Dating Feels Like a Full Time Job.

Oh! Where in the states will you be? Have you ever been here befofe?

 

Yeah freakin 10 years ago haha for 5 weeks, my passport expires this year so I need to really get moving plus my Son is 18 so he won't be needing to use the bank of Mum anymore lol.

Call me weird but most likely Tennessee again. Potentially a few days in NY depends if I feel like being treated like sht again lol.

I wouldn't mind seeing what the vibe is like in ATL. Kinda scared to travel there on my own and will be sad to leave my puggo lol but realising I haven't travelled for 10 years is pretty wack and lame lol.

 

I don't know if she was Australian or Swedish, the lady who posted the below message on her Facebook, I couldn't access my page as It was hacked but luckily I saved her comment on my computer. She is a traveling gorgeous professional white woman that's so attracted to us brothers one day a lucky BM will marry her and make cute babies with her.





As I sit here, gazing out my window at the dreary, gray sky, I can't help but yearn for the warm embrace of the sun. The thought of basking in its golden rays, feeling its warmth on my skin, and soaking up its vitamin D fills me with a sense of longing and desire. I crave the feeling of the sun on my face, the way it illuminates everything around me and brings a sense of joy and vitality to my day. But it's not just the sun that I seek, it's also the company of black men. There is something about their presence, their energy, and their essence that draws me in and captivates me. It's a combination of their strength, their confidence, and their undeniable charm that I'm so attracted to .

I find myself constantly seeking out their company, wanting to bask in their radiance and be enveloped in their warmth. There is a certain magic that happens when the sun and black men come together, a sense of joy and happiness that fills the air. It's as if the sun's rays are amplified by the presence of these men, creating a powerful and intoxicating energy that is impossible to resist. And as I continue to yearn for both the sunshine and the company of black men, I am reminded of the beauty and power that lies in diversity. For it is in the coming together of different cultures, backgrounds, and experiences that we can truly find happiness and fulfillment. So, I will continue to seek out the sunshine and the company of black men, knowing that in their presence, I will find a sense of warmth, joy, and love that cannot be found anywhere else.

 

You got that right.

 

Lately I'm seeing more and more fine black men in Brisbane, it makes me happy to see, it's a good contrast to the abundance of sloppy white men.

 

This is good news, Beccaomecca. It's always good to see people you're attracted to up close; Despite the haters and miserable assholes who are always envious of other people's happiness. I'd say good men and women will find each other and get romantically involved.

 

These days Men aren't putting in applications. Not worth it Thanks to Social Media, & the "I don't need a man" woman

 

Women just want a good solid loyal dude. But we also don't

 

I remember guys who are no longer active on here asking how do I know if a white girl is open to dating black guys ? It’s easy can you read women's body language ? That is called nonverbal communication. A woman may flip her hair and when your eyes meet, she smiles, then turns away. She could be a respectful lady, or she wants to get to know you, so she's removing all the walls, approach and talk to her.

Girl's eyes - YouTube

 

I locked eyes with a fine suited up black man as I was rushing down the escalator to catch the train the other day, we both took a double look, I swear his look sizzled my soul lol. Felt a bit hot under the collar for a minute. I couldn't flirt to save myself or be bold enough to make a move.

 

How many times have you been back to that train station since that exchange? Lol

Care to elaborate? Is this the 'Bad Boy' (and no, I'm not referring to P Diddy lol) syndrome?


Now I'm thinking Cabo Verde might be on the itinerary this summer/fall before work gets crazy again.

 

i'm sorry to say, but it's more easy for a women to catch a guy... i just need to staring at one and he will come to talk to me then

 

I go there daily it's my route to work i can't elaborate on that comment, another crackheaded moment, got no idea what I was on about.... lol

 

Think it depends on what country you live in. Australians are very reserved people unless you meet them in a club...

 

If you haven't met the "one" yet, I pray to God that you find the Black American of your dreams even though you live the other side of the world but you never know in these modern times we are living in a "global village". It's okay if you don't want Africans and Haitians since they speak French the French women love them. Sarah23 will prove me right. LOL

 

Appreciate that especially the eye candy

I don't really think about it too much anymore to be honest.

It's not my main focal point like it once was.

My job really consumes me to the point I'm probably going to need a man at least in his 70's to slide into my Grandma lifestyle haha.

I've always been content on my own as a weirdo aquarius, so whenever I have someone or not it doesn't bother me too much. Also as a 39 year old I'm in a weird position, people my age, older or younger already have kids, but still want more or don't know what they want period or just want to fk.

All black is beautiful, nothing wrong with Africans or Haitians at all, I'm just in awe with the American accent, that bass in their voice lol

 

It's good to know how you're relaxed about the situation, some people force themselves into relationship that fails. after only weeks or months because they are desperate.

I'm glad you like American accent but Americans can't tell difference between British and Australian accents LOL, they live in a bubble when it comes to other cultures and Countries and look down on them; ) Actor Omar Sharif once said only 10 percent of them have passports. The British get annoyed when they come to America as tourists and are called "Australians" LOL. I can tell the difference between Australian from British or Irish accent from British.

 

I'm always fascinated by it to be honest. I always get the "when are you going to start dating", "you need to get a bf" mostly whenever I talk about how crazy the cost of living is to my family hahah. The solution is always "get a bf", like familia, do you see the calibre of men in this country, relax! It's not happening hahaha.

I do believe that to be true, but thankfully there's always the exceptions to the rule. In a sense I do actually get it. And I could say the same for Africa, there's so many countries within Africa and so many states within the US that you could actually be content with going no where else.

Us on the other hand live so far away from the rest of humanity on a poxy six boring states country surrounded by the least attractive men in the world so we naturally have an inclination to explore.

You know when I was in the South the people I chopped it up with knew I was Australian (except for in Mississippi). It only went downhill once I reached the Northeast that's when the confusion set in hahah. I got mistaken for British and a New Zealander which technically isn't a lie because Mum is English Dad was Kiwi haha and I don't think I have the typical drawn out bogan Australian accent.. it did feel different and weird to not be understood in a country that I thought was similar to Australia, but that'll never be a deterrent for me, the only current deterrent is the orange man lol next year I'll go to either Africa or the US. Though I'm worried about getting detained (unless it's by a hot black man) and needing to get a burner phone and all that craziness and I don't know that Africa is that safe to travel to either.

I think you have to be relaxed when it comes to life affairs, I've definitely been there, done that with searching, but I think as you get older and more mentally mature you crave authenticity and for what's meant for you to present to you naturally.

The dating apps seem to host a bunch of lost souls in an endless pursuit for love and by love they mean sex.

I've now spent nearly as much time alone as I have in a relationship so maybe that's why I'm unphased. Having no attraction to white men, Asian men or Indian men doesn't help either when this city and state consists of mainly those three types of men.

I know it sounds so crazy and people say it can't be that bad here but it really is lol.

There's more women than men here and the majority of women are single.

 

Same here from taiwan....

 

It's sad isn't it