Would you ever marry someone who never wants kids?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by craxy, Jan 29, 2009.

  1. craxy

    craxy Restricted

    I know the overwhelmingly majority of people want kids, as opposed to people who never do.:(

    Would you ever marry someone who never wants kids? Childfree people need love too.;)
     
  2. untitled1985

    untitled1985 Member

  3. socalgirl

    socalgirl New Member

    Only if they can handle the ones I already have!
     
  4. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member

    Probably.
    I've never really wanted kids until about a year ago.
    It's only recently that I've come to accept that maybe, just maybe, a little boy would be quite sweet...
    But yeah, I could probably live with not having kids.
     
  5. SirNice

    SirNice New Member

    I would.....b/c I have a little devil already...no need in creating more than one of them...ahah


    btw, this OXE guy is a posting factory
     
  6. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    Yeah.
     
  7. craxy

    craxy Restricted

    Is there a problem?
     
  8. Tinkerbell

    Tinkerbell New Member

    I would be happy to marry a man who did not want kids. I already had 4 raised them and they no longer live with me.

    But he would have to love children, because I have wonderful, beautiful grandkids and I plan to spend lots my time spoiling them.
     
  9. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    I have a 6 year old, so no. I can't be with someone who wouldn't want kids. Not only does he have to treat me well, but he has to love and treat my daughter well. Now, if he has no interest in kids, then that might not be the case.

    Of course, I grew up never wanting kids myself. Opinions have a way of changing. Now I don't know what I would do without my little one.

    :D
     
  10. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Nope, I want to be biologically significant.
     
  11. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    When I was younger no, as I wanted kids. Now I don't want anymore, so I would not be with someone who wanted more kids.
     
  12. tbron

    tbron New Member

    in short no.
     
  13. craxy

    craxy Restricted

    I guess I'll answer my own question. Definitely yes!:grin::smt080
     
  14. redlady

    redlady Active Member

    me too.
     
  15. socalgirl

    socalgirl New Member

    I guess what I meant too was that for me, it's different because I already have kids. So if I meet someone and fall in love with them and decide to spend the rest of my life with them....and they're cool with the ones I have and don't want anymore, then that's fine. If they want kids of their own....well....they should probably meet mine first and spend some time with them so that the fully understand the capacity to which I produce sassy offspring, just like their mother.
     
  16. SirNice

    SirNice New Member


    you want to make it a problem brah??? you dont shake nothing up in here homie....







    just playing...hahah
     
  17. dudaroosky

    dudaroosky New Member

    nope...nor would I marry a woman who already has kids.
     
  18. scylla

    scylla New Member

    Definitely. I don't seem to have any bone in my body even mildly interested in getting kids in the next 10 years, and most marriages die within that time limit anyway.

    I would probably not marry someone who really really want kids, I would feel guilty the whole time for robbing them of the possibility of getting what they want most.
     
  19. craxy

    craxy Restricted

    That would be my type of woman - no kids ever.

    I wish there were more women who never want kids. I would definitely marry her.
     
  20. Liquid Swords

    Liquid Swords New Member

    Yes, but they'd have to have a slight interest in kids because of my little one.
     

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