WW, why don't you date WM::BM why don't you date BW?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by JennyArt, Sep 2, 2011.

  1. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member


    Awwwww thanks sweet pea. You know I'm just kidding. It was such an invitation lol!
     
  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I was curious as to what you were going back to school for
     
  3. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member


    I am doing my M. Ed.
     
  4. BlondieLuvsBLK

    BlondieLuvsBLK New Member

    To the original question, I think it can't be a generic answer. Attraction is not a conscious made choice. You like what you like. Why do some women only like tall men, or some guys only like skinny girl, or redheads, brunettes etc. People who date outside their race should be complimented for their ability to break the pre-conceived notions that we should stay within our ethnic and cultural circles, and that it's wrong to do otherwise. I think to ask why someone likes what they like is unfair because it's subjective and can't be explained fully in words. Everyone should embrace diversity, expand their soul. The world would be a better place for it.
    m.
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    That's awesome. Wanna be an administrator?
     
  6. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member


    Not sure. I have Masters in other areas. I have 2 professions and I sort of alternate between them. One really burns me out so I need a break and go to the other one. I am looking for a way to combine the two, but on my terms.

    I think the M. Ed will let me get into policy work with out really going back in the field. I still want to do field work, but just not in the way I was doing before.
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    What are your degrees in?
     
  8. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    B.A. in Political Science, B.A. in Education, M.A. in International Relations, M.A. In International Conflict Resolution
     
  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Now that's hot :cool:
     
  10. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member


    I TOLD you.....school is sexy lol
     
  11. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member


    Wow! If someone else is paying........get in there!
     
  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Amen. I wish I had a job that would do that. I would even take 10 bucks an hour for one
     
  13. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    :smt103....:smt039
     
  14. qnet

    qnet New Member

    Nice post and, well said.
     
  15. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Thanks a lot I'll look into it. Hopefully they do advance degree programs too.
     
  16. Neostumptowner

    Neostumptowner New Member

    Thats a great question. I date WW(not exclusively, but mostly) because i feel that we share alot more in common intellectually, spiritually and same interests, than i do with bw.
    It isnt primarily physical, though i am attracted to ww physically alot and it isnt perceived cultural differences as most of them are American like I am and dont have many cultural differences to speak of.
     
  17. LittleBird

    LittleBird New Member

    Did Jenny get the ban hammer did she? Must scroll back through the pages and see...but right now I'm dying of boredom at work so I'll reply first to the original question.

    For me it is purely physical. Men are men, their character for me is individual and has nothing to do with colour. I love the dark skin, I'm simply more attracted to it, and the other features, more than that of white skin. That's all.

    Like the other poster said, it is the same as having a preference for fat or skinny or for blonde or brunette....I prefer dark skin :)
     
  18. LittleBird

    LittleBird New Member

    Chocolate. Because it tastes better.

    BM. Because they taste better. HA!

    Yep and people are only ever gay if they're abused when young. This is what gave it away for me....

    Although something did 'happen' to me - I moved to London and it opened my eyes to men of African descent (which we have little of in Aus) and from there it was no turning back. That said I have been involved in IR before, but with other nationalities...

    Yep, same for me re BM.
     
  19. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    22 pages in 5 days !!!!!!! ???????????? Damn
     
  20. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    I like this answer best.
     

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