And before anybody misreads, if i have a biracial child he's being raised to be a realist, the world is gonna perceive him as a black man especially the cops, so he's gonna be raised that way. It's not a knock against his mother and her family (but i want him to know first and foremost to he's a black man.) And be proud of it. Maybe one day when the world doesn't judge people on their appearance, i won't have to do that.
That "one day" you speak of will never come as long as people continue to think as you do. Your child will be black AND white so teaching him/her to be proud of only one half of him/herself is perpetuating the mindset you want to see erased.