Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by blacklover, Dec 21, 2007.

  1. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Since you are claiming that women pattern their behavior after men:

    1. )What positive behavior have they copied from men?


    2.) then why don't they grasp the most basic social concept of all which is: friendship??
     
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  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Incredibly well stated agree 100 percent.
    If you're an intelligent man with options there's no way you'd entertain the nonsense for long. Life is too short and too many good things to enjoy out there
     
  3. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Come on that's totally unfair. Own your shitty behavior. If you do bad own it
     
  4. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    Man, I say, “the reality is” a lot, lol.
     
  5. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member

    Man are you really asking a woman to own up to her own shitty behavior? You might as well wait for Hailey's Comet to come back LOL
     
  6. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member

     
  7. Reverie

    Reverie Well-Known Member

    Agreed.
     
  8. Frederick

    Frederick Well-Known Member


    We empathize because we deal with the exact same shit.

    I'm average height, but I've been curbed multiple times by short women who only wanted dudes tall enough to be in the NBA.

    I've seen my overweight cousin get rejected by several "BBWs" who only wanna fuck bodybuilder looking dudes.

    Why the fuck do women play dumb about this shit? "Body positivity" is only for women.

    Don't give me anecdotal shit about "I have girlfriends who are totally open to dating so and so." We're living in the internet era. There's scientific proof of what kind of people are the most/least desirable in the sexual marketplace.
     
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  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Its easy to play dumb when you don't have to deal with it. Its like when people still question a police brutality case even with video proof and a history of bad behavior if its not your problem its easy to dismiss it. Also like how a lot of men don't seem to believe sexual assault isn't rampant.
     
  10. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    I’m only 5’11.5”. So, since I am just at the cusp of 6 foot, I tend to slip through the cracks. But, I’ve been bodybuilding since I was a teenager, and I can attest to the many times very very large women approached me as if they were entitled to me. The “BBW” aiming for bodybuilders thing is real.

    Statistically, women aim for men that are better than them or equal to them (with the caveat of higher future potential earnings... google hypergamy). Men aim for women that have a lot less than them, or are equal to them (with little thought of future earnings). So, a lot of people are looking for people that are the opposite of themselves.
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Same boat as you height wise but not a bodybuilder maybe that's what I was missing lol. In my karate running days it was much easier then got even easier once certain career and financial stuff took off. Honestly I wouldn't mind if women were open about it and said they wanted someone who was financially set and physically able to protect them from the world but that's not what we hear instead we're fed lies while also being told to overlook a woman's short comings because that's what love is about supposedly. Its funny I know what's expected of men but can't begin to tell you what men expect from women
     
  12. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    If you want some lifting advice, feel free to ask. Men, in general, want a partner/teammate. Just someone that we can take on the world with... and have sex with, lol (women want that too, but many want much more as well, as it’s often compounded with hypergamy). It never ceases to amaze me how much a man is willing to do for a woman who treats him kindly half of the time. We don’t require as much, the older and more mature women get, the less they require. I think that is one of many reasons why people who get married in their mid 40s tend to stay married. That and the fact that the looks are starting to fade for many people, so you tend to look for more substance.

    In regards to certain women saying one thing and wanting another... tale as old as time. When asked, women often mention the emotional and supportive things they want in a man. But, they leave out the stuff that is considered sexy and so on. It’s been studied over and over, but there is often (not always), a drastic difference between the man a woman wants to marry and a man a woman wants to fuck. The same can be said for men.
     
  13. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Yeah but at least with men there are no false pretenses they know exactly what's up. There's no fierce denial of the obvious. Women will tell you over and over how little the superficial matters while dismissing "boring men" for more exciting less stable men until they prove to be exactly what they showed they were then they go for boring men
     
  14. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    Hmmm... I don’t concern myself with such types these days. It is a shame that it still happens. But, man or woman, it’s a person’s right to live in denial.
     
  15. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member


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  16. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    Lol, that’s how it is these days. Some guys get their blood boiling over this. I just find it funny. There are always women and men who aim far too high. Body positivity creates a large amount of confidence in super sized women. I think it’s a good thing. The problem with it, is there is what they want and then there is reality. The fact that she isn’t into fat guys while having 35 inch arms of blood bones and fat, kind of acts as “stud-repellant”. But, who knows, there are a lot of simps these days, so maybe she is cleaning up the dating scene? She’s sure as hell cleaning up those plates. I think she is the female version of the short weirdo with the mini bat, lol.
     
  17. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    I will say that the guy could definitely change is attitude, not that it would help much. He looks like a thumb with eyes, a nose, and a mouth. He looks like Mr. Peanut’s baby brother, lol. It’s still so funny to me.

    Hey, do you think you could find a video of him hitting a tree with the mini bat? I just want to see... for science, lol.
     
  18. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member

    Well, I guess the Bagel Boss Guy had a short reign at the top. He reached the heights. Now it's over.
     
  19. Reverie

    Reverie Well-Known Member

    And average women struggle with the same thing as you guys. Just think about that.
     
  20. sarah23

    sarah23 Well-Known Member

    Plus the size of our waist, butt and boobs .....
    We must be perfect.
     

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