You guessed wrong. Los Angeles is no utopia of acceptance, but is far ahead of the curve in comparison to NY or Boston. I haven't been to Philly and have no desire to go, but guess that it's similar, if not worse, than the previously mentioned east coast cities.
If your going to MN, roll thru the Chi, I'm see em more & more everyday. I think anyone from the Chi would back me up too if they get around and pay attention like I do.
I'd like to visit NYC within the next 10 years to see what all the hype is about. They always say it's the "center of the world". (Maybe that's an American thing, but still). It looks crowded as ever IMO. I don't think I'd like the cold weather and taxi cabs.
I've lived in all of them, there is no real difference, except in downtown Manhattan, which has always had more IR. But Black women down there will stare you down. It's no biggie, but I'd rather not even deal with that.
I guess. I've never been to L.A., so its all speculation.I hear boston is the worse? I would love to visit
Does it matter? If you find out that NYC isn't as good as LA or wherever else, will it change your persepctive? Don't forget that people often end up travelling where they're focussing. Who cares what's better or worse? The fact is, NYC is relatively liberal and there are women there. Go out, focus on what you want, not what any problems are, and enjoy the journey.
If I need to tell you that, then you are far beyond my capacity for advice. Introspect and think about it for a minute. Something to ponder: If you're not getting the results you want, then you must change the process. I've been to NYC 3 times and find it very hard to believe that you can't find "liberal" women.
Im gonna test that.. Im going to NJ for business but staying a few days longer so my man and I can go to Manhattan and have some fun.... We have never seen any "looks" whatsoever here in LA so I can do a comparison.
I lived here my whole life buddy. SO sorry if I see things a little bit differently than a person visiting 3 times in their life. Think about it for a minute...hmm you will probably say some shit like bookstores, starbucks, the park. Get the f out of here. My process is great. I dont want or need to change shit. If anything its the women in my area that need to change. Sorry but thats the truth. I do meet very nice liberal white ladies but not enough in my daily life. Hell even they know the deal in NY. Few and Far in between. Hey i'm not gonna bitch about it. IDK the statistics, but i would bet they arent good.
so spill it , what areas are better/worse??- lemme know, Im honestly curious.. To tell you the truth, I never have really noticed any "looks" in DC either so maybe Im just ignoran to those things.....
I prefer to let you roam the city and report back, dont want to influence where you go by. I need you to impartially walk by a couple neighborhoods and tell me what happens. Just stay away from the upper east side.