The Footwear Appreciation Thread

Obviously I think everyone knows I'm not going to suggest anyone make a negative comment about any pic posted on here GG, but as noted to Carlos, I know he's not going to be rude in expressing his appreciation, as I've never seen a negative, judgmental comment from him, but it may be that I just have a more lax sense of what's rude. You're always going to have the occasional asshole who says something hateful, and frankly I'm always appalled when someone does that about a personal pic that a member posts, and I do think it leads to less people posting pics. I did read the thread and the suggestion about polishing the nails didn't strike me as judging, I took it as a suggestion somewhat in jest considering the source.

Carlos mentioned a specific person in his post and having read many of her posts I found them to be a bit 'in your face', perhaps that's the nice way to term it. In this thread, she started in complaining about the men's presence before any comment about nail polish or anything rude was said. I took it very much as a 'this is my thread and you're all going to do it my way or GTFO' type of sentiment, which I think is ridiculous. Rarely does any thread on here stick to the topic the OP intended, that's just forum life.

I'm not trying to disagree with you either GG, but I noted that 'in your face' attitude was prevalent from several past female posters, and frankly I'm happy they're gone. As I said, the forum is a more enjoyable place as a whole without people trying to run other people's lives, dictate what people can and cannot post, or who they do or do not interact with.

Like I said there will always be assholes who can't be pleasant, and I've gotten a fair share of shitty comments on my taste in shoes both in rep and in threads, but I just blow them off. While I don't approve of people critiquing pics posted in a negative manner, I sometimes think some people are a bit too sensitive and they see every comment as criticism, even when it wasn't meant that way. That's just my opinion of course, based upon what I've read and observed, and you know what they say about opinions... :smt081

 

I will return to exile strengthened by Espy's sentiment, but for the record, I did not judge......and I think GG and Bookie will vouch for that. That comment in question caused more strain than I think was intended, but it did have a negative effect unfortunately. I have gotten past my boredom and thank each of you for your patience.

 

We'll just have to agree to disagree on this one. I felt the comments were out of line because the photos were to show shoes. If she was wanting a critique of her feet, she would have asked for one from the men. I also agree that the poster mentioned did often like to run the show at times; however, I feel that her post was appropriate considering the circumstances. I still love you even if we disagree. :smt058

I will vouch that you did not participate in the negative comments. Arch was trying to drag you in to judge a winner.

 

I'm not sure how to read this Carlos, but if you mean I contributed to you staying out of this thread that's certainly not what I intended.

I'm kinda grouchy today for some reason, so really I ought not say anything more to anyone most likely, but I'm going to anyway.

This idea of people running people out of certain threads, or off the forum completely, just plumb pisses me off! I know people who left here before my time, and people who have taken breaks since I've joined, solely because of someone messing with them, being hateful to them, stalking them online and off, and just being an all around mouthy, childish, pain in the ass. I think that's just sad on so many levels. I don't care if I like you or not, this is an open forum and people can go in any thread they like, and post whatever they want, and I have no say in that. I suppose as a moderator I have a bit of say on the new trolls that show up, but frankly we give them quite a bit of leeway, so I fail to see why we shouldn't extend that courtesy to the regular posters?

People have said things that I thought were inappropriate both to me, about me, and to others. For the most part I consider the source and either chalk it up to the offending person just being a jaded bitch/bastard, or them having a really off day for whatever reason. I've said things that in hindsight I realize were influenced by circumstances, that had I not been experiencing I would likely have either said nothing, or said it differently. I think that's part of being human, and we all do it at some point. But trying to tell people what they can and cannot do on here on a regular basis, stalking them and butting into their lives on and off forum, to the point that they feel they have to leave is not only inappropriate, but it's asinine and I don't know why anyone would give them the satisfaction. Someone tries to run me off, my first instinct is to dig in deep and get comfy. But them I'm a real stubborn bitch when pushed. My long-winded point is, anyone removing themselves to self-imposed exile is horseshit. If someone doesn't like you or what you post, they don't have to read it.

 

You know I have nothing but love you for always GG. Disagreements are part of life, and it's bound to happen. You have more experience on the forum and therefore have a different insight than I do, and I respect that. I think part of the issue is that I always view comments in the context of who said them. There are certain posters from who I expect ugly comments, and I've gotten plenty, and so I really don't even pay attention to them unless they happen to say something uncharacteristically pleasant. I would expect a self professed 'foot man' to notice things a guy who isn't into feet wouldn't. I guess that's partly why the toenail polish comment didn't even make a blip on my screen. I also consider who the comment is being made to, as there are some people who would be offended at something that others wouldn't. At any rate, I don't think anything said in this thread merited trying to ban Carlos from reading it and commenting if he likes. It appears that on that at least you and I agree. Regardless, as mentioned I love you anyway.

 

I would never propose banning someone from a thread, and if I made it sound that way, I do apologize. I just think that a little respect goes a long way, and that sometimes, you need to consider in what section you are posting and remember this is the Ladies Room. We don't post pics in the Ladies Room for male entertainment or for their sexual fetishes or fantasies. If that was our goal with the pics, we would go to the Men's Room or in the Lovers section. That was all that I was saying. I'm not suggesting that Carlos or any man shouldn't post in here. I'm just saying remember where you are. This section isn't about getting your dick hard. It's about women's interest. Respect that.

P.S. I'm not in a good mood myself today so I should probably just shut up.

 

Nice toe cleavage Francie !............


And GirlieGirl, let by-gones be by-gones......Jordan was never judged, It was suggested that her nails would be nice with a red coat as opposed to clear and when she did it it was a hit................
For a woman having a man who is such a prolific poster of feet, it is curious
that there has never been a posting of your feet or shoes...........


Finally "Espy-in-heels",
I read a survey the other day that said that of all the shoe trends and fashions that come and go, men most favor the simple open toe, no-strap slip-on heels ......why do you think that is ?........

 

I think that you need to go back and read your post. You didn't make a suggestion. You told her that she need to finish the deal if she was going to post and polish her nails. Regardless, it doesn't really matter. I was just trying to explain to Espy the situation since she wasn't here at the time.

As far as my pics, I know the mind of the foot fetish man and the thoughts that run through his mind and dick when he sees pretty feet. There is only one man on this board that I'm interested in getting hard so I choose to send my pics to him in private. They are for his eyes only. It's not because he has requested that, but because I respect him and want him to know how special he is. Knowing you, I'm sure that you are trying to imply something else, but I guess that you will never get to know for sure.

 

I've talked to two people off the forum after they both said they weren't posting on here if a certain someone was also posting.

I told them both that they were letting this poster "win" and they shouldn't do that, because it only enables said poster to continue doing it.

However, I can also appreciate their reasons for leaving, which were really one and the same: neither of them wanted the drama in their lives.

It's a shame that some people bring drama into their lives needlessly and in essence spread the drama "love" to others whether they want it or not. Because really, like I've said before, don't we all deal with enough drama in our every day lives? Can't we come to a place where we don't have to worry about drama so much?

I understand that it's not possible, but to needlessly cause drama just to make another person's life a living hell on this forum is, in my honest opinion, something that said poster should be at least jailed for a time being. It gives this place a horrible atmosphere when certain people are allowed to run amok in that fashion.

 

Gang, look, I am sorry that I woke up so horny this morning that I took a look in here. Part of my peek was caused by the presence in here of a lot of folks I really, really like. Beyond the shoes, I have learned a lot and been edified by some constructive and supportive comments from some wonderful people. I did NOT want to rekindle the drama. I understand and greatly respect GG as a person and her opinion on this, as well as her private showing. With a little cooperation and luck I will be able to get my own showing, which is what I would prefer anyway. Please do not fight over this issue, which was dead for so long. Arch, I can see a shoe store partnership after we reach retirement age. See the best in one another, not the worst. I am actually feeling pretty good about today's development's until all of this started. Let's end this peacefully.

 

You didn't start anything back up. Fear not, Carlos! You're okay, and continue in this thread if you'd like. We're not going to stop you. :smt023

 

Agreed! Carlos and whomever else is interested - come on in and take a look around. :smt052 The more you comment positively Carlos, the more we post

 

I didn't take it that way GG. I know you better than that. I absolutely agree with your suggestion that the area of a post makes a difference. That's one reason that I now limit my comments in the men's locker room, at least when I realize I'm in the men's locker room . I view that as their area to post and discuss, debate and drool till thier heart's content, and as such I don't make observations that they'd typically consider catty. I do think they should treat the ladies room in the same way.

P.S. :smt056 I'm sorry you're in a bad mood too GG.

I have no idea Arch? I'd guess because they're easy to get off. Or perhaps because they show more of the foot or parts that can't typically be seen, like the heel and arch? One thing I do know is that most men probably have no idea how much more difficult it is to walk in those and keep them on. I'm a bit on the clumsy side, so I've got enough to worry about without having to curl my toes and tighten my calves in an attempt to not walk outta my shoes. I'm not adverse to wearing them indoors though for the right man. I have a display pair of heels that never ventures outside for precisely that reason, they just aren't practicle, but they sure are sparkly and pretty.

I can understand that you have a better appreciation of the effect feet have on a man with a true foot fetish GG. You understand that and therefore view feet the way I view boobs or other body parts that typically elicit a response in men. You and I also share the mentality of keeping certain things reserved for specific, special people. I post feet here, and don't mind doing so at all, but other body parts won't be posted here ever. I've always maintained if you hand them out like poker cards, there's no novelty to them, and I'd want any man who meant something to me to know he was special.

I love you for the way you think Bookie!

I'm peaceful, I've never not been Carlos. We've all managed to maintain civility and express our ability to love each other despite not being in agreement. I'm sorry if I made anyone uncomfortable by inadvertently dragging up old drama, I just wasn't aware it ran that deep. But there's certainly no need for you to feel guilty about it Carlos, no need at all.

 

A one.

You aint never lied about how sexy a white woman!!!!! especially YOU, looks in shoes as those wit da toes and heal out. That shoe on your foot drives me too crazy!strong!extreams!!! love plus I would feel like I was less of ah man If I did not chop it up wit cha.

 

:smt038 Your post truly showed some class and I agree with this wholeheartedly

My man is not into feet at all so I dont think he cares if I will post a pic of them in some of my favorite shoes.
He already wondered why I didnt post in this thread already..... I think Im gonna look for my camera now...

 

I do remember being told having pink polish on wasn't good enough. Thanks for the support girlie. I think you are classy and amazing and appreciate the fact that you aren't on her foot fliriting with other men when you have one of the board's best. I think the men can look in this thread but if the women want to share shoes this is our area to do it, it is not the area for you to get your jollies.

 

I will proceed as Jordan has suggested, as there is absolutely no one in this forum I respect and admire more. She was the target of the friendly "dig" but we all tend to make fun of those who are best in class. I will view, but I look forward to addressing my fetish privately, as GG has in her and Tony's case. Those of you who are comfortable with you "foot flirtations" should feel free to follow your own desires. Thanks, everyone.

 

Thanks for understanding me, Espy. That was the only point that I was trying to make. I wasn't trying to cause problems. I just personally felt the comment was inappropriate, especially since Jordan was a new member at the time. I think that it might have even been her first time for sharing a physical part of herself with us. Anyway, I was just expressing my opinion and not trying to start WWIII.

As far as my bad mood, I really struggle when I'm not able to fix something for someone that I love. My family and I are just going through things right now that I can't control. It's very difficult for me, and I was just having a rough day yesterday. It will get better though, and thanks for all of your concern. :smt058

For a true foot fetish man, the feet are more erotic than boobs or ass and that is the reason that I don't post. I'm not putting anyone down that does. Back in the day, I verbally stimulated many men on this board. I'm pretty sure that was how I caught the eye of one particular poster. At this point in my life, those days are over, but I don't look down on anyone that enjoys enticing the men of the board in a variety of ways.

Thank you for the kind words, sweetheart. :smt058 I think that it is wonderful that you consider your partner's feelings before you post anything. It's just a common courtesy when you care about someone. You are a beautiful lady, and I know that the ladies of the board would love to see a part of your shoe collection. I also know that the male observers would appreciate it too.

You're welcome and thank you for the kind words. For me, I don't need to foot flirt with anyone else. I have been blessed and have all that I need in my real life. I agree wholeheartedly with you. You are a gorgeous woman inside and out, and you have blessed the men of this board with sexy pictures of yourself in the appropriate threads. However, I felt that wasn't what the pics in this thread were for, and that was all I was saying.

I didn't see it as a friendly 'dig', but that is subject to individual interpretation, and I don't feel like discussing it anymore. You and I share a friendship that goes outside this board. You deserve to have someone addressing what you need and not just meaningless flirtations on an internet forum. You deserve to be happy in your everyday life. Do what it takes to make that happen. Life's too short. :smt056

 

Thanks, GG. You know I wish you and your family the best, and I appreciate your thoughts about me. It's been a healthy and spirited debate, which is the trait of this forum. Some folks told me to post more, and there has certainly been plenty of an opportunity to do so on this topic.