WW kindness needed

In all honestly, it has been the worst week. Compliments about me would be like gold right now. We have had conversations but they have been about ladies, comments about me, anything will be appreciated. Sleep well and don't forget me!

 

Pity the man...

I could continue and we could engage in dialogue about what was meant and what the bottom line is...

Be who you really are... Say what you really want to say.... Actions speak louder than words...

Represent!

But as a human, never seek pity.... :smt067

 

R U SRSLY THO?

 

I think he is serial

Pointers jaisee?

 

So you think I am a pussy for asking for help?

 

From your posts you need to work on upping how you feel about yourself vs asking for kindness. The number one trait women desire in a man is confidence per a study. From your posts you don't seem confident in your skin, literally or figuratively. Good luck. :smt056

 

Agreed

 

Sorry to hear you had a bad week.
Learning self- confident is not easy. It's a verrrrry long road.
And even self confident people have a bad day or week once in a while where a kind word would be appreciated by them.
Just keep in mind that the rain won't stay forever.There is sunshine after each rain again

 

Confident just unsure why it seems to be that only older women are attracted to me. Actually I get compliments on on my lips, skin and hair. My skin color is unique because I am very light skinned during the winter, I am only a few shades darker than my mother, you can even see my veins. But I expect responses like this when I am bored, post, and am about to fall asleep.

 

I didn't mention I also had my heart broken a few months ago so the confidence was a little shot, but getting back to normal. It's hard when you can't be with the one person you love the most.
Thank you for your kind words

 

With each milestone/success you hit in life you become more confident with yourself. When I was 20 I would have never walked up to a guy I liked and started something.........25........I may have more so than before........and so on. Maybe you are gaging their confidence as something about you when really it's about them and where they are at in life. Same goes for men. :smt102

 

My attitude is improving already!

 

How old are you?

 

why does it matter how old he is? bottom line everyone here does this just in different ways...he came right out and asked for some lovin where others do this to get noticed:

they post completely naked pictures of themselves
they post pictures of themselves in very little clothing
they post their feet, favorite nail polish color
they win hearts by posting the best pictures of other people
they write long posts to show they are an authority on the subject
they share their own art or craft
they share creative writing pieces
they put up a video of themselves talking or singing

i could go on and quite frankly i have done a few of these myself...i used to get tons of lovin for my creative writing here...

i don't see anything wrong with what galiant asked for...he may not be as shy as he thinks in fact to me this seems like a very direct approach...he also appears to be very willing to show and express feelings which many men are not good at...

just saying...

 

welcome to reality

 

I actually enjoy all those things. Isn't the point of a forum for conversation, community and sharing?? Much in the way FB is.

I might not know people half way around the world if not for this forum. I love to see nyx's posts or nic or yeah.....naked ymra. I enjoyed your's and christine's creative writing. I don't see thim as asking for attention really. :smt102 Most of the people on here lead full, fulfilled lives and or have significant others who give them attention. People come here for all different reasons. Boredom and sharing ideas seems to be the main reason.

If we didn't have those posts the board would only be celebs or guys posting I think I can get laid if I go to Russia . Making this post to say to those who do don't stop. I enjoy the posts. :smt006

 

Agreed.

 

Co-sign ... why can't someone come on a place where they are supposed to have "virtual friends" and just let the stress of the week pour out by asking for thoughts, prayers, etc??

 

jordon...i wasn't suggesting that anyone stop...just shedding some light on the reality of the situation...i think we all know that what galiant is asking is no different than what other people expect just in a different format...if someone posts a picture they do it with anticipation of positive feedback...it makes a person feel good when someone comments positively to something they post whatever that may be...the fact that some made fun of him for doing so in such a direct manner lead me to point out that this is something we all do...myself included...i enjoyed your barely dressed photos...you have a cute little body :smt045