chris brown at the BET awards

If by defending youself you mean restraining a women, or better yet, walking away, then you are absolutly correct. Although I completely believe in equality, a womens physical strengh is not equal to a mans. Therefore the harm a man can do to a woman, in most cases, surpasses the harm a woman can do to him. Because of this it is unfair to beat a woman. With that said I agree no one should hit anyone for any reason, but it is still a bitch move to hit on someone weaker then yourself.

 

Act like a lady? What is a lady suppose to act like? Is there only one way for us to act? Like letting a man do or say whatever and just keeping our mouths shut and staying pretty? I don't know what kind of women you are use to dealing with, but woman like myself don't take shit.

And by the way, I'm white, I'm just not a push over.

 

If you are weaker than a person, you shouldn't attack them first. The sad part is this thought is done by everyone. Go punch an elephant or a bear in the eye and tell it that I am weaker than you. You shouldn't hit me. They will mess you up so fast. It is about respect. You simply do not attack anything(especially if it is bigger than you). If you do, prepare to be attacked. We all seek to defend ourselves. LIke I said before, Golden rule! Do unto other as you would have them do unto you.

 

what is that suppose to mean ? are you saying that BM date ww because you guys are docile ?

 

Who said anyone was fighting like a man? Where are Chris Browns brusies? Yep she really fucked his ass up didn't she? Did you see pictures of his busted face? I think not. She did not have that coming to her. If he just hit her once, maybe I could understand, but that wasnt just a cheap shot. He hit her multiple times and that was not neccessary. Pick on someone or something your own size.

 

I think she wasn't talking about the chris/rihanna incident but in general. I think we all agree that he went too far in defense even if she attacked him while he was driving and could have crashed the car and killed both of them because she attacked him(if memory serves me right).

 

to add on is this. even if you think the person is weaker than you dont fuck with em because they probably know they are weaker than you thus they will bring an equalizer like a brick and bust your ass. so the weaker person is really more dangerous and my get stupid and do something crazy.

again WOMEN stop doing slick shit. men will take a slap or even two but when you go over that PT you best man up because its coming.

 

First of all animal can not be compared to a human because they act purley on instinct. Humans can reason. I agree if she hit him she should not have, but it still does not make it right. If a 10 year old hit a grown man is it okay for that man to beat the shit out of the kid? In your world of thinking I guess that's cool right?

 

you are rite. she jumped on him while he was driving. she should have gotten a back hand for that but he should have held his peace after that

 

are you saying BM think WW are docile and that is why we date you ladies because of the stereotype of being docile ? is that what you are saying ?

 

thank you. agreed.

 

we are mammals. we are the cousins of apes .

 

I'm not saying we are docile. I'm asking if this what you expect us to be.

 

no one stated that or ever mentioned that ever . I never ever seen anyone state that on this website ever. JUST YOU. Im offended.

we do however would like for a WOMAN white or black to be a team player.

 

I know. Our frontal lobes are much bigger which is the part of the brain that controls planning, reasoning, ext...

Proportionality, this part of our brain is larger then any other animal, including our cousin Curious George.

 

one common thread between us is survival. if we are threaten we will react. dont start something it will be nothing

 

With all of this debate, I'd like to say welcome to the boards. :smt006 We have a welcome section so that people can say hi to you. 8)

 

"Act like a lady and you won't have anything to worry about."-karmacoma

I then asked what a lady acts like? Docile? I was posing the question to him.

 

Did Ghandi fight back with his fist? There is more then one way to react when threatened.

 

I saw your pics in the other thread and apologized. But I can see your neck popping from side to side as I read your post. You must be an "urban" white chick. LOL.