Yes because contrary to popular belief the circumstances are starkly different. And who the fuck said I was talking about you Ches, you're just one fucking example living in some back water town where black people only exist on tv.
There was no fear of personal safety for ww the way there was from bm that would keep them from pursuing romantic relationships. And it's funny you say wm men are no longer desirable to you after you are far out of your prime, already had a son by one, and were married to one for several years. It must have been torture dating and marrying men you weren't attracted to. You're only lying to yourself right now.