90% of BM cheat

Have you heard this one? I have.

When I was with my black boyfriend this girl I was chatting with on yahoo "warned" me (she had been with many BM so thats what probably made her feel in the position to give me advice) that it is pretty much sure that a BM will cheat on me, and I think the explanation was something like " their sexual instinct is stronger than in WM or other races", they cant help themselves and so on.

 

The incidents of BM cheating is no higher than WM. Men know this whether they be black, white Latin or Asian. That's why you only hear women say things like that. " One group cheats more than another. " Nonsense. And if there was a significant difference it would be impossible to measure.

Unless your friend becomes a better judge of CHARACTER then she will continue to get dumped on. Her only comfort being she will be getting dumped on by white guys instead of black guys.

 

Sounds like your friend just want to blame someone for her crappy relationships. I use to own a asset protection company. About 70% of my clients were white males(most of them married). And more then half wanted me to cover up their escort/high class hooker bills.

 

Don't get mad guys. Just wanted to share with you another vicious rumour related to BM. On a second thought, I guess u're already fed up with how many u heard so far. BM are this BM are that. Anyways, I agree its a dumb one. Men are men. 90% of them cheat anyway if given the opportunity regardless of race lol.

 

Nobody mad here. It's all good. We know you're just sharing what someone told you.

Yeah, unfortunately I have heard that one. A few years ago a female co-worker was dating a married bm. She found out he cheated on her with a third woman. She also briefly dated his best friend (who had a nearly identical personality to the first guy). When he also allegedly cheated she came to the conclusion that it's a black thing. No amount of debate could make her understand that her own ridiculous choices played a part in the situation.

 

I'm the other 10%...

 

Oh really? Come here then :lol:

 

Oh, the excuses women use to make up for their inadequate choices of men.

Hasn't this been brought up before?!?:
http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=3528

 

To add to all the other ones...

 

Sardonic, why do you even bother to read my posts then?
Don't.
Just as they say ww are easy, well, I heard this one and thought of sharing it. I saw really everything can be discussed here.

Also, Ive posted it on the stereotypes section because I saw it as a stereotype, not an excuse a woman would use for her inadequate choices in men. It would be really ridiculous to say "Yeah of course he cheated on me, he's black". I dont think even the girl who I heard it from said it that way. She thought BM are more masculine and have stronger sexual instinct thats why it is harder for them to resist temptation.

 

Ah, and that`s bcoz BM have the very powerful and restless Testosterone A, the strongest known to date, compared to other races who all have the very weak Testosterone Z. Your friend should publish her findings in the scientific journal Nature !! :smt043 :smt043 :smt043 :smt043

 

I should be asking you the same thing. You seem to take every little thing I post personally, and I didn't insult you everywhere in my post. I was actually agreeing with you, but if you want to argue with me about what I posted, (which wasn't to insult you even though you seem to think so) then there isn't any point of explaining anything to you about it.

 

Don't wanna argue with anyone. Don't argue for the sake of arguing. If you wasnt insulting me and even more, was agreeing with me, it means I missunderstood you, maybe because my English comprehension is not perfect. Then sorry for picking on you.

 

OK then. Keep in mind that some people are just naturally more straight-forward in their approach to things.

 

Yeah.........thanks for telling me. :lol:

 

You have cheating men in all races. I don't hink it's a black thing but more of a male thing. Don't forget women cheat as well.

 

That's true...no one's exempt from it:

BELI-CHICK'S PAY DIRT
By TODD VENEZIA and LEONARD GREENE

July 21, 2006 -- Talk about Giant headaches.

New England Patriots head coach Bill Belichick has been showering a pretty blond receptionist for the New York Giants with cash and pricey gifts in a "relationship" that helped drive the woman's husband to file for di vorce, according to court papers.

Belichick, who has won three Super Bowls with the Patriots, worked for Big Blue as an assistant coach and defensive coordinator from 1979 to 1990, during which time they won the Super Bowl twice.

Over that period, he also allegedly grew close to Sharon Shenocca, a secretary who greeted visitors at the front desk of the team's offices in Giants Stadium at the Meadowlands.

Shenocca, now 41, got married in 1996 to New Jersey construction worker Vincent Shenocca. They settled in a modest Morristown home and had two kids. But, according to her angry husband, she never stopped palling around with the coach.

"[Sharon] has had a relationship with Bill Belichick for several years," the jilted hubby says in court papers.

"This relationship appears to have blossomed, including more frequent telephone calls, and [her] receipt of large sums of money and expensive gifts from Mr. Belichick." The gifts included designer pocketbooks, watches and enough dough to hire a maid to clean the working-class family's $260,000 home, according to the court documents.

Belichick, who has been separated for two years from his wife, Debby, even flew Sharon Shenocca out to watch 2004's Super Bowl XXXVIII in Houston, according to the Boston Herald. There, she joined the celebration when the Pats beat the Carolina Panthers for Belichick's second championship as head coach.

The Jersey builder didn't share the joy.

"[Vincent Shenocca] expressed to [his wife] that he did not feel comfortable with her receipt of expensive gifts and large sums of money from Mr. Belichick," his court filings said.

"[She] refused to consider the plaintiff's feelings and has continued her relationship."

Fed up, Vincent Shenocca filed for divorce this spring, citing a campaign of mental cruelty by his wife that included her contact "with another man."

A neighbor of Sharon Shenocca in Morristown told The Post that she let her husband know "she doesn't want to be married to him anymore. She wants to take the kids and move to Brooklyn." The neighbor said the husband is seeking to keep the kids in Morristown.

"They haven't been happy for years," the neighbor claimed. He asked that his name not be printed.

The former Giants receptionist filed a response to her hubby's divorce claims, arguing that Belichick was just a friend and that their relationship was entirely platonic.

She said the relationship "was never hidden" from her husband.

"Monies that I received from this individual were shared with [my husband]," she said in court papers.

"[He,] however, became unreasonably upset and jealous regarding my friendship . . . often loudly and profanely critical of [my] friendships outside of the marriage."

Sharon Shenocca, who is seeking alimony from her husband and custody of their kids, refused to speak to reporters at her home yesterday. Her husband could not be reached. Belichick also could not be reached, and a spokesman for the Patriots declined to comment.

 

Hey Seychelles,

Did it ever occur to you that your chat buddy, much like the BW trolls here, has a hidden agenda? She could be looking out for your best interests. Or maybe out of jealousy she didn't want you to succeed with a BM where she had failed. It sounds like she didn't know much about your boyfriend before jumping to that conclusion. Her comments say alot more about her personality than the cheating BM. Before listening to the message, consider the source.

As my mom would say, she's trying to throw mud in your water or rain on your parade.

 

Yes Genuine, I think you got it. I don't talk to her anymore for a long time now, but while I did, that, along with other "weird" comments she made about BM, have really made me wonder about her "best interests" for me and my bf (thats why i "lost" contact with her) and also about her interest in BM alltogether (I think she was strictly into BM for ....as she put it ...."bigger everything"....not a dime of consideration towards them otherwise, which I found quite offending and don't wanna associate myself with such women).

 

:smt038 :smt038 :smt038 :smt038 :smt038

I really appreciate you standing up for BM. It shows a lot about your character, class and integrity.

In your position, I would've done the same thing. Way too much negativity in the world for you to support it, engage in it or let yourself be surrounded by it.