WW, why don't you date WM::BM why don't you date BW?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by JennyArt, Sep 2, 2011.

  1. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    You know you just told on yourself, right?
     
  2. JennyArt

    JennyArt Restricted

    Yeah.......beacause I ment it.
    So you're just cruel. I actually thought you were a good person behind this hard veneer.
     
  3. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    I don't come here for kicks. Your opinion about my reasons for being here is duly filed in the round filing cabinet.

    I was welcomed here with open arms by the majority of posters, and made to feel like a part of the forum family, in spite of my decrepit age. You might ask yourself why our experiences here have been so different.

    No, I could not get good conversation at a white nationalist site.
     
  4. JennyArt

    JennyArt Restricted

    I've already mentioned here before that I've been on that site. It's called reconnaissance.
     
  5. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    case in point, i would never go to any of those sites...if a new poster mentions these sites it pretty much gives them away:razz:
     
  6. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    OOOOOOOOOOH, that's it!! It must be the MS that makes me like BM and WM. I'll have to tell my neurologist you've found a new symptom!! :)
     
  7. JennyArt

    JennyArt Restricted

    I visited the site.
     
  8. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    and I'm guessing this was stirring in your mind before you started this thread with the questions you did. But, to be honest neither way would've gone over well. So I understand why you framed the questions in such a manner, and these one line follow up questions seem like you are trying to find an answer the respondents are not giving you.

    Now that you are speaking plainly, is this really about the dynamic of this particular site, the dynamic of BM/WW coupling, or this site being a microcosm for that dynamic.

    You can see how we can be protective in any regard.

    There are numerous reasons why people come this forum. As long as they abide by the rules they can stay. Whether their stay will be pleasant depends on how they get along with the herd as someone implied earlier. How imperfect! But this is like every social dynamic.

    Now there are numerous ways we respond to discussions on BM/WW relations; we argue over some points, agree on others.

    Most of us are in agreement that our interracial partnering choice should not be seen in relation to those of the opposite gender in our own race (This is what members told you at the start of this thread).

    as more attractive than who. Black women

    Something happened that made them lean towards Black men?

    See, to apply causality to this dynamic relegates it to that of mono-racial couples who would never be asked the questions you asked us. The bigger question is if you think the dynamic you perceived on this site is a microcosm or applicable in the outside world.

    If you do, then many of us wonder why someone who thinks such a way would join this forum. The easy answer for folks would be a troll--and here we are.
     
    Last edited: Sep 3, 2011
  9. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    Reconnaissance? For what? After all, you said you came across this site by chance. What were you doing "reconnaissance" for? If any thing you being here & asking the question you ask would be "reconnaissance" for whatever site you truly consider yourself a faithful member of.
     
  10. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    If you want a second opinion...I'll consult Dr. William F. Minge! :) He'll provide some alternative methods. :p

     
  11. TheHuntress

    TheHuntress Well-Known Member

    What are you, the male Daria?

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  12. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    I have to spread my love before I can rep you again. Well said.
     
  13. JennyArt

    JennyArt Restricted

    Maybe you're simple. As I said it's called reconnaissance. One has to know what is out there. You cannot go through life.....ignorant.


    One a side note. SLOW IT DOWN PEOPLE. There is one of me 8 of you!
     
  14. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    Maybe if we all just say "WW are prettier, and BM all have BBCs" she'll go away?
     
  15. TheHuntress

    TheHuntress Well-Known Member

    I could see how relevancy could get exhausting.... trying to keep up with all of the ways our realities tie in the way we perceive the world and react to it- and how it reacts to us. :)

    Have one of these, it'll help. ;) lol

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  16. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member


    Not to mention the fact that I was making a joke. :)
     
  17. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    Point: most of us here don't have any interest in "White Nationalist" since most of us have encountered them in real life & already know what they "think". Wacy mentions she encounters them where she lives alot & so she is curious about their "thinking" because they always seem to target her because of her perfence for Black men.
     
  18. nolegal10

    nolegal10 New Member

    :smt036
     
  19. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    So no white nationalist in Newcastle? Hmmm...Wacy's always mentioning the ones out in Croydon. She knows alot about them.
     
  20. JennyArt

    JennyArt Restricted

    ....or maybe you find it hard to truely look at the man in the mirror. Life cannot be all roses 'n' fairies.
     

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