Man Hits Woman - Was he Right ? Or Wrong ?

Never have I been called or seen as a feminist before lol. Interesting.

You guys can fight until you're blue in the face that this pussy was somehow justified in putting his all into hitting a small female, but the FACT of the matter is the courts didn't see it that way. He now gets to have this haunt him forever, because he couldn't keep his composure and gauge actual threat vs bruised ego. Is it right or fair that bm have to be smarter than most when it comes to any sort of altercation, OF COURSE NOT, but this country and our court system isn't fair and I'll be damned if I raise my boys to think otherwise. My boys will respect themselves enough to walk away because whatever idiot put their hands on them, isn't worth giving up their future for. Period.
 
The Dark King said:
This is where I feel like a chauvinist. This is as bad as the dating thing with women. You're pure spectators. Youve never been in a situation that you love to weigh in on. No one is saying to look for trouble but if it finds you simply walking away isn't always an option. You guys do make a compelling case for black men to just get up leave. Why be somewhere where you literally have no rights. Everyone can beat on you and you have to take it because you're black and there is no justice for you. Your physical body isn't valuable so any and everyone who feels like hurting you has a free pass. Sounds like Jim Crow don't it.
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TDK - let's also keep in mind that chicks sometimes smack nonblack guys too. And the nonblack guys look like assholes to the overwhelming majority of folks when they respond like Mixon did.
 
medullaslashin said:
TDK - let's also keep in mind that chicks sometimes smack nonblack guys too. And the nonblack guys look like assholes to the overwhelming majority of folks when they respond like Mixon did.
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We can agree to disagree. Like I said feminist did their jobs too well I believe we're equals and if a guy her size did the identical thing and got slapped there would be no conversation. But you and Raider are attempting to normalize the idea it's ok for a woman to hit a man and he should take it.
Don't agree sorry
 
RaiderLL said:
Never have I been called or seen as a feminist before lol. Interesting.

You guys can fight until you're blue in the face that this pussy was somehow justified in putting his all into hitting a small female, but the FACT of the matter is the courts didn't see it that way. He now gets to have this haunt him forever, because he couldn't keep his composure and gauge actual threat vs bruised ego. Is it right or fair that bm have to be smarter than most when it comes to any sort of altercation, OF COURSE NOT, but this country and our court system isn't fair and I'll be damned if I raise my boys to think otherwise. My boys will respect themselves enough to walk away because whatever idiot put their hands on them, isn't worth giving up their future for. Period.
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In other words, you support this white supremacist system, good on you.
 
RaiderLL said:
Never have I been called or seen as a feminist before lol. Interesting.

You guys can fight until you're blue in the face that this pussy was somehow justified in putting his all into hitting a small female, but the FACT of the matter is the courts didn't see it that way. He now gets to have this haunt him forever, because he couldn't keep his composure and gauge actual threat vs bruised ego. Is it right or fair that bm have to be smarter than most when it comes to any sort of altercation, OF COURSE NOT, but this country and our court system isn't fair and I'll be damned if I raise my boys to think otherwise. My boys will respect themselves enough to walk away because whatever idiot put their hands on them, isn't worth giving up their future for. Period.
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Courts use to say you are allowed to cry rape with zero proof and the public can burn my town.
Wrong is wrong sorry. Either we're a society of equals or we're agreeing to slide back to a period where you can do anything you want to my body and I'll just have to eat it. I know you don't see it as that to you a bigger man should be a "bigger" man but honestly I'm sick of this we go high when they go low b.s.
No one touch me of my loved ones because you know as well as anyone give someone an inch they most certainly will take a mile at some point. And you expect me to trust in a judicial system to look out for me in major issues when in minor ones I'm guilty no matter what?
 
The Dark King said:
We can agree to disagree. Like I said feminist did their jobs too well I believe we're equals and if a guy her size did the identical thing and got slapped there would be no conversation. But you and Raider are attempting to normalize the idea it's ok for a woman to hit a man and he should take it.
Don't agree sorry
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Putting words in the opposition's mouth is not a valid way to win debates. Neither me nor raider said anything like "it's okay for a woman to hit a man & he should take it".

I'm arguing that his response was excessive, dangerous, counter-productive.

...& as lots of people have pointed out in this debate, everyone is on the same page that it's not okay for people to go around hitting one another. You've read the posts, so you know that. That's means you're being disingenuous about why you support how Mixon handled it.

Why?

Let's get to the real reasons.
 
goodlove8 said:
Exactly. Shes telling people to be an adult , well adults will know what may happen to people if you violate people.

She put herself in a foul position when she touched him . You can say it was excessive all day but when she attacked him , then she opened herself for a counterattack.

Females and men need to expect a counter attack when you hit someone. Stop playing I'm smaller or a woman so don't hit me hard. If you can't take it then keep your hands to yourself.
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Everyone is welcome to their own opinion/interpretation, and we can debate what is fair all day long, but what you stated above IS NOT THE LAW and that's the bottom line imo.
 
medullaslashin said:
Putting words in the opposition's mouth is not a valid way to win debates. Neither me nor raider said anything like "it's okay for a woman to hit a man & he should take it".

I'm arguing that his response was excessive, dangerous, counter-productive.

...& as lots of people have pointed out in this debate, everyone is on the same page that it's not okay for people to go around hitting one another. You've read the posts, so you know that. That's means you're being disingenuous about why you support how Mixon handled it.

Why?

Let's get to the real reasons.
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If your saying that everyone isn't ok with a guy hitting a girl without taking the circumstances into account of course you're saying its ok.
There was nothing excessive about his response it was a literal exchange of blows one hit for one hit. Not his fault that his hit was stronger than hers. If it were two guys same size difference not a single person would say a thing it would be a nearly perfect unison of "why would he go fuck with him like that " or "serves the racist for doing that shit"
But we apply different rules when it's women and apparently we as black men need to be "smart" and accept public abuse. We literally have to wait on others to view us as people before we can be treated as such.
 
medullaslashin said:
Putting words in the opposition's mouth is not a valid way to win debates. Neither me nor raider said anything like "it's okay for a woman to hit a man & he should take it".

I'm arguing that his response was excessive, dangerous, counter-productive.

...& as lots of people have pointed out in this debate, everyone is on the same page that it's not okay for people to go around hitting one another. You've read the posts, so you know that. That's means you're being disingenuous about why you support how Mixon handled it.

Why?

Let's get to the real reasons.
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NO! The problem is that gender is being injected into an otherwise gender-neutral debate. If we can agree that his punch was excess (not because the receiver of the punch is a women), but because it wasn't an appropriate response to the initial assault, then FINE, but time and time again, in this thread I see comments from Raider and others saying it was excessive, AND he managed to land one on a women.
 
The Dark King said:
But we apply different rules when it's women and apparently we as black men need to be "smart" and accept public abuse. We literally have to wait on others to view us as people before we can be treated as such.
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Did you see this post earlier? --> "TDK - let's also keep in mind that chicks sometimes smack nonblack guys too. And the nonblack guys look like assholes to the overwhelming majority of folks when they respond like Mixon did."
 
The Dark King said:
Courts use to say you are allowed to cry rape with zero proof and the public can burn my town.
Wrong is wrong sorry. Either we're a society of equals or we're agreeing to slide back to a period where you can do anything you want to my body and I'll just have to eat it. I know you don't see it as that to you a bigger man should be a "bigger" man but honestly I'm sick of this we go high when they go low b.s.
No one touch me of my loved ones because you know as well as anyone give someone an inch they most certainly will take a mile at some point. And you expect me to trust in a judicial system to look out for me in major issues when in minor ones I'm guilty no matter what?
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I don't expect you to trust the system in any case, major or minor, that's the point that some of you are too hard headed to get.
 
The Dark King said:
If your saying that everyone isn't ok with a guy hitting a girl without taking the circumstances into account of course you're saying its ok.
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Lots of people in this thread have repeatedly pointed out that it's not okay for anyone to hit anyone -- & they've also pointed out that that is not the issue here.

They've also pointed out that Mixon could've handled it in many more productive ways, including having her arrested. (Would having her arrested mean that her hitting him is "okay" or no?)

Gotta argue real points, bro. What are they? You look disingenuous when you argue false points, put words in to others mouths, etc.

Anyway, at least we're getting to the crux of it. It's not about "self defense" & it's not about some epidemic of women out there assaulting men -- it's really about her having "privilege" as a woman, and for that, his full wrath was righteous in the minds of the guys backing him.

That is what it's really about. heh - I think this thread should be merged with the one about women having unfair advantage in the dating game. :D

Wonder where the OP from that discussion would be on this issue...? o_O (and why?)
 
medullaslashin said:
Did you see this post earlier? --> "TDK - let's also keep in mind that chicks sometimes smack nonblack guys too. And the nonblack guys look like assholes to the overwhelming majority of folks when they respond like Mixon did."
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I brought race into it because Loki and Raider kept reminding me the rules are different for black men and we just gotta take it
 
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