I just wish more women would fall back on the advice giving and more dudes would be honest to each other and to themselves. You damn well know why you're being rejected so either do the work to get yourself what you really want or forever hold your piece. Any time you have a pity party you're the only one invited.
I learned early in the game that rejection is a part of life. Women want what they're attracted to as do men. If I don't fit those characteristics, oh well. I've issued my share of rejection for that same reason. I learned not to be the aggressor. If you're a 7/8 across the board the odds are in your favor. I'll about know in the first 3 minutes of the conversation if somethings there. If so leave the door open. If not push on with no rejection. Just my two cents.
rejection aint bad it's the fact that many women absolutely fear it, that makes it that way i'm always hearing about women that are interested in me, from OTHER PEOPLE instead of them it's like they're afraid to get turned away or blown off...cant hurt the ego of someone who thinks she's too pretty for her shirt
I hear the same stuff. Lol. I agree. And if she's that type, I really don't bother. She can toot her own horn elsewhere.
i just wanna see what it feels like to completely shut down someone's advances, like a 4th and goal stop with 2 seconds left in the game :smt026
I felt GREAT when I did it, but I was alot younger then. My power level was on 10 lol. I wouldn't dare do it that way now. I was totally wrong. It crushed her feelings.
As a dude I never take pleasure it shutting a girl down. Truthfully I suck at saying no because my opportunity to do so is so far and few in between that I usually do a half ass job. I usually do some high school shit where I say I'm busy all the time or just ignore phone calls and texts. My ego gets nothing from saying no but it gets everything from hearing yes from the right chick. Nothing better than the chick you want wanting you back.
That ain't a 1-way street, if your ego is capable of being affected by a 'yes', it's probably something else that takes the sting out of a 'no'.
As a man i take rejection in my stride and as a man it would take a woman looking like Flav's twin sister to say no, the least i can do is to have a drink with her and based on experience women who are not necessarily grade A beauties can be superhot in bed
Im very strait forward when it comes to rejecting chicks Im not interested. Partly because Im sick of that high school shit you mentioned. It gets ridiculous that women will lead a guy on, and not reject him because of "hurting his feelings." Maybe a run into to many of this baloney because Im young.
I try to be honest with a guy as well, but sometimes some guys don't take rejection too well. I've had things thrown at me etc and I was nothing but polite.
yes- that and some more things...The reason, why many women try to reject on neutral ground (cafe i.e,)....a girl has to be careful and has to learn to take the measure of someone very quick. But there is a good side to everything, if a guy gets rude, you are sure, you were right
