Well said, IB. That's exactly where she was coming from. I've seen women get involved with men just like those she was describing. The saddest part about it is folks look at them & at videos like this & think it applies to all of us who date interracially. I agree that water does seek its own level. If she's not liking the type of men that approach her, she needs to figure out what she's putting out there that's attracting them. Yep, it's a constant battle. I agree. She was honest & what she talked about definitely exists. There's no point in getting bent out of shape over it.