yep...it died...besides not a good idea to be giving out that much information to someone...first name + phone number...just what you don't need is someone stalking you at work

 

I'd be flattered but I'd be more impressed if she asked for my number instead of offering hers.

 

Well he already knows where she works lol

 

lol...so they are already stalking each other...pretty soon the next thread will be how one of them has to get a new job because they can't stand to work at the same place with each other...

it's cute in the beginning how he/she just happens to appear out of no where but when things go south then one or the other is stalking them...

 

Honestly, I don't see how it would ever be a turn-off. Even the most conservative of my friends wouldn't let the whole guy-chase-girl thing get in the way of finding their potential soul mate. If I wasn't into her, I'd probably still call and we'd could still at least be friends.

 

Awww I so dig this! Very sweet :smt049

 

Man you must had some sucky past work dating experiences, this post just comes off so bitter.

 

SOOOO. I called you last night and you didnt pick up. why?

 

:smt083 It never hurts to make new friends.. usually

 

actually no...i learned early on if a job is more than just a job that you just do not get involved with people at work.. most companies discourage it due to the negative effects on productivity...

 

Companies discourage alot of things for their benefit now a days... She'll be fine miss negative.

 

Hey Lippy, the guy she is interested in, is delivering stuff to the place where she works.
They are not coworkers and he is not stalking her.
(see initial post)

 

when you get a corporate job then you will understand...or when you have people reporting to you then you will understand...until that happens you will not understand...you never know one day you just might be running that hotel and then you will be all about the bottom line:smt045

 

original post doesn't say anything about a delivery man...but thanks for the heads up...lippy loves a man in uniform...postman...UPS man...FED EX man

 

I actually overstand, been there done that, IIl pass.i have a rediculous amount of freedom but i ain't telling on myself on here lol

 

Oh, right. It was another thread.
The original post was this:

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showpost.php?p=821398&postcount=1

 

I have no issue with this whatsoever. Definitely not a turn off. I will say that I only call about 20% of the numbers i either procure /or am given. That's my own problem though. Power to you:smt023

 

I would find it very tasteful and flattering and it would not be a turn off at all. In fact, in my world, there are many more awkward attractions that seem mutual and this would be a classy way to break the ice and remove doubt. As guys, we worry more about offending a lady in some way and women have to worry far, far less about that. We'd be honored even if we didn't pursue for some reason.