Anyone that calls a discussion about rape "hysteria" or even thinks of using the term "radfem" is a woman hater, period.
My 2.3 cents.
How does someone who raises the issue of men being sent to prison never to be seen by the outside world for a very long time by a woman's usually false claim of suffering rape/sexual harassment and utilizing the term "radfem" to refer to these type of women translate into being a "woman hater"?
Confused... I don't mind the change of what? Thread topic? I do mind actually, I said that I think Hydroxide took the wrong approach by violently hijacking this thread.
To a great extent, the posters dictate what this forum is. If the boards majority has no desire for certain topics of conversation, then those conversations will not thrive. Hydroxides aggressive 'bull in a china shop' rant approach is counter-productive because it puts people on the defensive. Communication between an aggressor and people on the defensive is rarely productive conversation and more often argument.
Ra and others are right, this topic certainly shoulda have been discussed in another thread and unfortunately likely on another forum entirely.
Sorry if I sounded "aggressive", but there's no other way to express my feelings as to how the forum treats us BM. Someone, namely me, needs to remind the WW who tell us to "get over it" whenever we bring up issues of racism blacks, esp. BM, face and the uncle toms who side with them that we also make up the cornerstone of this site, which is about WW and BM seeking relationships with each other and their opinions cause a good amount of division on here. Lippy, for instance, has shown great aggression in spewing anti-BM venom and defending the institution of white racism before and has even defended Iggy once.
No offense to you mods, but you people don't do a good enough job of encouraging and/or enforcing harmony and unity on this site and allow it to degenerate into yet another generic discussion board, where people can post racist, bigoted views as if there's no tomorrow. Bookworm, for instance, is guilty of siding with those who're known to bash BM and when was the last time she has ever shown interest in BM?
Also, BM on here are allowed to call each other the n-word and that's ridiculous as well since barely anyone of other ethnicities use racial slurs on each other and that also gives trolls a justification to create sockpuppet accounts on here posing as one of us to denigrate us in the harshest way possible. It's bad enough that racist, anti-black and anti-miscegenation views are quite common in other discussion venues all over the net, even on fora that aren't mainly conservative-leaning at all, but when that kind of venom spreads here, the quality of this place goes down a lot. I known free speech is important and all, but there needs to be standards set here so this place doesn't descend into chaos. There's not many places like this, so the integrity of this forum needs to be preserved at all costs.
I don't believe my posts on this thread were off-topic since they consisted on reasons why I voted no on this thread's poll. Ra isn't helping matters here when he constantly make fun of my concerns about how BM like us are treated here.
I know, I should've added "rather" to that other post of mine, since I acknowledge the existence of radical homosexualists who seek to push their lifestyle on everyone, undermine heterosexual relationships including interracial ones and liberals and even conservatives give more sympathy to gay issues than to ones colored people face, which can also easily make the aformentioned radical homosexualists and their liberal/conservative co-horts very dangerous enemies of WW/BM relationships and other interracial relationships as well and I also would love to hangout with women regardless of ethnicity.
That could play a part in it, but you know there are at least one or two active posters and lurkers with agendas that post on an irregular basis that have rep points to hook him up. Just look at the shit Mikey did in regards to repping that Lucky dude who got restricted seven posts in.
Like I told you people, I don't have any multiple accounts that I know of and there just happens to be good number of posters here who share my views on racial relations. If I had multiple accounts, I don't I could ever managed them all at once. Ra, you must understand there are forces here who seek to divide us and destroy a forum with such a unique theme from the inside out, but sadly I don't think you can understand that, because nowadays, you obviously aren't the same person who called out Iggy on his anti-black behaviour when he was still around.
