Would you ever marry someone who never wants kids?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by craxy, Jan 29, 2009.

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  1. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    No.



    (Oprah would be my only exception to this.)
     
    LA, Apr 14, 2009
    #141
  2. AfroLove

    AfroLove Restricted

    I don't want children or even to get married. If I ever did get married, I'd rather adopt than have biological children.
     
    AfroLove, Apr 17, 2009
    #142
  3. craxy

    craxy Restricted

    That's the spirit.
     
    craxy, Apr 17, 2009
    #143
  4. 89sounds

    89sounds New Member

    Nope
     
    89sounds, Feb 24, 2012
    #144
  5. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    That was my original plan.
     
    4north1side2, Feb 24, 2012
    #145
  6. LibraPrincess

    LibraPrincess Well-Known Member

    Nope.
     
    LibraPrincess, Feb 24, 2012
    #146
  7. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Hell yes!

    Kids are basically pollution lol:D
     
    Iggy, Feb 24, 2012
    #147
  8. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Sure! I'm not fixated on anything.
     
    Morning Star, Feb 24, 2012
    #148
  9. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    If they don't want kids and they want me theyre ass out. I have kids! Their loss! Lol
     
    Stizzy, Feb 24, 2012
    #149
  10. bmanz

    bmanz Member

    This.
     
    bmanz, Feb 24, 2012
    #150
  11. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    At this point it wouldn't be an issue since I wouldn't be having more kids of my own anyway. When I was younger, I pictured myself with two or three (& a husband of course) in the future, & I don't think at that time I would've been willing to stay with someone who didn't want kids in their future. I also wouldn't have any interest in anyone who had a problem with the fact that I have a child.

    I've dated men who don't want children (since my son is grown that is), & I've dated men who did want them but understood I wasn't having more kids of my own. I have dated men with children, & that was fine as long as I didn't have to give birth to them or deal with any crazy baby mama drama. I would have no problem with being a step-mom.
     
    Tamstrong, Feb 24, 2012
    #151
  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Amen. As crazy as it sounds, there are actually assholes who think it's reasonable to expect the people they date to put them & their wants/needs before those of their children's. Sadly, there are men & women with kids who do just that. It's a damn shame IMO.
     
    Tamstrong, Feb 24, 2012
    #152
  13. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    There is a chance that I may not be able to have kids due to a medical/physical issue.So I would even prefer someone who would be okay with possibly not having children. It is okay if he had a kid or 2 already from a previous relationship,as long as it's not half a dozen kids by several women.
    I have nothing against kids,but don't necessarily need to have some of my own or adopted.
     
    Be-you-tiful86, Feb 24, 2012
    #153
  14. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Sometimes I just want the kids no spouse lol
     
    The Dark King, Feb 24, 2012
    #154
  15. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Hater :p
     
    wtarshi, Feb 24, 2012
    #155
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    You seem to be doing just fine. So don't call me a hater just following your lead boo lol
     
    The Dark King, Feb 24, 2012
    #156
  17. emmabest

    emmabest New Member

    I have no pressing plans, but I would definitely want a baby one day
     
    emmabest, Feb 24, 2012
    #157
  18. bmanz

    bmanz Member

    This is a good outlook.

    There is a difference between not being able to have kids verses not wanting kids for whatever reason.
     
    bmanz, Feb 24, 2012
    #158
  19. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I already have a son, so I would LOVE to date/marry someone who doesn't want children! :cool:
     
    orejon4, Feb 24, 2012
    #159
  20. Nikkers

    Nikkers Well-Known Member

    I love kids and want them someday so... I don't think I'd ever end up with someone that never wanted kids.
     
    Nikkers, Feb 24, 2012
    #160
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