What has cracked me up about trolls from what I've seen here is that they try soooo hard to hide their identity, but a few choice comments and they let it slip, down to their speaking style even changing as they type. It's something to see. Like they're got so much pent-up frustration about it, that once you poke at it, they lose it totally. Props to Mr. Fantastic for prodding until that last one couldn't take it anymore.
They can't accept the fact that people are naturally drawn to each other the more time they spend interacting and in close proximity. Increased ww/bm pairings are inevitable. I think it would be happening with or without the media. It's just chemistry.
Hint. There's a psychological problem behind the resentment of this IR coupling especially, and the concept of interracial relationships in general from the people (of any race) that have resentment from it. So really when you think about it, we're all in the same boat (confronting the same things) if you date interracially, and I don't think it's coming from just WM and BW. It may just be other people (in general).
I think you're on to something. I read something somewhere about IR porn being actually made for white male audiences with a voyeuristic interest. This same audience was the reason for the use of racial language and stereotypes in many of the movies, and the actors, some of whom a fellow poster on the forum said looked they were going before the parole board or something. LOL!
lol should check racist site for psychogical problems, i do get the feeling from these kinda people they have a obsession almost disecting bm and ww couples and comming out with constant conspiracy theories and other crap
I currently have a BM lover in my life. It's my first experience personally with IR. The things that other WW have said about BM sure seem to be true with my experience. He isn't arrogant, he seems confident and comfortable with himself, he is an amazing lover, he is an amazing man. He has made it all about pleasing me and treating me like a princess from the start. He makes me feel beautiful & valued. Which in turn makes me want to treat him like a king and make him the happiest man alive. My experience with WM has been that they can be cocky, they focus more on themselves, and they don't seem to know how to treat a lady. And they certainly don't go out of their way to learn how. There is just something that has happened inside me, like my inner eyes being opened or finally coming alive, that I don't even feel attracted to WM any longer. When I'm out, though I'm not "shopping", I find that BM are the only ones who catch my eye now. So, for me, the saying "once you go black you won't go back", has something to do with whatever it is that BM put out there about how they will treat a lady. It's almost like WM say "you have to change to please me or I'll dump you" and BM say "baby, you're hot, come here & let me treat you right!" I know which attitude I'll pick every time!!
I find this to be very true, the more i spent hanging around black men, the more i became interested, attracted, and drawn to them. Cant speak for everybody but thats what i experienced.
You raise a very good point, good men exist across the board of course, but what you may have encountered is the idea of familiarity with white men. Meaning white men are accustomed to being around white women, usually. They interact with them on a daily basis and so it is easy for them to take white women for granted since they are always exposed to them. I have heard some black women make the claim that "some brothas treat white women better than black women" and some black guys state that black women who date white men will even switch up and be less confrontational, argumentative and on an independent woman trip. So this all goes back to appreciating, treasuring and valuing a partner you are with, I feel this may play a role in why you enjoy the black man that you are with. He makes you feel like a loved woman and what person wouldn't want that. The cool thing is you recognize those qualities in him as a man and want to reciprocate them as well. As a black man when I love a woman she is going to hear it with deep emotional words, feel it with soft kisses and passionate intimacy and know it with my actions towards her (breakfast in bed, sunset on the beach, dinners at a quaint, cozy restaurant) I'm all man, but have no problems expressing my romantic side and my emotions.
Your posts are always quite moving. I thoroughly enjoy reading them, especially pertaining to B & W relationships. Full of wisdom.
Can you specify why amanda, like what aspects appealed to you as you interacted. What qualities did you encounter that debunked the general stereotypes about brothas. This can be very insightful and go someways in explaining the continual rising amount of relationships between WW and BM.
well it is true for alot of ww, but certain people will make some conspiracy theory out of it, are peoples feelings that insecure these days about a ww liking bm? its how i feel from thosee kinds of people, like they think they know how every ww feels, lol they in for a shock when reality hits them
Thank you very much Kunoichi. I pride myself on being a well rounded man and that includes when it comes to love and relationships. Something deep within me, quite possibly an inner confidence and strong romantic side allows me to reflect back these sentiments about life and love. Glad you appreciate it.
