Most digital cameras have a timer you can set to take your own photos. It's not necessary to do them in the bathroom. Or just ask a friend to take some when you are out somewhere.

 

ROFL, I've seen those on Craigslist.:smt043

 

Thanks Rinnaye

hmmm I have to wonder if that would be true of the women you would ultimately be interested in. Sortof like how many women may attract to bad boys but ultimately do not want them in the long run. I see a man in a photo with a woman and I see taken - no go.

And yes I agree - we can't see the coliseum

 

Well then I guess without the internet as a way to meet someone...I'm doomed

 

It's tacky no matter which gender does it!

 

It's just a picture. Put the one up that you feel most comfortable with

 

Oh absolutely! I just felt the ire brewing against "horrible men" so I thought I'd point out it's an Internet thing across the board. From the personals on this forum no less.

 

No my man, but the point is not about the rejection, I can handle that, but pumping up a woman's ego, one that is already bigger than Alaska, and building her dilusion of grandeur, i.e. (all black guys want me). I'm ok with letting the next guy do that.

You must spread some reputation around, before giving it to GrecoJones84 again.

You're a very attractive woman KnCA, I doubt you'll ever be doomed.

 

ooooh. Yah I don't subscribe to the horrible man thing.

Somehow not surprised about the personals on this site....there have been several texts posted from those (usually ads posted by women) that were pretty bad.

 

I was gonna say. The personals and the forum are like two different worlds.

 

Well aren't you sweet! I wasn't fishing for compliments...but I'll take it just the same

My point was more that I won't do the blatant thing (unless eye contact, smiling, and saying "hi" are mad signals) and so maybe men don't really get that it's ok to approach. But then I guess the right man is going to be willing to take the chance?

 

Ahh, I got ya. I'll still approach, though. For one, there's no way to tell what woman is like that by a glance... and if it turns out that I am pumping her ego., well good for her. Doesn't really affect me one way or the other.

I definitely know what you're saying, though. I'm just very 'blah' about that sort of thing, I guess.

 

*confession*
two weeks ago I chatted up a girl with the comment
"so how about me pushing you up against that wall and kissing you until you beg to come home with me?"

she was like
"oh, can't we just go to your place straight away?"

but I wanted to finish my drink.

 

:smt042:smt042

 

I can't deside if I should be proud or ashamed of myself.. lol

 

rayer: Be proud. I love it when people just come out and say whatever the hell it is they feel.

Like my boy Kels says on 'Go Low'

Some people sit right there,
And can't say what's on their minds,
Some people wanna freak,
Some are just too damned shy,
With me that's not the deal,
Girl I say how I feel,
When I see something I like,
I'm gonna keep it real...

 

Yep

 

Anyone ever told you, "Shutup, you talk too much." :smt026

 

Glutton for punishment are we???

But to your point, if there's no way to tell what kind of attitude the woman has, then I say go for it, hit her up! But if I know for a fact she thinks every black guy in the world wants her, (which is what the OP made mention of), then she'll be lucky if I even know she's in the room. Or at least that'll be how I play her.

 

Senior Member, Over 500 Posts, and a Join date of November 2008, and you're saying someone talks too much.

DAYUM!!!!