Your idealistic and realistic partner matches?

Me too.

There are certain qualities I need: such as the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation about a wide variety of topics; someone who likes to read; someone who is open-minded and can see both sides of an issue, situation, what have you; someone who loves to smile and is easy-going, etc.

 

His facebook and tweets are a bit mehhh, but hey ho that's just me.


Seth Rogen is probably my fav ever american funny guy, close 2nd Will Ferrell.

 

Agreed. I have so many ideal qualities that I'd like in a partner and those above are definitely some of them.

 

A smart person knows that these are one and the same.

 

After I replied to your post I realized that I've never seen Idris on a talk show and I've never read an interview with him. I have no clue what he's like in real life.

I also have liked his Facebook page and feel the same about it. It's just sort of there most of the time.

Seth Rogen is great. He's one of my faves.

 

She sounds amazing

 

Agreed

 

I'm realistic when it comes to what I bring to the table. I know that I'm not everyone's ideal of beauty, nor have the body type that they're after and didn't finish high school. That being said, I'm comfortable in my own skin. I'm active, can get by with my looks and body, intelligent enough to hold a conversation with all walks of life, kind, gentle, loyal, loving, witty with a great set of knockers (when holstered). I'd say I'm a 6.

When it comes to my potential partner, I'm just as realistic. I do not expect to pull a 9 in looks and status. What I look for is someone who looks after themselves, active, intelligent, witty, compassionate and kind.

 

I loves you :freehug:

 

Sweetheart, I'm not joking when I say you're a 10. You are BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT and just damn so desirable. I can't wait to meet you in person and chill at the ladies lounge with you. Love you honey. xoxo

 

Awwww thanks my love and straight back at ya!!!! The ladies lounge where ladies come to lounge would be honoured xxxxx

 

I equate being smart to wisdom about life and living, and intellect to being knowledgable about a wide variety of topics (i.e., street smart vs book smart, and intelligence vs wisdom). I like both.

 

Don't get mad at me for being honest. Here goes:

Ideal partner for me is tall, 6'4" or taller because I am 5'8". Large penis. No longer than 8 inches, no shorter than 7 inches. Circumference about 6 inches. No bigger. Body build should be well toned, but not exaggeratedly so. There's a slight turn off about seeing a guy so unnaturally toned that you know he has to spend so many hours in the gym to get that way, that it affects his schedule. Ideal partner is intelligent, well-read/cultured knows how to dress, speak, act classy. Has a good job. Doesn't have to make 100K a year, but did go to college and is fulfilling a career potential. Has good character, and lives according to the golden rule because he is very spiritual and a very positive person. Because he has lived long enough and experienced enough to understand the pointlessness of continuing to entertain his dark side, like a broken record. He has already lived through the dark night of his soul. I don't want someone who has not been tested yet.

I will settle for any height as long as he has a penis to my liking, then I couldnt care less about height, to be honest. And I don't care how much money a guy makes as long as he is not sitting around all day being lazy and leeching off people. Have a job, period. Everything else I mentioned is absolutely mandatory.

 

lmao

 

Which is why I'm going to be single for a very long time to come. Because I don't settle. I would rather be single for the rest of my life than be with someone who is not what I really want. My failed marriage taught me the importance of this. It is a harsh reality that many don't want to face. As for me I would rather face the harsh reality that it will be next to impossible to find someone like that, than to not face the reality that it's not worth settling for someone who is not what you really want out of life.

 

Rep added. You took the words right out of my mouth. Nothing is worse than making that mistake and being stuck in that situation.

 

Only those people who once made a decision in their heart to "stick it out", only to later find out they're "stuck", can appreciate the importance of not settling ever again. You obviously have been there as well.

 

That experience is also what taught me that what I thought was important in a mate, really wasn't.

 

Ideals don't exist and if they did how long before you got bored and moved on. I think the idea of being with someone for life is becoming less and less attractive to every day people

 

Part of me really wants to agree with you, but I think there is a fallacy there.

Even in ideal relationships, people get bored and move on if there was no real chemistry in the relationship in the first place. On the other hand, my relationship of almost a decade with my non ideal ex husband.... was fun, passionate, and interesting to the very end, it was very difficult for us to be apart, always together like John and Yoko type of thing, we probably false "broke up" a hundred times before I finally had the guts to do it for real for the both of us. We knew deep down we were both better off apart, but we had a very strong connection.

Ideals exist and they can greatly enhance a relationship, but are not what make or break a real-life relationship. In my case, however, I'm at a point in my life where I can no longer stand to settle.