if they are rejected, they feel left out and unappreciated. "He's with a white woman because he can't handle a beautiful, intelligent and STRONG black woman." And all because she feels that this man's mother and siblings were black and his dating or marrying a non-black woman is a betrayal to the black family and the black race because it must survive.
I contend that the strength of one's character is not a tool of aggression or a weapon to be used on the unsuspecting world. But people feel the need to let it out, anyway. As it was said in the film Australia, "Pride's not power."
And as I have mentioned before, a woman has the power of choice. But, so does the man. Both have the power to exercise the power to choose. So, if I became successful or wealthy, I would do well not to advertise it. I'd rather be treated the way I am treated today than like a celebrity the next day. The truth is this; they didn't grow up with me. The don't know my mother. They didn't share in my trials and tribulations. They are not with me(not even in spirit)on my life journey. THEY DO NOT OWN ME.
I DO NOT OWN THEM.
And in conclusion, I say focus on you and work on you to succeed in your life.
 
There will always be haters, but I know a lot of black women that are ok with races mixing. In fact, most of black women I know agree with interracial relationships. The biggest problem through racism is how close minded people are, but generally whites are the most close minded. There will always be haters on both races, but I'd say blacks are the more comprehensive and tolerant.

Oh, and I'm white by the way.
 
jessica5 said:
There will always be haters, but I know a lot of black women that are ok with races mixing. In fact, most of black women I know agree with interracial relationships. The biggest problem through racism is how close minded people are, but generally whites are the most close minded. There will always be haters on both races, but I'd say blacks are the more comprehensive and tolerant.

Oh, and I'm white by the way.
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That statement's too general to make
 
Perhaps I should rephrase? Figure this: black people are about 20% of world pop, and just about 13% in US. So it's not hard to see why the most of pop decided to enslave the lesser of pop. So it's kinda easy that any black person would feel angry if their race received so much abuse as they received. I'm not saying that black people are all saints either, and that white are mean and satanic. People are not different because of race, that's true, but I tell you that in my case, most of women I know, have not prejudice about that. Perhaps you know people that do. There's all kind of people, but blacks had several mentors like Martin Luther King that pleaded to avoid angry feelings and thirst for revenge or reparations. Not saying that white people would be different if switching sides, but blacks are tolerant imho, very tolerant.
 
The thing is that even when it's pretty utopic to believe in total tolerance, there's plenty of black women that actually are ok with interracial relationships regarding black men and white women.

There always be haters, but I think society is slowly accepting interracial love. Such changes take centuries, we are just pioneering that.
 
Not all black women are against IR between WW and BM. One of my female friends who is black wanted to hook me up with one of her white female friends.
 
LuvLife82 said:
Not all black women are against IR between WW and BM. One of my female friends who is black wanted to hook me up with one of her white female friends.
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Very cool. If one of my black female friends is looking for a boyfriend, I include my friends of all races in the pool of possible candidates.
 
jessica5 said:
The thing is that even when it's pretty utopic to believe in total tolerance, there's plenty of black women that actually are ok with interracial relationships regarding black men and white women.

There always be haters, but I think society is slowly accepting interracial love. Such changes take centuries, we are just pioneering that.
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This is what I'm seeing/hearing/reading as well.

However, you do still have those that complain we're taking their men and making their pond smaller and the fish fewer.
 
Ches said:
This is what I'm seeing/hearing/reading as well.

However, you do still have those that complain we're taking their men and making their pond smaller and the fish fewer.
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It is about these black women who complain about losing the SAME guy to white(or other)women. Their pond is too big because they are competing amongst themselves like other women to find that man who has what they are looking for. Failing that, they go for a bad boy or thug. Then and only then would they probably consider dating a man of a different race or ethnicity.
 
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