You know...

I try to play nice. I come on here, I contribute to threads, I start threads, I behave like most people on here...I don't post hate, I post my opinion, I've had plenty of civil debates on here and been complimented on my posts countless times.

So why the fuck do I get hate on my rep?

I don't know what it is about my existence that brings haters out, but it's ok. Keep on hatin', cause if I bother you that damn much then I must be doing something right.

I keep thinking about leaving, because sometimes I get tired of the bullshit. I don't need any extra shit, I've got enough of it in my life offline. Most of us do, which is why when we come online we'd like a bit of peace. Now we all know we can't get away from the trolls, but it gets ridiculous when I can't even ask for advice on a very real, very uncomfortable situation without being accused of being a drama queen. Oh yes, I do love drama. So much that when my life gets dramalicious I do everything in my power to fix the situation.

Some of you need to wake the fuck up and realize that sometimes things happen beyond our control, and all we can do is react and deal with it.

If you don't like how I live my life then suck my imaginary dick. If you've got nothing better to do than come online and hate on people for no reason then my difficult life is still much better than yours. At least I'm not bored with nothing more productive to do than piss off people online.

 

Naw, don't leave the site. There's always gonna be haters right? So just try to ignore them. Is it like several people giving you shit, or just one person?

 

I've caught shit on here from the beginning. I'm not very well liked on this board.

It's been multiple people since I joined. I've caught shit for sharing and asking advice for my personal life, but others do the same and get nothing but help and politeness. I've caught shit because I stated a preference in penis size, others have stated the same and been lauded for their honesty.

And yeah, I know there's always gonna be haters, thus why I said I must be doing something right.

 

Hate is some people's way of saying 'DAMN, YOU ARE THE GREATEST' !!! Emgrace it and remember...they even hated on Jesus !!!


LMAO

just kidding, but for real...DO YOU AND SAY FUCC DA HATERS !!!

 

^^^^ Sorry, i meant to quote disposableheroine

 

I'm sure there are more people on this board who like you, more than those who don't. I would say you are well liked on this forum.

 

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"YOU GON SIT AT MY TABLE, JUDAS?!"

 

I know I am new here DH and am not privy to much of the history, but I think it would be great if you stayed.
:smt056

 

That's because you seem like an absolute sweetheart from what I've seen of you.

 

Don't leave.

We like you.

 

Hey we've all had our moments. Some of us have left and come back even.

Just consider the source. And remember they aren't paying your bills or living your life - it really does NOT matter what they think or say. While they are busy fussing about you it gives someone else a break.

If someone says something and it REALLY bothers you...well then maybe take a second and see if there is something there that you need to address and work on...if not...don't worry about it.

Just take it for what it's worth. Remember no one on here really knows anyone else unless they are together in person on a day to day basis. You never know who that person behind the computer may really be.

 

co-sign. and anyways, DH, as long as u don't offend and keep being civil, ppl can't say nothing to u. Who cares if they hate on you? U r cool . I think that everybody has their own haters here.

 

Eh, I'm not really the type to leave and come back. When I wash my hands of something online, that's it.

I just get tired of catching shit online. Nobody on here realizes how hard my life is, and has been from day one, except ChosenOne. And he says it's a testament to my strength that I'm even breathing right now. All the people who know me well agree.

I've had problems on here that were addressed in the past. I was told to just ignore it, got very little support, and then when the problem turned from me to other people the advice was forgotten, things were said, and suddenly everyone was jumping in to defend the new targets.

I mean, what, are my tits not big enough to be welcome around here? *rmfe*

With all the shit I've got going on, I don't need any extra bullshit from some place I choose to spend my time online. No one can tell me what to do with my time, I'll do what I damn well please, but if it's going to cause me extra stress then I'm not going to do it.

I get tired of all the fucking negativity. I prefer to surround myself with positive people. There are plenty of people who don't agree with me on here, but we manage to coexist, and that's the way it should be. But frankly sometimes I just don't want to hear the shit.

Hell, me and Tinkerbell don't seem to agree on almost anything from what I can tell, but we still get along quite well.

Like you said, everyone has their moments, and my moments are dictated by how stressful my life is at the time. Right now my life is REALLY stressful, and I'm tired of coming on here to relax and finding hate in my rep section.

If someone has a problem with me, fine, I can't change their opinion of me. But some people really need to learn how to keep shit to themselves.

 

From the moment of my conception there have been people who have been offended at my mere existence. I offend others by breathing.

 

I think your funny and tell a good story, plus you like Karaoke :smt020

Whats not to like I always appreciate the effort you put into your posts.

 

Sometimes it's good to take a break....maybe even just lurk for a bit.

The thing is that people are always going to be making more noise about negative than positive. Think about it - if everyone on here was just constantly posting how great everything is it would get boring rather quickly. People LIKE shit and drama - no matter how much they say they don't. It's our choice what we want to read or not.

DH ....you just never know what someone else has been through. I certainly know next to nothing about your life, and I can say with certainty that no one on here has any idea about mine really. Even with as much as I may post at times, chat, etc. there is very little specifics about my life, thoughts, opinions, and feelings shared. This is the internet. I don't know if the person seeming to be nice today is really some old pasty white guy getting his kicks of reading some of my stories or what.

We can't change anyone else. The only thing we can control is ourselves and our own behavior...how we react and respond to others. You may not be able to control what someone else says about you but you can control how you choose to respond and deal with it. You are letting these idiots have WAY too much time, energy, and power in your life. They feed off the attention that you are giving them directly or indirectly. So it's your choice.

maybe it's true that there are those who are offended merely by your breathing, presence, energy or whatever. So what?! The same could be said for anyone. You have a strong personality....I'm sure the same things that some hate about you others love.

And believe me, I know that it's tougher when you are tired, stressed, and all of that. But that's the time when you really need to gather strength and look to those who are supportive and truly not worry about those who aren't. Focus on what you need for you.

 

btw - for the record...I have no clue about the rep stuff...haven't taken the time to figure it out. I can't even figure out how to thank those who have given it to me

 

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I don't like drama. I've had too much of it.

The reference to people offended by my existence wasn't meant for anyone here. I was just born in the wrong time, wrong place, wrong everything.

Sometimes all we need is a nice word or two of encouragement, and sometimes the only way to get that is by bringing to attention something that's bothering us. I'd ask for hugs, but the digital ones aren't very substantial. I know what I need for me, and trust me, this stuff doesn't bother me after I walk out my door, which I'll be doing in just a few minutes so I'm not late for my job interview.

It's like those times when you're having a rough go of it, and one person does something stupid that sets you off and has you crying in the bathroom. It's not like you really took it to heart, what really happened is that you were already so filled up with stress and shit that one little thing caused the walls you'd been holding up precariously to tumble down.

Just because something annoys me doesn't mean I invest all my energy into it. I type 70 wpm and words come naturally to me. I appreciate the compliment francie gave me about the effort put into my posts, but in reality there is little to no effort in what I type online usually, unless it's a subject I'm particularly passionate about, then I'l do research to back up what I'm saying. Things like this? I just say what's on my mind. There's very little filter between what I say and what I think. I see no reason to bother with one unless I'm trying to be respectful, and I'm not respectful unless I'm speaking to someone I respect.

I also choose my topics according to environment. Right now I'm much more concerned with other things going on in my life that I don't really talk about on here...those are my priorities.

I'm really not as angry as I sound on here. I swear a lot, especially when I'm annoyed, but to me "annoyed" isn't "rage filled" nor do my annoyances take up all my energy. I figure a lot of people imagine me all red faced and puffing when I type about things that annoy me, but that's far from truth. In 10 minutes my thoughts are going to be on other, far more important things.

I just believe in speaking my mind, and if something bothers me I'm going to say something. It's not me trying to start shit, it's me calling attention to it. Trust me, darlin, the shit on this message board doesn't keep me awake at night.

But just because I know it's nowhere near as substantial as anything else I'm thinking about, doesn't mean I should keep quiet about it. I try hard not to be rude unless someone is rude to me first, and I don't like rudeness. So I'm gonna call it out when I see it.

 

Talk about a trip down memory lane. Now that song's gonna be stuck in my head all day!

haha, thanks.