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Discussion in 'Stereotypes and Myths' started by Trey1540, Oct 13, 2010.

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Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

Espy said: ↑

I'm not sure what your issue with FG is, but you need to back your shit up. You're trying to start an argument where one need not exist. She stated her pov plainly, if you happen not to agree with it that's fine, but that doesn't make her wrong and you right, or vice-versa. You appear to have chosen to be openly antagonistic, to what was a non-antagonistic reply to your post. FG is right in this instance, there isn't a WW on the planet that knows what it's like to be a BM, just like there isn't a BM on the planet that knows what it's like to be a WW. Certainly we can attempt to empathize, but at the end of the day we cannot truly know. Anyone who thinks differently is deluded and is not being honest with themselves.

As for your first post in this thread, I didn't agree with it, and I saw no merit in replying to point that out. As for your initial comment that it's a pity more women aren't commenting. As FG pointed out, this thread is full of women commenting. There are 69 pages of back and forth, some of it woefully off track, mean-spirited, and disappointing. I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I can tell you I had no interest in this thread because of the way several posters chose to approach the subject, and because the OP is someone who has a track record of being disrespectful and hateful with people. Not to mention this topic has been discussed up, down and sideways entirely too many times. Two things I've learned in the year I've been a member here, don't discuss weight or religion because some people cannot remain objective and polite during the discussion. Arguing is pointless, debate on the other hand is beneficial, however this is one of those topics that it appears impossible to debate as emotions seem to always run high on both sides.

One last thing that caught my eye, I personally would think carefully before I called anyone a hypocrite, especially if I lacked sufficient interaction with them to actually know if that was true. I think it's also a good idea if you plan to call people names that you spell them right, but I'm kinda picky that way. In general if I can't back up what I say with some credible proof, I find it best not to say it. But you appear to desire to incite rather than discuss, and IMO it's a complete waste of time to pander to people like that. I suspect you'll find no shortage of people willing to take the bait, or high-five your efforts, I won't be one of them.

I don't dispute that both men and women make disparaging comments about the opposite gender Andrae, however it really does run something like 5 to 1 on here against the women most of the time. That's an estimate based upon my own personal observations, I am not about to take the time to go through every post and actually tally that up. However I think if you are going to cite a specific post and use it as an example, it'd be a good idea to find the post and link to it so people can see what you're talking about. The post I believe you are referencing was a photoshopped pic that obviously wasn't real and was intended as a joke, therefore the comments about it were in that spirit. I doubt you would find a current, regular poster on here making any kind of derogatory remark about any of the men here, I don't care how small his dick might be. As a whole we seem to be a pretty pleasant and polite bunch of women, and we get along surprisingly well, and you don't know how hard it is for a group of women to do that... I assure you it's rare. I think we do a pretty outstanding job, despite all the complete and utter horseshit we have to read on a regular basis around here.

I know your take on this is that you and others are stating your personal experiences, and I have no issue with that. But you don't often state it that way, you tend to state it with a broad undercurrent of 'all women are (fill in the blank with the negative attribute of your choice'). Now I realize you aren't talking about me, or the women here, but you know what... a new poster wouldn't know that. That's honestly my only real objection to the overwhelming amount of negativity that pervades the forum at times, I think to myself what would someone who is thinking about joining think if they read the recent threads? I don't know, but I'm betting it doesn't put forth a flattering impression.

Were it me, I would have the impression that most of those ridiculous stereotypes that the trolls throw out are accurate, and it wouldn't seem like a very welcome place to be. I realize you don't care what anyone else thinks, and that you believe in speaking your mind, and your no BS attitude is one of the qualities I like, however I think you can speak your mind politely, rather than in the most blunt way possible. I always speak my mind, but I do strive to do so as inoffensively as possible. There's just no point in trying to be hurtful or hateful to folks, and even if that's not how you meant it, if that's how it's interpreted then that happens to be what matters. Sometimes there is just no way to say something without offending people, but more often than not it can be done. I'm not just talking to you Andrae, many of us have had moments when we could have said it better had we just put a bit of thought into it, it's human nature, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't think before we speak or type.

I suspect we all encounter enough negativity, hate, and just all around nastiness in our real lives to last us a lifetime, I sure don't see the point in coming here for more. I don't think the forum has to be all smiles and puppy dogs, I don't think people should have to be PC all the time, and I don't have a problem with spirited discussion, but truthfully how many threads offer that? I see people commenting on the lack of topics with substance, and yet it seems those just devolve into petty, childish altercations, so I can see why people don't start threads, or comment in threads as much as perhaps they used to. I can only speak for myself, and I'm just not going to argue pointlessly with anyone, there are far better ways to spend my time.

I also refuse to make this a women versus men thing. There are women and men here that I think highly of, and I love some of y'all like family... and you know who you are.
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Tamstrong, Nov 2, 2010

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Bliss Well-Known Member

andrae09 said: ↑

I'm all over that all day. That's my boo
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LOL! :smt003
Look at cha Dawg, e-peeing all over the forum, marking your territory, staking ya claim...rrwooff!

Bliss, Nov 2, 2010

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whikle Well-Known Member

Kunoichi said: ↑

LOL! :smt003
Look at cha Dawg, e-peeing all over the forum, marking your territory, staking ya claim...:rrwooff!
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LMAO! I think you may have just coined a new phrase!!

whikle, Nov 2, 2010

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Bliss Well-Known Member

whikle said: ↑

LMAO! I think you may have just coined a new phrase!!
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Bliss, Nov 2, 2010

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goodlove New Member

Damn, espy. You have been silent for awhile but you got shit off your chest on that one. Now, every sit your asses down and shut the fuck up

goodlove, Nov 3, 2010

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thefieryphoenix Active Member
Flyingeek said: ↑

I think most women didnt comment on your post because we cant really see it from your view point as we are on "the other side". Im not a bm dating ww.

On the whole topic - if you read through the whole thread, you have seen its a very touchy subject and a lot of women are quite done with the subject.

Im focused on fitness and prefer a mate that is at least somewhat in shape. A little overweight is fine for me, but not more than that so I cant fault a man for having those standards as well.

What I DO have an issue with is when this is being pushed onto others and big women are being put down as well as the men that do like their women big.
If you dont like them big, fine - but it should be left at that - it doesnt have to become a put down.
I just dont get why some people need to put their nose into others taste and damn them for it. I never will. I think that is what all the heated argumenst about this really stems from.

The whole bottom of the barrel ww is kinda odd to me. What is attractive to one is not to another. Its in the eye of the beholder, it should be left at that.
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I agree strongly. I have been reading this board for 10 years and find it irregular that these guys spend so much time bashing big women and guys who go for them. The guys who are posting these threads must assume that everyone is looking for a trophy woman to impress their friends and family members. Frankly, I would rather have a good woman than a trophy woman.

thefieryphoenix, Nov 4, 2010

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wtarshi Well-Known Member

thefieryphoenix said: ↑

I agree strongly. I have been reading this board for 10 years and find it irregular that these guys spend so much time bashing big women and guys who go for them. The guys who are posting these threads must assume that everyone is looking for a trophy woman to impress their friends and family members. Frankly, I would rather have a good woman than a trophy woman.
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hats off to you tfp...!!!

wtarshi, Nov 4, 2010

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Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

thefieryphoenix said: ↑

I agree strongly. I have been reading this board for 10 years and find it irregular that these guys spend so much time bashing big women and guys who go for them. The guys who are posting these threads must assume that everyone is looking for a trophy woman to impress their friends and family members. Frankly, I would rather have a good woman than a trophy woman.
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Tamstrong, Nov 4, 2010

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wtarshi Well-Known Member

Tamstrong said: ↑

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as always...great minds

wtarshi, Nov 4, 2010

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The Dark King Well-Known Member

thefieryphoenix said: ↑

I agree strongly. I have been reading this board for 10 years and find it irregular that these guys spend so much time bashing big women and guys who go for them. The guys who are posting these threads must assume that everyone is looking for a trophy woman to impress their friends and family members. Frankly, I would rather have a good woman than a trophy woman.
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Yeah because the world is broken into two kinds of women. Fat messes or trophy women to impress people with.
Again with that either over 200 lbs or below 100 mentality. Because there are absolutely no good hearted educated beautiful attractive women in between right? Get the fuck outta here.

The Dark King, Nov 4, 2010

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wtarshi Well-Known Member

andrae09 said: ↑

Yeah because the world is broken into two kinds of women. Fat messes or trophy women to impress people with.
Again with that either over 200 lbs or below 100 mentality. Because there are absolutely no good hearted educated beautiful attractive women in between right? Get the fuck outta here.
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lol...simmer down big fella

wtarshi, Nov 4, 2010

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Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

Tarshibear said: ↑

as always...great minds
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Yep.

andrae09 said: ↑

Yeah because the world is broken into two kinds of women. Fat messes or trophy women to impress people with.
Again with that either over 200 lbs or below 100 mentality. Because there are absolutely no good hearted educated beautiful attractive women in between right? Get the fuck outta here.
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Tarshibear said: ↑

lol...simmer down big fella
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Lol. Tarshi's right Andrae. You're missing his point.

Tamstrong, Nov 4, 2010

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z Well-Known Member

BBC, CBC, ABC, FCC, BBW, FDW, RDW, BDD, FDD, DGG- who gives a rat's ass, just bring a sexy woman with a nice rack to the forum. End of discussion

z, Nov 4, 2010

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wtarshi Well-Known Member

UnChosen 1 said: ↑

BBC, CBC, ABC, BBW, FDW, RDW, DDG, FGG- who gives a rat's ass, just bring a sexy woman with a nice rack to the forum. End of discussion
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:smt039 mind you, the rack loses its sex appeal once its been let out of its over the shoulder bolder holder

wtarshi, Nov 4, 2010

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Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

Tarshibear said: ↑

:smt039 mind you, the rack loses its sex appeal once its been let out of its over the shoulder bolder holder
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Sad but true.

Tamstrong, Nov 4, 2010

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z Well-Known Member

Tamstrong said: ↑

Sad but true.
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Then dont easily expose your rack, hold on to it as long as you can. Prolong the decent or indecent exposure like an Iranian chick holding out a vaginal sex, lol.

z, Nov 4, 2010

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Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

UnChosen 1 said: ↑

Then dont easily expose your rack, hold on to it as long as you can. Prolong the decent or indecent exposure like an Iranian chick holding out a vaginal sex, lol.
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There are ways to fight the effects of gravity & so far I'm still on the winning side. It's not easy though. That & the twins are rebellious so they tend to try to expose themselves at any given opportunity. That's where the importance of a good "over the shoulder boulder holder" comes into play; it helps control the unruly girls when they try to misbehave. We ladies try to prolong the exposure, as you put it, as long as we can, but in the end gravity usually wins. I'm not gonna give up the fight though. lol

Tamstrong, Nov 4, 2010

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wtarshi Well-Known Member

Tamstrong said: ↑

There are ways to fight the effects of gravity & so far I'm still on the winning side. It's not easy though. That & the twins are rebellious so they tend to try to expose themselves at any given opportunity. That's where the importance of a good "over the shoulder boulder holder" comes into play; it helps control the unruly girls when they try to misbehave. We ladies try to prolong the exposure, as you put it, as long as we can, but in the end gravity usually wins. I'm not gonna give up the fight though. lol
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lol...i feel your pain...!!! and i don't know what he's going on about...i'm sure his balls are tripping him up constantly

wtarshi, Nov 4, 2010

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Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

Tarshibear said: ↑

lol...i feel your pain...!!! and i don't know what he's going on about...i'm sure his balls are tripping him up constantly
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Yeah for either set of parts, gravity is a cruel, evil bitch! Hell, if all else fails, we can just wear a nipple exposing shelf bra 24/7. That way the twins can be put on display & stay where they belong at the same time. The hard part is finding shelf bras that fit which is damn near impossible. Bra shopping is a bitch too!

Tamstrong, Nov 4, 2010

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Kushton Slater New Member

Tamstrong said: ↑

Yeah for either set of parts, gravity is a cruel, evil bitch! Hell, if all else fails, we can just wear a nipple exposing shelf bra 24/7. That way the twins can be put on display & stay where they belong at the same time. The hard part is finding shelf bras that fit which is damn near impossible. Bra shopping is a bitch too!
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This just in, theres a new bra available to the public, its called the human bra (aka my hands). The only thiing is there is only one good set of the human bra and I own them .

Kushton Slater, Nov 4, 2010

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