Would you date a Guy

Younger than you, let us say by 10 or 20 yrs?

What is the appt age difference, if there is one?

Is it appt. for Demi Moore who is about 48 and her hubby is hmm 28?

 

I think age is a mind over matter, i was 20 when i meant my ex-husband and he was 38. We got married shortly after we meant. That is a eighteen years difference but i never thought about it like it was a bad or good thing that is was that much of a difference. I think if you really want to be with someone and you fall in love then that is all that matters. :???:

 

At this point, yes. Not 20 years younger, but 10 for sure. Men my age want women half my age so it presents a problem.

 

I think there is only about a 13 year age difference between Demi and Ashton. I'm too lazy to look it up right now though. :lol:

But, yes I would. It all depends on his maturity level though. Some guys do break away from the pack and mature quicker than most guys the same age. So, it's really an individual thing. If the maturity level is up to par with mine, then I wouldn't question the age difference.

 

I stay away from younger guys. There's nothing in common, and they make me feel old. I prefer a man who's a little older, because - you guessed it! - he makes me feel YOUNG!

 

So what ya sayin', age is nuthin but a number?

 

I would not date more than 5 yrs younger I think, but then I never thought I'd date younger at all till now. So who knows....

 

Plus, when I get complimented on my intelligence, maturity and class (which happens a lot), again I'd rather hear it from an older man than a lil' boy.

 

I agree with Bookworm, it depends on the individual's maturity level. Yes Green Zorro, age is a just number.

There's lots of men older than me that make me question if they'd just had the umbilicus cut, lol!

 

Nah, I wouldn't say that. Age is still age. It's how they deal with the age that makes a difference. Does that make sense?

 

It is not the age that counts but the mileage! You can find someone who had a significant life experience growing up and that person would be Mature before they hit 30. On the flip side, you can run into someone who is close to 50 and don't know jack about life due to lack of experience or ignorance.

 

That's exactly what I once said to one guy. Some guys are more mature at 29 than other guys at 39, and some guys at 29 and 39 take such bad care of themselves that they look 55.

Back in Russia I had a classmate who was my first crush when I was 14. He was tall, athletic and had dark hair and blue eyes. Well I got back in touch with him through the classmates site now that we're both in our late twenties. The guy has wrinkles all over his face and is losing his hair rapidly. I showed the picture to my brother, he couldn't believe the guy was my age. He thought it was someone in his fifties.

 

I have dated older women more than once , initially i don't give my real if she insist i will lie about it. My first girl friend was 12 years older than me ,she couldn't do much after she discover my real age ... she was already so in love with me.

I always find excuses to not give my real age to women/people ... i think older women are sexier and more caring...

 

Agreed. I've met people of many different ages and maturity levels. That's why I said it depends more on how mature the guy is vs. using his age as the only frame of reference on whether or not I'd date him.

 

Personally, I would not date an almost 4 y/o or an almost 14 y/o :smt081

 

Nah im not really into younger men, never dated anyone younger or the same age they have always had at least 4 yrs on me,
Cant see myself doing the toyboy thing when im older, ive left orders with my friends, that if i turn into one of those women grabbing the asses of young men in the club, im to be taken to the nearest field and shot like a horse with a broken leg. :smt072

 

A man ten years younger than me would be 17, which is the age of the seniors I teach. So, lol, no (to the disappointment of some, I'm sure.)

I've been with guys 19 and 20, and they only had beer and p***y on the brain. Nice to have fun with, but no long-term potential.

 

I would date someone 10 years younger than me, 20 years younger and I'd end up in jail LOL, but I wouldn't date someone that much older. Having said that, if I met someone and didn't know their age and we hit it off etc and I found out later he's much older than me it wouldn't make a difference. But on the general, I don't date anyone more than two or three years older than me.

 

Ain't that the truth. Its all a state of mind really. I know I definitely feel about 10 years younger than my age and act it too which is why I don't really find too much in common with older men but then again it all depends on the man.

 

I'll tell you...in my experience the "age is just a number" comment usually comes from younger folks. I used to say it myself when I was young and dated older men.

I think what you said is very true. The maturity level is the most important thing. Some people just seem to be more grounded and have and older soul at a much younger age and then others seem to be more flighty and have a much younger soul at a much older age.

I've been one who has been rather negative about the idea of younger men. But the truth is that I still have 2 very young children and many men my age or older are done (or close to being done) with wanting to raise young children.

I think it just really depends on the person. I'm trying to take people as they are and keep an open mind.