how to handle all the stares?

Whenever I wear my work pants I constantly get stares from women below the belt and their eyes sort of light up. Does this happen to anyone else? I know as women you are used to men staring at your brerasts constantly and even making comments. Is it just me or does it make you feel like a piece of meat? The thing that really gets me is when they give me that "I'm gonna eat you" look.

 

I'm going to go ahead and sound like tarshi here.........but we could assess the situation better if this post were accompanied by pics.

I think showing boobs is a little more obvious. You can choose to cover up, an disguise under a jacket or let them hang out. With you........it's not like you aren't wearing clothes to work.

 

When I get on a computer I will, I put one up in the fashion thread and the first thing cb noticed was my third leg.

If it were colder in so cal like it is in nor cal I'd cover up with my peacoat, down here I have no defense.

 

I hate to admit it, but sometimes its very noticeable when a man is sitting down. I am guilty, I look occasionally if he's attractive. Lol

 

This and yes dw post

 

I do notice the glance from a lady when I'm wearing slacks with suspenders lol...I dont know why but that look attire gets them turn an look. I dont mind the glance, Its almost like saying "Sir, Nice look".

 

What a horrible horrible objectification and stereotypical cheapening of the black man! Shame on you all!! tsk tsk.

 

I read an article that said the first thing heidi noticed about seal was how he looked in his workout shorts. Smh...

 

its funny you bring this up. We have a new LTC at work and he was leaving work yesterday afternoon in his PT gear...i had to do a double take LOL then act like I didn't notice. He has great legs and a great butt

 

I would say, yes I do. Not on purpose LOL

 

LOL that would make a man feel cheap...But it would pump up his ego

 

Stop trying to keep up with the youngins rockin pants 4 sizes to small.

 

"i dont wear skinny jeans cause my nuts don't fit"

 

I'd like to be stared at every once in a while; such is the life of an ugly duckling.

 

I would speak to the person staring. Most women will be embarrassed and maybe get embarrassed enough not to do this to the next man. It is part of the equal playing field but it sucks to feel like a piece of meat. Sorry you are feeling uncomfortable.

 

I would not feel like a cut of meat....But I would think that the woman that did this has inner strength. A sttrength that allows her to glance without the worries of being judge. The lady that makes that glance....Now thats sexy!!!!

 

I'd be happy to evaluate the situation for you and come with solutions.....................................

 

Are you fucking kidding me Mel? I caught the satire in his post - WOW you take things way too seriously sometimes. You need to date a black man for awhile and get yourself a sense of humor.

 

What really makes it any worse that looking at any other body part and thinking thoughts. What if hands turn you on and while you talk to someone you look at their hands and gads..........think things.

 

That dirty girl.

Her too.

Women have thoughts. Sorry but we do. :smt074