The BM I see with fat and/ or ugly ww are fat and/ or ugly themselves. That's just unattractive people getting together, even if one of them was supremely attractive people would still complain.
It's strange, I rarely see a black man with a fat/sloppy white woman at all. But I do think it's true that heavy women, of all colors, are more likely to turn their eye to black men, based on the notion that we "don't mind a little extra meat" and we like huge asses or maybe even based on the stereotype that we're more beastial and our standards are lower. I also observe that the slimmer women are more inclined to turn up their noses at black men. And that includes the whole rainbow of women. When I was on the match.com (way back) most of the black women who made overtures were fat. On the other hand, maybe it was because the obesity epidemic was straight-up raging among black women back then. You want a stereotype? How about this one: black women who are about the same speed as a black guy don't want that black guy. If they have a half-decent shape, they're conceited right off the charts. I like black women and white women, but one thing that tips it in favor of white women is that they can look good and still be down to earth, whereas black women with a nice figure, or a college degree, or a cute face price themselves right out of the market. Don't get me wrong. I like whatever kind of woman I figure is going to be good for me and good to me (and not just slim ones either), but that's just one thing I observe about black women vs white women. Did you know that scientists have found that the bigger a woman gets the more tolerant she becomes to black men? Has to do with the hormone mix released by the hypothalumus after they reach a certain weight, typically the 200 lb mark, combined with the unique pheromones black men put out.
No kidding that's like saying they're all jolly and I've run into a shit ton of angry ass big women. He does bring up and interesting point though, the slimmer ww I've seen giving black men attention are normally European or Canadian in my personal experience. The slimmest most fit girl I ever dated was from your home country. Will never forget that body for the rest of my life but she seemed to one of very few with that figure who I've met who had exclusive attraction for bm.
Speaking of research, they did say that bigger women and taller women are more likely to "put out" on the first date.
Maybe that's why so many thinner women in this country act the way they do. They realize they are a commodity since there are so many women who are overweight or obese. To Europeans they probably think their figure is a dime a dozen so why care.
Damn, to call someone fat/sloppy/ugly is kinda mean. I'm not one to cast aspersions when it comes to romance. Shit, as long as you're with someone that makes you happy and a better person, more power to you. Looks eventually fade anyway...what's left after that is what really matters.
