Women and light skinned black men. Is there a problem?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Galiant, Feb 24, 2012.

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  1. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    The reason I said anything is because in post after post in a multitude of threads, the light/dark skin topic is almost all you talk about, & enough is enough already.

    It's good that you don't have an issue with yourself, but I don't think you realize how you come across in your posts. You seem to be a nice guy, but you seem to worry too much about what people think of you, & you're way too hung up on what others are doing. Just because you think most of the WW here prefer dark men doesn't mean that's the case, & just because you think there are few light men here doesn't mean that's the way it is either. I know of several light skinned men on the site. I've seen a variety of skin tones in the pics of men we ladies post, & few have voiced a specific preference. Even if a woman has a preference for one or the other what difference does it really make? Do you have an issue with dark skinned men or WW who are attracted to them? Honestly, many of your posts don't make much sense (no offense), & it's often hard to tell where you're coming from. Why do you assume that you are being ignored based on the lightness of your skin when it most likely has nothing to do with it?

    You need to chill & stop taking everything so seriously. Quit analyzing everything to death & taking everything so personally. Stop looking at who a woman chooses to date as if she picked him over you. Just because one woman might not be into you doesn't mean there's not another one out there who is. PLEASE, stop harping on the light/dark topic already.

    I'm done now. Peace.
     
    Tamstrong, Mar 8, 2012
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  2. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Nice Tam, nice. Preach the truth sista! Lol
     
    Stizzy, Mar 8, 2012
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  3. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Awaiting your response
     
    Stizzy, Mar 8, 2012
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  4. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    A lot of topics are brought up again and again including what women want, who they prefer. If she wants dark over light, then be my guest.
     
    Galiant, Mar 8, 2012
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  5. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thanks, Stizzy. ;) lol


    LOL!
     
    Tamstrong, Mar 8, 2012
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  6. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Very well said. This is what its all about.

    At the end of the day everyone likes what they like, if you are a dude taking care of your business you won't even worry about the next guy. You're confident in you own game.

    Yeah it might not be a nice feeling if the chick likes the next guy over you for whatever reason, but haven't you liked the next girl over a girl who may have liked you.

    I remember that I have had girls I don't like taking a shine to me and I would do everything to avoid them, because I didn't like them in that way.

    I'm attracted to white women, but I have also encountered some I would not want to date after seeing their personalities didn't appeal to me.

    Are there groups of women that like dark skin men, Yes
    Are there groups of women that like light skin men, Yes
    Are there groups of women that like Nordic men, Yes
    Are there groups of women that like men that treat them like shit, Yes
    Are there groups of women that like men who are respectful, Yes

    This is all part of living. Nothing is etched in stone. Handle your own and forget the rest.
     
    GQ Brotha, Mar 8, 2012
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  7. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    I've found that women in general like confident men (regardless of skin color). Granted some women have their preferences and frankly, so do we as men. I guess what I am trying to say is that she may prefer darker skin, but I am quite sure a woman will prefer confidence, the ability to talk to a woman without sounding like a stupid or overly horny asshole, and a nice smile. Skin color is just a plus for some. Good luck man.
     
    luvattractivewomen, Mar 8, 2012
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  8. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    Thanks for the unexpected post. ;)
     
    Galiant, Mar 9, 2012
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  9. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    You're welcome.
     
    luvattractivewomen, Mar 9, 2012
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  10. Sonny Dragon

    Sonny Dragon Well-Known Member

    Call me crazy, but I always thought it was a matter of personal preference.
     
    Sonny Dragon, Mar 11, 2012
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  11. Alinoa

    Alinoa New Member

    It is.
    Some prefer dark skin.
    Some prefer light skin
    Some prefer both.
    Some prefer none.
     
    Alinoa, Mar 11, 2012
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  12. fantasyfangrl

    fantasyfangrl New Member

    Nope, not crazy. It is all about preference. BUT, I have met some lighter skinned men that have voiced "doubts" about themselves as far as attracting WW because they think they are too light. To me, it has more to do with your confidence level than the lightness/darkness of your skin.
     
    fantasyfangrl, Mar 11, 2012
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  13. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Great posts, y'all. :smt023
     
    Tamstrong, Mar 11, 2012
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