what do white women love about black men?

Who said anything about sex??? I meant while I was romancing you.

 

oh and please women, stop blaming all men for your mistakes...if you've had 5, 10 or 15 straight bad relationships it doesnt mean all men are bad...it means Y0U are making bad choices...

 

Very likely. I'm trying to find an italian now. But no luck. And chocolate is chocolate. MMMMMhhh. LOL

 

Maybe you'll have better luck with a guy wearing a ny yankees hat upside down...expand your horizons...:smt080

 

I enjoy a partner who isn't as assertive, and on the whole, black men are easier-going than white men. I admire a man who realizes he is marginalized in this world as a minority, but isn't crying about it. That's an attractive quality.

 

We'll talk about it when u move here

 

Do you think their race has anything to do with it?

 

yes we were once kings in the earth. we are israelites from the true bloodline of the ORIGINAL israelites.a well hidden secret. the ones calling themselves jewISH are converted imposters, who did so a looong time ago when we became subserviant because we broke the covenant our god a long time ago (Curses ofDEUTERONOMY28. also the media has made it their business to destroy our image, but we still carry that strong, kingly aura about us because thats who we once were.whitemen are only superior on paper, statistics,in black&white(according to thier own studies)lol. but the proof is in the pudding, and we all know what flavor the is more robust. we are coming back to the knowledge of ourselves that was hidden, and will soon have our rightful positions as kings and queens in the earth again

 

just to set the record straight, because i've been asked a lot lately why i date black men. and when you boil down to it i think they're just more masculine than white guys. I've been trying to explain this to my friends. I've dated white guys before in my youth, but i've lost interest and have been black only for about two years.

To me, black men are incredibly handsome, typically larger and stronger than white guys. i find the dark skin really attractive and see it as a really big turn on. and of course black men are more hung and way more satisfying to be with in bed. but aside from the obvious physical advantages, I like being around black guys way more, they are sweeter and make me feel beautiful. I feel safer when i'm with them and more feminine. I feel comfortable doing things for them i would never do with a white guy. black men just seem to have an air of dominance about them, next to white men they are definetly the alpha males.

i currently date a black guy who says that he only dates white girls because we're sweeter and more grateful to be with a black man. that we're more submissive and easier to control than black women. now some of you might disagree with me or thing im racist or something, but i'm very happy in my relationship, and i think white girls and black guys are a perfect match.

 

Those are qualities I always strive to be....

 

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I was just thinking we need a yawning smilie IB. :roll:

 

We should make a badge out of that.
Its so very true!!!!!

 

We need so many smilies for these people....

Badges, bumper sticker and tees.

We'll call our online store, Beckys 'R Us :smt024

 

its not that i go out of my way to be easy or whatever, i just naturally feel comfortable letting him wear the pants in our relationship. i mean arnt girls generally more attracted to dominant men?

 

If you can get the tees with leashes attached to them, that'd be like a 'kill two birds with one stone' kinda thing.

 

You like a man to perceive you as "easy"? That sits well with you?

Well, for me, I don't mind a man taking the lead, but I'll be damned if he can control me. I love catering to a man, as long as I'm not demeaning myself.

LOL!!!!!!

Of course we'll be sure to launch the Dumb Bitch line. Coming this Fall to a woman with no self esteem near you.

 

or "controlled"

 

Exactly!

 

Hahahahahahahaha! Love that fabulous sense of humor IB!

I think answering this question is largely useless, as the post is rather clearly intentionally full of stereotypes, and yes I realize that some stereotypes have a basis in fact, but these don't happen to fall into that category. But I agree on much of what you've said IB.

There is a difference between being submissive and allowing someone to control you. Control implies lack of will, whereas submission is a choice to mute your will in favor of someone else's will. I am a very dominant personality type in my life, however I have zero issue being submissive with a man, presuming he's worthy of that... meaning if he's competent to lead, I have no problem following. My general philosophy is lead, follow, or get out of my way. I do think there are women who view any submission as weakness, and that's just not accurate. A woman can submit to a man and it's not demeaning or offensive, nor does it make her more or less feminine, or imply a reduction in intellect. It doesn't diminish your position in a relationship, or your right to think for yourself. Honestly I think it's a somewhat natural response, but not all men trigger that response. Some men bring out softness, while others bring out hardness, it depends largely upon how they view you and their role in the relationship. There are men who are completely content to allow the woman to be dominant and handle everything for them, just as their are women who prefer to do just that. So no, not all women want a dominant man, just as not all men want a submissive, or easily controlled woman. People are individuals, you can't take a one-size-fits-all approach to anything involving two individuals.

 

ugh whatever, i do have self esteem, my whole point is that being with a black guy feels good and actually boosts my self esteem. and i'm not easy, i just tend to be a bit more accommodating with black guys cuz they're who i'm attracted to is all.