Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

Wait..........you were in love...........

 

Yea it's crazy to choose chaos but it's what some thrive on I guess. Dudes like that are why we ladies have to end up changing our numbers lol. Realizing what he had, two years later lol. Sorry Charlie, it ain't happenin.

 

A lot of women do that shit too. I always loved hearing one of my female friends say a guy was too nice. I'm like what the heck does that even mean? They always said they needed a challenge well shit a lot of them got it hope they're happy lol

 

Like i said ....theres ignorance and there is foolishness

 

They wanted someone to gossip about to their friends. :smt042

 

You jest but you may be on to something fam
Some people determine how interesting their lives are by what they can talk about with others.
They aren't happy unless they're bragging or complaining.

 

I'm being straight up. I just happen to find to truth to be funny, especially when 99% of men miss the meaning behind certain things.

Hey I don't catch everything either.

 

Hahaha people gotta be careful what they wish for. I'm sure there are miserable people everywhere who wanted a "challenge" in their partner and found it.

 

I'll be honest I have more women talk to me now at 6'0 than when I was 5'8 and the funny thing I am the same person then as I am now. Even tho I am taller than I was it still made me wonder why would height make such a difference when considering someone who is compatible. Personally I like all women shorter than me and taller than me. but I do have a little more love for the shorties

 

Hmmm sounds like the table done switched. Not too long ago You were saying you wanted a man to challenge you or something along those lines.


Ladies really taking what us dudes say to heart. We just miss what that mouth and pussy do yearn for a bigger stable. Remove that from the equation, 9/10 guys wouldn't be hitting y'all on some I miss what we had shit.

Tdk doesn't even realize he's winning in life.

 

Its seems people love drama

 

Absofuckinglutely! I buy this over the "I've changed...blah blah blah" bullshit all day.

Ftr tho, I don't remember ever requesting a man to challenge me in the sense that TDKs talking about. I've always looked for a man who's grown enough to challenge me intellectually...someone who's confident enough to speak his mind vs just going along with whatever I say or do. Maybe I misunderstood what TDK was referring to. I thought he was speaking about chicks who wanted a guy who was a challenge to acquire, type thing. The girls who like a guy who plays hard to get. Idk. I don't do chaos or drama in my relationships, but I do appreciate a man who'll respectfully challenge my views and habits!

 

Theres a challenge and then theres drama

 

Lol I wish that were true I just refuse to be unhappy for anyone. We were on two different pages and right now my career has to be number one. I'm trying to set things up so we wouldn't have to work in 20 years but she never got it. She needed more time than I could reasonably give. A lot of women want a successful guy but don't understand success takes time and sacrifice. If you want a guy who has every weekend free and only works 40 hours a week good luck because you won't be taking those nice vacations and living well. It's fucking NY shit ain't cheap.
So back to dating and boy is it easier when you change your mindset. Men win the more aloof we are. Sad but true.

 

My bad, I should of been clearer but what I meant by tables done switched was how you viewed some guys being so nice that they were boring he May of viewed you the same way at the time.

 

That's what I'm saying. Forget relationships and kids. Be that cool ass loaded and successful uncle with a stable of women of, toys, and epic tales from around the world that all the kids in the family talk about.

 

Yeah, you do have to be willing to make those sacrifices in order to obtain a good lifestyle.

 

I got you luv. Damn right too! I'm sure I was very boring compared to the chicks he was used to. Never put my hands on him in an aggressive way, never cussed him out, never made him choose between time with me or time with his kids...where's the fun in any of that lol? We just weren't right for eachother. The only thing we got right every.damn.time just wasn't enough to sustain a relationship lol. His loss

 

A few People dont know exactly what a functional relationship is about.

 

Men get more pussy that way but if you have long term goals that involve a wife or family, trust me you won't "win" by being aloof. Any woman worth having long term isn't going to beg or pursue a man who's behaving that way. You'll find short lived success with the girls who just want to prove they can get you. Maybe that's winning in your book but I thought you wanted more.