I'm NOT Interested!!

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K said:
Its all a process and what works with one won't with another. I think it's best to just have your shit together and be genuine about things. If they aren't interested, big deal....find one who is.
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Trust me it would be nice if people told the truth but...
 
Beasty said:
It's kinda shocking when people can't take a hint. I remember when I first started meeting a lot of ww. I was shocked when they couldn't take a hint that you were not interested. (i was a teen and more into one night stands) Bw could see it from a mile away, but I guess ww were not used to regection. Seemed as if they thought that if you had sex with them once they were beyond regection.This was my only shock when I started meeting more ww. Now ww and Latinas are all I know.
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Are you still like that or do you flat out tell women wasup?
 
RaiderLL said:
Read minds? No. Be smart enough to trust actions over words? Without a doubt. For you to say a person can't tell when someone's into them, is absolutely absurd. Im sure there are a few people who lack any level of social awareness, but not most.

And if you hate women so much, don't date them. It's very simple. Choose to live a life of romantic solitude or try your hand at men. The world is your oyster.
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Good points! I would definitely be looking at their actions. If a person is interested... They'd convey that especially if you're reaching out to them. If I'm making an effort and it's not being reciprocated in any way... I'd soon conclude that for whatever reason you're not interested and/or no longer interested, and I'll move on.
 
4north1side2 said:
Are you still like that or do you flat out tell women wasup?
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No. I changed that a long time ago. Once I found out that you have to be more than clear and very stern for them to get the point then that's what I started doing. Every since then I have always been more direct.

Back then a ww went as far as threating me. I was 19 and done with hs. She tried to lie and say that she was underage and would jail me if I were to quit fucking with her. As shocked as I was I still told her to Fuck off. I had the inside scoop. She was still in hs but as a senior.

Back then my mindset was that I prefered ww with the only downside being that it was harder to get rid of them.
 
As I got older my preference became more certain. Experience taught me that ww are generally more compatible with me. In more ways than one.
 
Beasty said:
No. I changed that a long time ago. Once I found out that you have to be more than clear and very stern for them to get the point then that's what I started doing. Every since then I have always been more direct.

Back then a ww went as far as threating me. I was 19 and done with hs. She tried to lie and say that she was underage and would jail me if I were to quit fucking with her. As shocked as I was I still told her to Fuck off. I had the inside scoop. She was still in hs but as a senior.

Back then my mindset was that I prefered ww with the only downside being that it was harder to get rid of them.
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That's crazy man!
 
DudeNY12 said:
Good points! I would definitely be looking at their actions. If a person is interested... They'd convey that especially if you're reaching out to them. If I'm making an effort and it's not being reciprocated in any way... I'd soon conclude that for whatever reason you're not interested and/or no longer interested, and I'll move on.
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This is the common sense I'm talking about! It's truly not rocket science and it has nothing to do with reading my mind lol. Watch my actions, period. Respect yourself enough to walk away from anyone who's not putting in an effort. If I see a friendship with someone not not something romantic, I'd be straight up and honest. But if there's no connection on any level, and I don't trust how you'll take rejection... I'll absolutely fall off the face of the earth without any regret. I don't owe any near-stranger a reason for stopping communication and they don't owe me anything. Very cut and dry in my eyes.
 
RaiderLL said:
This is the common sense I'm talking about! It's truly not rocket science and it has nothing to do with reading my mind lol. Watch my actions, period. Respect yourself enough to walk away from anyone who's not putting in an effort. If I see a friendship with someone not not something romantic, I'd be straight up and honest. But if there's no connection on any level, and I don't trust how you'll take rejection... I'll absolutely fall off the face of the earth without any regret. I don't owe any near-stranger a reason for stopping communication and they don't owe me anything. Very cut and dry in my eyes.
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Raider has always been the textbook definition of "women are hypocrites".

I bet anyone here if I took the time out to go back thru raiders old posts giving advice regarding relationships I will find some variation of a post of her telling someone "keep it real"

Or if I was to find a post of her regarding describing herself when it comes to relationships "I believe in being upfront and honest"

Who wants to bet me!?


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Speaking with this person for only a few days inconsistently and you ghost, I understand you hardly know this person. Beyond a few days on a consistent basis, you've gone out together, stop being a "lil bitch" and put on your big girl pants telling it how it is.
 
4north1side2 said:
Raider has always been the textbook definition of "women are hypocrites".

I bet anyone here if I took the time out to go back thru raiders old posts giving advice regarding relationships I will find some variation of a post of her telling someone "keep it real"

Or if I was to find a post of her regarding describing herself when it comes to relationships "I believe in being upfront and honest"

Who wants to bet me!?


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Speaking with this person for only a few days inconsistently and you ghost, I understand you hardly know this person. Beyond a few days on a consistent basis, you've gone out together, stop being a "lil bitch" and put on your big girl pants telling it how it is.
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If I have any respect for you, I will always tell it like it is (if we have a friendship already or if we've been talking/dating for a minute). If you're a near stranger though, I owe you nothing, nada, zip, zilch. I expect nothing from them either. See how easy that is?! I'm not sorry in the least about it. Grow up and stop expecting relationship-type communication from strangers. No wonder so many people talk about how disappointed they are in dating. Stop expecting shit you haven't earned. Life gets a lot simpler when you act (and expect) like an adult. I've never regretted falling out of someone's life. I HAVE regretted being open and honest to someone who didn't get past day one with me. Fuck that. Learned really quick that I don't need to defend my choice to stop talking to someone. My life my choice. Be a big boy and move on :)
 
4north1side2 said:
Raider has always been the textbook definition of "women are hypocrites".

I bet anyone here if I took the time out to go back thru raiders old posts giving advice regarding relationships I will find some variation of a post of her telling someone "keep it real"

Or if I was to find a post of her regarding describing herself when it comes to relationships "I believe in being upfront and honest"

Who wants to bet me!?


youngsabu.png


Speaking with this person for only a few days inconsistently and you ghost, I understand you hardly know this person. Beyond a few days on a consistent basis, you've gone out together, stop being a "lil bitch" and put on your big girl pants telling it how it is.
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Aaww damn
 
RaiderLL said:
If I have any respect for you, I will always tell it like it is (if we have a friendship already or if we've been talking/dating for a minute). If you're a near stranger though, I owe you nothing, nada, zip, zilch. I expect nothing from them either. See how easy that is?! I'm not sorry in the least about it. Grow up and stop expecting relationship-type communication from strangers. No wonder so many people talk about how disappointed they are in dating. Stop expecting shit you haven't earned. Life gets a lot simpler when you act (and expect) like an adult. I've never regretted falling out of someone's life. I HAVE regretted being open and honest to someone who didn't get past day one with me. Fuck that. Learned really quick that I don't need to defend my choice to stop talking to someone. My life my choice. Be a big boy and move on :)
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RaiderLL said:
If I have any respect for you, I will always tell it like it is (if we have a friendship already or if we've been talking/dating for a minute). If you're a near stranger though, I owe you nothing, nada, zip, zilch. I expect nothing from them either. See how easy that is?! I'm not sorry in the least about it. Grow up and stop expecting relationship-type communication from strangers. No wonder so many people talk about how disappointed they are in dating. Stop expecting shit you haven't earned. Life gets a lot simpler when you act (and expect) like an adult. I've never regretted falling out of someone's life. I HAVE regretted being open and honest to someone who didn't get past day one with me. Fuck that. Learned really quick that I don't need to defend my choice to stop talking to someone. My life my choice. Be a big boy and move on :)
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I ain't hating shawty but women like you are the reason why dudes like UK go fucking coo coo and amplify their craziness.

This is why I, TDK, and other men say you can't take women's advice on shit like dating because yall always say one thing, but you do something the complete opposite but love to argue with us over like we are wrong lol.

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What sticks out from this post is your smug assholery. Fuck these people and they feelings, "I don't owe you shit" right. Cool, that's how you feel, that's how you feel BUUUUUUUUT......

then in a complete different thread you are bemoaning how cruel, nasty, and mean the world is. Telling people that they need to be nicer to each other and all that feel good jazz.

How the fuck does that work?
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I feel for the men in your life, dating you must feel like the movie the notebook 24/7


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4north1side2 said:
I ain't hating shawty but women like you are the reason why dudes like UK go fucking coo coo and amplify their craziness.

This is why I, TDK, and other men say you can't take women's advice on shit like dating because yall always say one thing, but you do something the complete opposite but love to argue with us over like we are wrong lol.

x24i8XH.png



What sticks out from this post is your smug assholery. Fuck these people and they feelings, "I don't owe you shit" right. Cool, that's how you feel, that's how you feel BUUUUUUUUT......

then in a complete different thread you are bemoaning how cruel, nasty, and mean the world is. Telling people that they need to be nicer to each other and all that feel good jazz.

How the fuck does that work?
AsmKMeB.png



I feel for the men in your life, dating you must feel like the movie the notebook 24/7


OcZSfG1.png
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Hahaha I've never seen that movie but I've seen the "what do u want to eat" gif on fb lol. I said from the beginning that my take on things doesn't matter, I'm married, not dating anymore ? The men have been saved from my smug assholery lol! Honestly, I'm really not an asshole but I do get snippy when I'm expected to defend or outline why I do what I do. I could've probably sugar coated what I said but the gist of it would've still been the same (that's assholeish again, isn't it?!).
 
4north1side2 said:
I ain't hating shawty but women like you are the reason why dudes like UK go fucking coo coo and amplify their craziness.

This is why I, TDK, and other men say you can't take women's advice on shit like dating because yall always say one thing, but you do something the complete opposite but love to argue with us over like we are wrong lol.

x24i8XH.png



What sticks out from this post is your smug assholery. Fuck these people and they feelings, "I don't owe you shit" right. Cool, that's how you feel, that's how you feel BUUUUUUUUT......

then in a complete different thread you are bemoaning how cruel, nasty, and mean the world is. Telling people that they need to be nicer to each other and all that feel good jazz.

How the fuck does that work?
AsmKMeB.png



I feel for the men in your life, dating you must feel like the movie the notebook 24/7


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Lol

I bow down to you
 
RaiderLL said:
Hahaha I've never seen that movie but I've seen the "what do u want to eat" gif on fb lol. I said from the beginning that my take on things doesn't matter, I'm married, not dating anymore ? The men have been saved from my smug assholery lol! Honestly, I'm really not an asshole but I do get snippy when I'm expected to defend or outline why I do what I do. I could've probably sugar coated what I said but the gist of it would've still been the same (that's assholeish again, isn't it?!).
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Smh....let get my wet weather boots on....the shit is piling up
 
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