youre in the friend zone because....

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Feb 24, 2015.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

  2. K

    K Well-Known Member

    And I would agree on this point as being the truth about the nice guy thing:

    Meaning #9: “I am a bit too immature to appreciate a guy like you.” “She means, ‘I haven’t grown up enough to know that nice guys make better boyfriends than bad boys do’ just yet,” says Natasha Burton, coauthor of The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags. “As women mature, they realize that dating a guy who is nice — as in, he’s dependable and treats them with kindness — is actually something they should both want and deserve in a partner.”

    On the rest of the points, I think they also fall into the immature category. It isn't about a man being a "nice guy". It's about a woman not being honest with the man and straight out saying whatever she means.
     
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    i especially agree with the "you are too passive and cant make a decision" points. women surely dontbwant men with those traits.

    no business want it either

     
  4. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

  5. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    At the end of the day, it is about what people want. And if a man asks out a woman, it is up to her to decide. A man cannot force her to date him. Women know what they are looking for in a date/lifemate. Men have to prove something to her and here is where it gets competitive and difficult. Men and women do not want to settle for just anyone. They want the person they feel is right for them. In this high speed, high tech time, it has become difficult and overwhelming.
     
  6. Otis

    Otis New Member

    ...I f'ed up & mentioned I couldn't stay because I had to go meet my old lady
    OOOPS, I MEANT BABY MOMMA, BABY MOMMA!!!!:smt092
     
  7. K

    K Well-Known Member


    So true!
     
  8. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Howled at the I don't date black guys part

    [YOUTUBE]watch?v=UN-TdJ6NgHk[/YOUTUBE]
     
  10. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    I'm use to hearing that....all the bloody time.

     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    As much you as you guys criticize me I only create situations where women can either love me or hate me absolutely no in betweens. I'd rather a woman stew about how much she thinks I'm an asshole rather than let her downgrade me to dickless lol
     
  12. Thump

    Thump Well-Known Member

    Whats funny is, just as soon as he gets a girlfriend, those same girls are gonna be all over him.
     
  13. Shulz021

    Shulz021 Well-Known Member

    Exactly the jealousy kicks in. :smt042
     
  14. Milk N Cookiez

    Milk N Cookiez New Member

    I'm guilty of many of these

    Some guys act so fucking bat shit crazy when you reject them, I want to live lol
     
  15. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    She said I want to live :smt043 These dudes just don't understand the struggle
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Haters lol
     
  17. blackbrah

    blackbrah Well-Known Member

    I'm surprised the guy in the video didn't go full Elliot Rodger.
     
  18. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    What I have learned all these years is that people have preferences. So do I. Rejection is a part of the life journey. How we accept it depends on the individual.
     
  19. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    True. unfortunately, some people cannot handle rejection.
     
  20. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    The look on her face when she says "Why haven't you taken me on a date?" is priceless! :smt042
     

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