Instead you guys brag like eight year olds with a new bike. Cockiness is loud because it fears it won't be seen. Confidence is quiet because it doesn't give a fuck what others see they know they got it.
Some real Yoda shit right there, playa. Anyway, not everyone is staring at the sky from point zero and wondering how to make progress. If you don't know, then experiment until you see results. Crying about being black and unloved on the internet isn't doing anyone, most importantly yourself, any good. That shit is low status, self-defeatist, and everything else that a man should not be.
Fam one day we have to speak off forum because I think you're under the impression I'm complaining. My ability to see inequities and pitfalls doesn't me I personally experience them. I have no problem attracting women I want i just recognize the bs involved. This is the matrix and I can see the code. Doesn't mean I can't run off walls from time to time lol. The absolute hardest part of being an empathetic intellect is seeing the b.s. and remaining unaffected. I don't know how the rest of you do it
i beg to differ, my confidence is loud and proud when it needs to be. my confidence in this instance is not about what worldly things i have, its about the attitude and belief that anything is possible. people ask me all the time how am i doing (on conference calls all day) and i tell them i am amazing! why? i know that your attitude determines your altitude and there for i am always fuckin amazing. the two posts below by you and other posts i have read from others makes it sound like some are looking for sympathy on something you have no control over. versus taking self pity on yourself why not use that energy to do something positive or constructive? if you took all of that as cockiness then you will live your life under the impression that all the negativity that life throws at you will determine your happiness. every nationality and person deals with uphill battles but its how you react and perceive the battles that allow you to win the war. this is a myth...
Negro please Acknowledging the hardships does not take away from resilience. You act as if mentioning the reality of being black in this world some how equals admitting defeat. If I say its harder for me to run through sand with a twenty five lbs pack am I saying to give up? No. I'm just saying you must be aware of the obstacles in front of you to overcome them. You're attitude may define your altitude but don't forget the stepping stones that gkt you to that motherfucker.
This right here!! Everyone jokes with me because when I'm asked how I'm doing, my answer is always "fabulous!". Fuck the negativity. I refuse to wallow in self pity even if I'm stressed beyond belief. Attitude sets the tone for everything so you better believe I'm fabulous!!
So I can have your hot breath all up in my nostrils? I don't fuck with people who are down on themselves. Get out of mopey zone, then we can talk.
Lmao you sure you ain't an east coaster? What have I said thats mopey? Things are harder for bm? Are you new?
See ... you guys (and I mean the men) are arguing a lot more lately ... do I need to breakout the midol pic again??
TDK is always on the life raft when it comes to these convos lol. We all know the best is the west baby
Women can emasculate men by calling them girls but if I do it or hint at women being weaker I'm a misogynist. Interesting lol
OMG I wasn't saying that!! I was just saying you guys are arguing like cray cray!! That's it ... no emasculating intended I promise! Can't we all just get along?? :freehug:
