WW please answer me -- why BM in particular?

lol.........true true true Daphnel

 

I have found in my life that black men are simply more romantic and care more about pleasing me than the white or latino men that I have been with.

 

Lucifer is an Angel of Light Sardonic...he can see things we mortals can`t

Well, about this thread...it is interesting to note that many WW that are with BM actually NEVER thought about being with a BM before...and they weren`t "into" BM and it just happened!

I guess when the first one is good, then they stay with a positive view of BM...but did any of u WW here have a first IR that went bad?? and did u still find BM sooooo attractive after that??? :roll:

 

For me, the first relathionship that I had with a BM went terribly wrong and ended VERY badly. In fact, I would say that no man has ever hurt me as much... however, I am still way "into" BM.

I guess I gots the fever real bad! :lol:

(I'm just kidding around... I know it's not PC to say that!! Don't get all offended folks!)

 

JREMINATOR wrote:

Peargirl

Pretty much same here.
He was sweet and tender and funny and very intelligent but a very deceitful person also (and good at hiding it lol).. It was long distance relationship too so probably this added to how things progressed as well.
But why would all BM be the same? I've given up on LD relationships, not BM

 

Sorry to burst your bubble XXX, but it's the individual, not your "chocolate complexion." Nor do I buy into other analogies and metaphors you like to label black men. "Muscular bodies?" I think I see as many obese black men as I do muscular ones here in L.A. Itt's all about the individual. My boyfriend, he's black, doesn't have what you would label black only attributes...sensuous lips, enormous calves, etc. What he does have is an incredible mind and a beautiful heart. He is very sweet and respects me as a person and not an object. Again, it's all about the individual. By the way, I also find asian men very appealing...are you still breathing? My friends and I always stare at handsome asian men, as well as other races. Not only that, some of my girlfriends have brought an asian man home from a club. And yes, we like to talk about how hung they are. In fact, my boyfriend wouldn't appreciate me saying this but the most well endowed and sexually satisfying man I've ever been with was Filipino.

 

Yes! Yes! Yes! Whoo! You go girl!

1. About as many obese black men as any other race - SAY IT SISTER! It's all about the individual.

2. Asian men are hot and sexy! What about the guy from "The Fast and the Furious"? What about my first boyfriend (Korean)?? I was sitting at a cafe the other day STARING at this fine Asian man, construction worker, his helmet said "Mr. Kim", and Mr. Kim was HOT AS HELL!

 

thats sad, now we should call this website Individualwomenandindividualmen.com

no longer is this site about white women interested in black men and vice versa

 

:smt103

 

This site also isn't bashblackwomen.com and I have to tolerate reading that from a few too many.

I just erased what I wrote because I realized it was a personal attack. But, tuckerreed - there are a an abundance of threads you have started, thread-jacked, or simply responded to that have left quite a few readers thinking :roll: (what tha...)

I believe you have no right to comment.

 

OH, you noticed this TOO? :roll: :wink:

 

How the hell did we go from asking white women about their attraction to black men to Asian men being sexier to some white women who are (for some oddball reason) posting in here, and then tuckerreed? :roll:

Seriously, you folks who get into these types of debates, need to learn how to think for yourselves, obviously.

 

The author of the thread tried to pass off his observation as fact. That is why I wanted to dispel some myths. Promoting a race in a positive light is one thing. Doing so by slandering other races is another. He did it in a passive and crafty manner that's frankly, bush league. I've always defended IR relationships when my white male friends poked fun at ww-bm being together. I'll do the same when black males ridicule am-ww relationships or any other type of IR relationship.

He writes:
"Even when a black man has features that are typically more Asian (like slanted eyes or a slender, effeminate build like Tyson Beckford) it's seen as more sexy than if the Chinaman had it." Later, "Obviously you could point to ways in which we are "gifted" over Chinese men physically, and that has certainly been trumpeted." How about this one, "But as time rolled on I noticed that the desire was there in the Asian men - however the same was not true of the WW. They almost always preferred black males."
BTW, He underlined always. OK. Point taken...this is sexual propaganda. (wow, maybe I should ALWAYS prefer black males too...come on girls, times a wastin').

Does he know that Tyson's dad is half Chinese?
If I were to believe the myth that Chinese men are effeminate, am I also to believe the myth that black men are dumb? Of course not. That would be shortsighted and anachronistic with modern beliefs. My boyfriend is one of the most brilliant and creative men I've ever met. He's not an exception to any rule either, as I've met so many other clever and quick-witted black men. So much for that myth. And the same runs true when I mentioned the asian guy I was with. Nothing effeminate about that mastodon. My girlfriends and I, long ago came to the consensus that asian men are just as beautiful as anyone else and certainly can be very "gifted" below the belt. Very. Moreover, we would talk about having their babies since half white and half asian babies are so cute. I'd give more examples from my girlfriends' and my own experiences but I don't want to give anyone here a heart attack. This is all contrary to what was written by the author of this thread. That white women do find Asian men very appealing.

One attribute I like in men is confidence and when asked "what is it about me that you love so much" (paraphrasing), it comes off as being unsure yet presumptuous. Any confident man knows what he's got. He doesn't have to ask throngs of people to help bolster his ego. This self-serving call to white women to proclaim their piety to black men is embarrasing and certainly not sexy.

Then he actually itemizes some attributes, "Is it our choclate complexion(s)? Our muscular bodies? Our perfect eyes? Our sensous lips? Or our enormous calves? " Whoa. That's a little creepy. This laughable list makes him sound somewhat questionable. I'm referring to the fringe subculture of african american men "on the down low." Sorry to bring that up but I don't know any man, excluding gay friends, that would take such stock of other men. I just showed this to some co-workers and we all had a good chuckle.

I like black men and want to talk to all of you who do to. But it was indeed XXX that went off course first when he decided to unnecessarily deride other races. How about this, I'll stick to the subject of WW-BM, my original intention when I visited, as long as the other members stick to it as well. Sounds fair?

 

thanks melissa and sardonic

 

You 're welcome, and what's the point of this site anyway, if the discussions continue to turn out like this?

I guess I can finally agree with the trolls (and some lurkers) on THAT point.

 

No problem tuckerreed. Thanks for lending your ear. Now that we got all that squared away, let's enjoy the board. So much to learn, so little time.

 

SardonicGenie:

So because I'm not EXCLUSIVELY attracted to black men, I don't belong on this board - even though I've been sleeping with one exclusively for the last four years?

Interesting. :roll:

You guys wonder why so few white women post - maybe because they don't find this a very pleasant place to be?

I understand those women who don't post much, or have stopped posting. There's too much negativity going on, which you guys may think is "no-nonsense", "straight up" , "not politically correct" - whatever, it's just rude and and people don't want to be insulted. People have, as Seychelles said, better things to do with their time. I think I'll follow suit.

Good luck to everyone.

 

Personally, I think XXX is a lunatic who's in the closet. I have been with 3 asian men. Know many ww who have too. I also like black, hispanic, white, you get the picture. I think Melissa hit it on the head when she said XXX is fooling himself. I applaud Moskvichka for backing her up. It was an anti-hate, pro-IR relationship message after all. The hubbub was over the fact it wasn't the right brand of IR-relationship the guys on this site want to promote. Hopefully next time, someone like XXX will reconsider posting against other groups. Because iin reality, if a white woman is into black men, chances are great she's into other races. She'll probably come to the defense of the wronged.Just like Melissa,Moskvichka, and I did.
Come on black guys, don't start acting like white guys from the 17th century. and what ever you do guys, don't insult italian men. You thought this was bad. :lol:
Peace and love.

 

If you had actually took the time to read my post without treading water with your imagination, then you would've realized that I didn't say any of this crap you wrote in your response to me, nor did I imply it, so go and waste somebody else's time with your oversensitive, overly subjective nonsense about what we mean and what we post. :roll: I didn't say nor did I imply that you had to only be attracted to black men to post in here. YOU DID. Furthermore, many of the men in here aren't only attracted to white women, and as long as this site is 'exclusive', then it shouldn't matter to anyone who is or isn't exclusively attracted to white women and/or black men, as long as they don't try to announce it all over the forums, defeating the purpose of the site just because they're too overly subjective, paranoid, and lack the reading comprehension skills to understand that they're only mad at one man in the forums, and still feel the need to take it out on all of the men, LIKE YOU.

Don't flatter yourself into thinking that you'll be missed all of a sudden, and that I'll regret your depature either. :roll:

 

I appreciate nearly all of Moskvichka's posts.