your opinion

I have only been with one black man but I have to say he was by far the best lover I have ever had.I could not compare him with any white guy I was previouslywith. I'm not talking about his size either, that was not the issue. It was a combination of many things.
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Does everyone agree or is it me....

 

Just make sure that if and when you compare him to past relationships, try to stay out of the habit of comparing him as a black guy against a white guy. Just think of him as a "guy" and your past boyfriends as "guys"...meaning, measure them by their character, looks, qualities, etc. The fact that it is a combination of things that make him appeal to you more is wonderful. As someone who has been with white girls all of his life (except for one), I can still understand your point on many levels.

 

Do I agree he was the best lover you ever had? If you say so :smt017

 

That wasn't the question and why do you have to be sarcastic

 

If you say he was the best lover you ever had, then obviously you had a some kind of connection with him that was way beyond skin deep.

 

I do not know why but posts like this make me really annoyed.

 

They annoy me too. Why not say he was the best left handed lover you've ever had, or the best lover from Utah or whatever - why pick up on him being black?

 

Forgive me because I didn't mean it like that. :roll:

 

People often make comparisons between current and last lovers.

Some women swear that their latin lovers were better than their home-grown, anglo, partners.

Handedness or geography don't really impact on a man's capability in the bedroom. Most of the time, anyway!

 

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Handedness or geography don't really impact on a man's capability in the bedroom. Most of the time, anyway!
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Neither do race. It all depends on what you're attracted to, if it's black men, a woman will think they make better lovers because her attraction to them stimulates and arouses her; the sight, smell, touch and taste of them sets her off before the man really has a chance to do anything. If they are great in bed, that just adds to it, but most of what makes who a better lover is all in our minds.

 

I've only been with one white man.

My opinion, no matter how great the black men have been... how can I compare them to white men based on experience with one white man.

I can't.

 

IMHO, a great lover is a great lover... regardless of anything else.

I also believe that someone's "sexual talent" is like beauty... " in the eye of the beholder"... It's all about how 2 (or more!) ppl "fit" together. And what works for you may not work for me and vice versa.

So, while saying somthing like "my black lover is the best lover I've ever had", may be accurate, it is ridiculous to assume that he's great simply because he's black!